Would you date a guy who slept around with a lot of women?

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Would you date a guy who slept around with a lot of women?

Would you date a guy who slept around with a lot of women?
Yes, as long as he's STD free. The past doesn't matter
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  • Noooooooooooooooooooooooo no no no.

    A lot of guys have the misconception that it is only men who care about how many their partner has been with. Not all men care about it, but just about the majority.

    It's the same for just about the majority of women. I hear a high number and think 'gross' just like a lot of guys do about girls.

    A few are fine. Even a lot to an extent is fine. But not a horde. That stuff's gross, and loads of sti's don't present themselves until months after the act. I'd feel like I was never safe while seeing an infestation time bomb.

    Despite my many many flaws, jealousy is not one of them. I am friendly with my bf's ex. It's not that he's BEEN with other women but if it was that sheer volume... Ick.

  • Yeah but he would totally get a checkup

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  • Ask yourself the question under wich circumstances did he slept. He could go around and fuck a lot of girl but he may be someone who has been played a lot BY girls. Maybe he takes a relationship serious which means that he start early with sex when he is in a relationship. If the girl doesn't stay with him after a couple of months it's still a fact that he slept with her

  • I don't date men, lol

    • me, please

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  • not a chance in hell.

  • I never ask about the number of previous partners, so I wouldn't know. I really don't care what their number is.

  • In general I believe the past is the past, but this is definitely a more extreme scenario. I’d need to be really convinced that he had totally changed his ways- and that he really was STD free (some are difficult or even impossible to test for).

  • Sure. The past is the past.

  • Yes, so long as he is clean and respects women. I wouldn't date a playboy type, but the reality is if you're single for 10 or so years and travel and live your life, you'll rack up notches on the bed post. I'm confident enough to be okay with that. And I have no moral qualms with casual sex.

    • You wouldn't feel insecure that you might be just one from many of his partners and that guy can't settle down? :D

    • @Gramer no, not really. I think you can tell when someone is committed to you. I also think that it can. be healthy to get all of that experimenting out in your youth, so that you know what you want and who you are as an adult.

    • Yes if that's the case you can know for sure the other person's intentions :D I guess you wouldn't like it if a guy was a mess and had sex with randoms every week and kept losing his decency, right? :D

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  • If he is std or sti free

  • Would you eat a sandwich that a bunch of other people bit off of? Because I would not.

  • I only save myself for people I really love and if a guy hadn't done that too I'd just know our morals and values didn't align. I just couldn't be with a guy who thought that's okay to do. Don't get me wrong, it's fine to do it and I won't judge! It's just that I know you're not the guy for me if you're like this

  • Not my thing... So no.

  • Fuck hell no

    • What would be a decent number of partners in your opinion? :D

  • I'd rather be with someone with the same experience level as me.

  • I'm pretty sure my boyfriend has dated a lot before we met. Who cares. the past is the past. That he's clean and faithful are all I care about.

  • even more than 5 is too much for me. Like Simon Cowell says, it's a no for me. :D

    • So you've slept with less than five guys?

    • @Paige90 ya why.

    • I was just curious as most of the girls I know that are around 30 years old have slept with more than five.

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  • He probably wouldn’t be of a personality I’d be interested in, If he was yes.
    As long as the person is faithful in relationships it doesn’t bother me, I hate the idea of casual sex myself I need to have some sort of connection and be in a relationship with the person but I don’t have issues with those who chose not to.

  • Yes, I would. You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find you prince, or princess.

  • No I wouldn't.

  • What he did before he dated me is in the past and I don't care. Just like it should make any difference how guys the girl has slept with.

    • Maybe your Opinion will change one day.

  • No, I wouldn't. Unless he reopens for what he did. It's important that he's not only stopped it but even realized that he did the wrong thing and got back in the right track.

    • Unless he repented***

  • Nope, I find this behavior disgusting lol

  • Yes. As long as he is still clean. And as long as I actually feel a real connection with him.

    • Wouldn't it make you skeptical that he might not be the right person to commit? :/

    • @Gramer If I like his personality, then it's fine.

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