Would you date a former pornstar?

I'm a former pornstar who needed money for college so I did porn. Is that a deal breaker would you still date me?
I prefer not to tell anyone but sometimes guys recognize me...
1 4

Most Helpful Guys

  • I wouldn't mind it that much. Being a former pornstar is not really that big of a deal for me. If my girl would still do porn I might think differently about it, but that depends on a lot of factors. Being a former portstar with a good reason for having done porn (like you for example) makes it even easier and I would be fine with it.
    I do have to say that I would feel much more insecure in bed tho, since she would've had much more experience and much better bedpartners.

    Besides that I'm fine with it. If I like her I like her, doesn't matter what she did in the past

  • You're fine the only ones who wouldn't date or even judge you for it are because they're insecure me personally I wouldn't care and hey they get to brag about saying they're dating a pornstar although I probably wouldn't do that I realize that at the end you're doing you and if that's what you needed to do to get by it's totally fine

Most Helpful Girls

  • mmm No. If I were you I would definitely continuing keep that info to yourself, all the guys who are saying yes to you are more than likely seeing you now as their own potential porn star in the bedroom for sex and not a potential girlfriend/wife. A lot of men will treat you differently if you tell them so definitely keep it to yourself. But I'm sure you will find someone eventually.

    • I wouldn't date a pornstar for the simple fact that I take sex seriously. I wouldn't like the idea of sharing my boyfriend/husband with another woman.. or possible guy. Don't care how much money he makes, sleeping with tons of people then coming home to me, sleeping in the same bed, and possible kissing me afterwards is too awkward and gross for me. Plus there's the risk of std's, i know it's mandatory for some to get an std screenings but it' still a possibility to catch something. Just wouldn't like it.

  • I would. He's probably really hung.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

4 64
  • Wouldn't matter a bit. It's just a job. But I would expect thermonuclear sex.

  • Nah. I heard a lot of them have issues because of the injection they take, it essentially just ruins their pp. Plus they rarely care about testing and STDs and stuff.

    • False

    • Maybe so. I dont know any personally, but that's what I heard from them online.

    • If you are in the actual porn industry with a studio behind you they are very stringent with testing. And the vagina does not get damaged from having a lot of penises cum in them. Where they do have problems is when they have frequent anal sex with something larger than a penis. That causes problems later down the road.

    • Show All
  • I feel it wouldn't be a problem. Im confident enough not to worry about your past. Did you end up enjoying the experience? I'm genuinely curious

  • if she isn't in the industry anymore and has been tested negative for any and all STDs
    i would because i am fr 2and chances.

  • No. Clearly we have different values. Sex matters, its intimacy and its what builds a connection between two people and a pornstar has made it valuless and meaningless. It was a job not intimacy, it was work not fun and they have had sex with so many people that they are not able to truly appreciate any bond they make with some one else (based upon all the statistical data we have avialable on promiscuity).

  • It's a deal-breaker to me, but sluttiness is a deal-breaker to me anyway, pornstar or no pornstar.

  • I wouldn't care, as long as you don't have any diseases haha. I would definitely be off put if someone recognized you in public while I was there. In the end, if I really liked you, that would not be a very difficult thing to overlook.

  • Yes i would. I know pornstars are very clean and it's a job. I dont judge the past as long as it's not really disgusting stuff. anyway PM me your pornstar name, asking for a friend 😅

  • yes... things like that dont bother me but i feel it would bother a lot of other people

  • Nope.

  • Of course. Might not want to see those videos tho they would make me jealous. Tbh i am good with dating a pornstar anyway longs if there doing solo stuff or heck who knows with me. Longs she ain't doing it with any other guys when were together it's all good.

  • God there is so much porn online and so many porn stars why worry about that?

  • tbh my answer used to be no but now it really doesn't matter

    • if any of the films or scenes you are in happen the be online. there is a good chance someone will notice you now and then.
    • since once something goes online it ends up. being viewed and shared by many people. when it comes to any kind of pornography. so you've got that label for live now more or less.
    • not sure how I would feel able dating a former porn star. however I would at least chat with them. to see if we happened to have a connection or not. something more then just e physically one.
  • Probably not.

  • Nope.

  • Hypothetically if I wasn’t taken, I would date a former porn star who wasn’t well known. I wouldn’t date someone who still has a huge following from their porn career

  • No I try not to judge but it will get to me. Her videos are out there for everyone to see I'm a little to possessive for that. Plus unlike to be super comfortable with my partner with sex so we can explore. It would make uncomfortable knowing so many were there before and that would poison the relationship. They would need someone that wasn't hung up on that stuff

  • It's certainly not a deal breaker. You needed money, and you found a way to legally make money. I'll never knock someone for making a legal (or even not so legal, sometimes) living.

  • Show More (48)