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  • for sure. let me address the first issue - if you’re dating just for sex, then you’re not looking for a girlfriend but for a friends with benefits/FB/prostitute or sex toy.
    secondly, though deepthroat feels AMAZING for us guys during blowjobs, i feel like there are SO many other ways to make us feel good. i’ve had so many blowjobs - from mind-blowing deepthroats to more sensual “head licking” and what i’ve found is there is more than one way to make us orgasm. i’ve orgasmed from deepthroating as well as just regular head and they feel equally good.
    in my opinion (though i really really love deepthroating), deepthroating is not a MUST in bed but certainly a plus point if she can do it. people think that all good blowjobs must incorporate deepthroating or face fucking but that’s just the result of the unrealistic expectations of porn. if a girl can’t deepthroat and still tries her best to do it or make us feel good with her blowjobs, then we better be grateful. sex/blowjobs are important but that’s not the main point of relationships and dating. hope this clarifies! chat back if you need further clarification.

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  • Sure. In fact, most younger women can't.

    Back in the 60s & 70s, it was very common for people to have their tonsils removed, allegedly for medical reasons. This also had a side effect of opening up the back of the mouth, which is important for deep-throating.

    The practice of removing tonsils as a routine thing mostly ended in the 80s, as better information proved that it was rarely helpful or necessary, and so today, only in more extreme cases to people have their tonsils removed. No surprise, many women today find it impossible to deep throat no matter how motivated they might be, but it seems that not many people have put 2 and 2 together and figured out that having tonsils is a problem that women who grew up in the 50s, 60s, and 70s usually didn't have.

    • My ex did not have her tonsils removed and was able to do it. I don't think this is a factor.

    • @HawkPerception Of course some can, but for a LOT of girls, it's the most likely reason she can't. It's definitely a factor. Not the whole story, but a factor.

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  • yes. More to dating than blow jobs.

  • Of course!
    That deep throat thing is such bullshit. It's just another example of some extreme thing on porn that dumb asses developed a fetish fantasy for.
    I actually hate the idea of forcefully skull fucking a woman. I hate that gagging noise they make on porn. And I hate massive amounts of saliva drooling out of their mouths.
    A good blow job is an art. It's sensual. In the process, I'll let a woman demonstrate her skill. She can take me as deep as she wants to. But there's way, way more to it than deep throating.
    When I'm ready to fuck something, it won't be her throat. It will be her tender pussy.

  • I'm NOT dating her to FUCK her tonsils ~

  • Sure. Other blow jobs are wonderful, too.

  • Sure, don't like bj's, so no issues

  • I'm a virgin so, yes. This matters little to me.

  • If she can’t follow DT instructions, forget it.

    • That's hot

  • Yes I would I mean I love getting head but I would rather please the woman pleases the girl then her sucking on my cock I like more internet one on one there is a sensual intense feeling you get when you can get hurt so freaking hot and not let her come and I love taking her there and keeping her there until she can't take it anymore and then I'll make you come hard but keep going because I want to come with her the next time

  • LOL There would have to be something wrong with a guy who thought that deepthroating was "that" important... LOL

  • I have before. Besides, sex isn't always important in relationships.

    I've left multiple women because they wanted too much sex, and didn't want to give time for other aspects in the relationship.

    They removed the intimacy of sex, the got, you could say, a-dick-ded lol.

    But no really they got addicted.

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