Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Would you date a girl with a "slut" reputation?
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So i met this girl, and really like her, she is super cute and funny........BUT and its a big BUT When my friend saw her he said "i saw you talking to........Damn bro the thirst must be real!" And i was like "what do you mean?" he was like her nick name is "Easy......." I also know someone who had sex with her a few months ago..... So should i give her a chance? or does she even want a relationship? this really bothered me..... i am confused, and dont want people to think i have no standards or something..... I like her a lot lol! i just feel hesitant cause i like 3 girls at the moment and am having difficulty choosing and dont want them to judge me for taking this girl on a date, i like her and i want to but....... :/ i like her the most.... UGHHHHH sorry haha.... hmmm! *sigh* HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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16 19if im feel comfortable with her.. i will do that no matter what others say
I would love to date a "slutty" woman. Women who have lots of sex are awesome!
I don't know man, haha! lots of sex with a few partners is cool but supposedly she has been around the block a coupl... couple dozen times *gulp* i am gonna still go out with her, but I don't know she is the type of girl to make my GF
To each their own. But as long as she's clean of diseases and drugs I'd be cool with her. Heck, my ideal relationship is to have an openly sexual one where we could screw around with others. Sometimes get into threesums. ^^
Words_and_Wisdom, you're awesome. My husband and I have the kind of relationship you described, and it's working out really well for us (we've been doing that for 3 years now). We're not swingers, since we don't tend to fuck other couples, but we both sleep with whoever we want. Not everyone we know is aware of it, but everyone who spends time around us says we have the best relationship they've seen, and I believe that. Monogamy is SO overrated, and in my opinion, a bit unreasonable.
I wouldn't
yeah, i think she just wants to hook up with me anyway i will see what happens...
I would love to have sex with a slut. Best type. But it needs to be hairy for me to find the gold to lick clean
god damn lol!
You should be man enough to think that's her past, and the only thing that matters, is what she's going to do from now on, I would always think bad about sluts, but we all have shitty past, we all have done something bad, it doesn't matter, what matters is to stay loyal from the day you begin with him/her
Man enough huh? I am man enough to date her I am But I am worried about her reputation being a reality And her viewing me only as a sexual partner Or just another guy...
Hahaha ooh ok! Sorry! Women are always risking this with men, so try to be different, if you're like every boy out there, she'll treat you like that, if you're different, then your relationship will be different
Hopefully you are right :) I know I am not like most guys Hopefully she will see that Thanks for your insight 😃
Sorry but the past is there forever. It tells the story of how you were raised. How you feel. Your morals and values. Intelligence. Truth. Honesty. Desires. Curiosity. Libido. Gullibility. And ignorance. Look people you can try to justify anything you want. But if you ever have to explain or justify anything you do in life then it's already made you look like a slow or lesser person that people will feel sorry for and let you have another chance.
I don't want my dick to look like this a week after I slept with her
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lmao! NOOOO!!!
ughh, she drives me crazy! I don't know if she acts the way she does with me others... pftt! I don't know wth is wrong with me i like the crazy girls
First of all, I oppose slut shaming, I just go with the flow for this occasion.
It's likely that they're lying to you, perhaps to limit competition? If not consider this, slut/easy/whatever doesn't necessary equals "player". While it doesn't always mean monogamous either you should check her reputation when dating someone rather than when fooling around. I believe single means "no responsibilities".
One thing to consider is, are you willing to talk to your friend while dating her? The more people she fuck the more likely is the risk that you'll encounter people that she had previously slept with.
But as I first said, maybe this is one big hoax on your friend's part and she is a virgin.
its not just him who has said that, she is more popular/known than i thought, i think its an exaggeration but she is super flirty :/
Still for all you know, she might think like me regarding the term "single". There is however, a risk that she's higher maintenance than you're used to. After-all, she knows exactly what's on the market and are probably used to suiters to the point where a date with her will feel like an interview. The challenge for you is to convince her to step down from the meat market, that you are worth staying for. This is assuming that she is a complete slut, you might be luckier and find out that their's a sad back-story behind all the fucks or that she's convinced that all people want from her is sex not love. You really need to do more research or even better; talk to her.
I have spoken to her but about silly things haha! like volley ball, and having an itchy butt on the beach
He's right, just because someone flirts a lot or sleeps around when they're single doesn't mean they'd do it while they're in a relationship. Maybe she was just really lonely or horny, and since she didn't have boyfriend she had to find other ways of receiving comfort/sex. Perhaps if she finds a guy who's willing to be there for her when she feels that way in the future (possibly you), she won't need to mess around with anyone else cause she'll have everything she needs.
Give it a try. If you like her, reputation shouldn't be the deciding factor for at least one date.
yeah i will take her on a date, i just am not sure if she wants a BF cause i want something a bit more serious... Wondering if she just wants sex :/ which i dont mind but, i like having intimacy with a girl thats exclusive you know?
Then before it gets serious or anything mire than an innocent kiss, just ask her if she intends for you two to be a fling or if she's looking for something serious.
I don't know, i think she just wants to have fun lol! but she is super cute! i want her to be with me!!! ughhh! lol maybe we want two different things... i will trry to mention something, like "i want a gf, or i want a girl i can show the world" lol! I don't know
I wouldn't quite word it that way if i were you. If youve gone out a few times just ask, "are you just looking for short term fun or are you looking for a solid relationship? :
yeah i might have to be straight up with her thanks for the help!
You could ask her if she wants a relationship or just a fling. Be sure to mention that you would like a relationship.
I don't know how to bring it up, but i will try, i get nervous around her, i hugged her for the first time and almost pee'd my pants, BUTTERFLIES ALL UP IN MY BELLY! lol
That nervousness is a good sign lol
yeah i know :3
i don't mind abbout sluts basically
me neither, but i dont want to close my options by taking her on a date! she seems to be pretty well known! i have asked multiple people about her and yeah, all the same thing... i am looking for a gf... would she even be down for that?