Would you date someone who secretly does porn?

[Anonymous]

He/she uploads homemade porn

[Reece12345]

Honestly, I think we need to be real here. I honestly think that the majority of people do porn. There's a line were you cross into infidelity but I honestly think porn does not cross that line.

I can only speak for myself, but I feel that you cross the line when you interact with another living person (and this can be anything -- sexting, cam, rl, etc).

Therefore just porn itself is not crossing the line in my book.

However, don't get me wrong! I can see how a partner would be angry / hurt by their partner looking at porn. Like, why porn when they have me? I totally get that.

[Laura_Marx]

i believe QA means *making* porn, not consuming it.

[Reece12345]

@Laura_Marx Yep, my bad!

[Reece12345]

The for the MHO!

[Laura_Marx]

glad it helped them anyway hehe

[Reece12345]

@Laura_Marx Haha yep, mission accomplished.

[Anonymous]

The truthful answer is that I probably wouldn't have anything to do with a woman that was a porn actress. I feel like I'm a pretty open minded guy, but I don't know... just couldn't really imagine making a life partner/marriage with someone that has done porn.

[Anonymous]

If it was "secret" how would you know?

[Asker]

I just know cuz I know someone who does that he doesn't show his face but I just know because we kind of more than friends...

[Opinion Owner]

Is it actual porn or just camming?

[Anemone978]

Nah...

[surebruh]

No... I would RUN not walk away

[MCheetah]

HELL NO! What do I look like, a cuckold? Not a chance. Also, this person does not/could not, respect their partner, either.

[rudedevon]

If "secret" means their face is hidden, no problem. Also, would only really want solo or content with me involved (she could add other men as long as I was one of them)

[boggboss]

Nope a massive turn off for me

[Kaneki05]

Of course.

[Summeroflove]

NOPE and soon as I found out I would be gone 👋 ✌️ 😘

[Dargil]

How would I know if it were "secretly"?

[JPresidente]

I’d find a new boyfriend.

[churbleburble78]

I would want to take part! ;)

[KostasKouvalis]

In a heartbeat and I'd be in the porn with them

[shanshu]

If you mean like just camming, sexting and phone sex then yes it will be fine

[Guardian45]

If she is keeping her secret from me, then I'm NOT interested in dating her.

[In_Trance]

it's not a secret if they're uploading it

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes I have already

[KerriH]

No never

[panamared1]

not a problem

[Anonymous]

Yes would do porn with them actually

[Anonymous]

It depends entirely on how upfront they are about it in the relationship. Like not first date but when it becomes apparent that y'all would be dating proper there needs to be a discussion about everybody's boundaries and how comfortable people are with sex work. I think it's fine as long as those boundaries are respected. For me it would be stuff like, fan interactions, other people having sex with them, or fetishes that I am uncomfortable with.