Would you do sex with a stranger whom you just met in a bar or cafe and had little conversation?

[amelia097]

[MrOracle]

I have once or twice in the past, but I didn't avail myself of every such opportunity either. Whether I did or not was based on a number of different factors:

• was I single at the time (I don't cheat)?
• did I create some kind of connection with her, even if only minor?
• did I find her attractive?
• did she seem mentally stable?
• did she have an obvious ulterior motive?
• is she in a position to consent (not drunk, high, or desperate for money or a place to stay, or even a baby daddy)?

As much as I enjoy sex, and as rare as those kinds of opportunities present themselves, I'm still not going to blow up my life to get laid. If my Spidey Senses are tingling, then I'm going to pass. I'm not a fan of inviting needless drama into my life.

Once there was a female contractor among a group that I was assigned to work with. After a few days, it was obvious that she was interested in me - obvious to me and everyone in the room. She was a little older than the women I had been dating at the time, though she was definitely physically attractive. But I picked up a vibe off of her immediately - the "crazy, clingy" vibe. I intentionally kept her at a distance, and turned down invitations to do things with her (and a few others) after work.

I found out from another female contractor that she had never chosen men who were serious about relationships in her 20s, but now in her 30s, she was desperate for a child, and she had gotten pregnant a couple years before but had a miscarriage, and since then, she'd been looking for a sperm donor/baby daddy to provide that for her. I *knew* she had an ulterior motive - she had those crazy, desperate eyes - and I further increased my distance with her, and counted the days until I my training assignment with her was up.

Lots of guys take every opportunity and don't protect themselves, and they get caught up in those situations because their boners made them idiots. I don't pretend to be perfect - I've made some really stupid mistakes in my life too - but I at least TRY to pay attention, especially when I realize I'm in a situation where it's easy not to care.

[MJ239]

Only if she was very sexy. Its not crazy to me because too many women have fucked so many random guys that they've just met, however the classic excuse I hear a lot is "I've just met you, so no thanks." They're just using double standards

[mandyfire98]

I mean it's happened. In college I hooked up with someone I met at the club. I didn't know them well at all lol. It just depended on if I was attracted to them and felt a sexual chemistry.

[BlueScorpio]

Eww.. no. You have no idea where they've been or what they might have.

[purplepoppy]

If I'm in the right mood

[TheorionMage]

Depends upon our level of mutual attraction... (presently I'm in a long-term committed relationship, although I am a certified Tantric Cleric qualified to harvest Orgone lifeforce through arousal.) ; )

[MrCommodore]

Honestly no

[summiter]

When I was single I did several times. I always used a condom, the sex was always fun with some great orgasms.

[Lina26]

Not anymore

[SnowedIn]

I would.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Absofuckinglutely!

[Paul_in_Indy]

It’s Friday night. I am going to spend all night making this happen. Hopefully, she will be a beautiful stranger—but if you stay at the bar until 2am and lower your standards, it usually works out.

[Paul_in_Indy]

It’s 4am and I am happy to confirm that I still enjoy sex with a stranger from a club. She was 46 and married—but not unattractive and very eager. I’m happy with that.

[EmmaMary]

No, absolutely not.

[PetiteBabe64]

I don’t see why not.

[mrmonogamous]

Not if I wanted to avoid every disease in the book, and some that probably aren’t even in there yet.

[xoxosilentgirl]

Hell nah, stranger danger. Beware ladies

[20yearsolder]

I sure would, I don't have to have an emotional attachment. It's just sex, it's for giving pleasure and receiving pleasure

[Summeroflove]

No. Just no

[AddylynnNightingale]

No, that's how to live with regret 101.

[Bricealan]

I would and have. Only problem with it was that I ended up eating her pussy on the floor of her apartment and got nothing in return.

[amelia097]

Why is that?

[Bricealan]

Stupidity on my part. Met her and her girlfriend at a restaurant/bar on a Friday night. Her and her girlfriend were bigger girls than I usually dated, but that was not important at the time. Don't remember how they got my phone number at the time (I had a land line at the time) This was 12 years ago in Ohio. Anyway, they called me late one night and SHE asked me how good I was with my tongue and of course that kind of talk had me hard right away. As luck would have it, I lived in a large Apt complex on a small lake and she and her girlfriend lived not far away on the lakeside of the complex. She asked me to come to her Apt, rather than her coming to my place and I should have known better, than to do that. We ended up on the floor, after I had taken her skirt, and underwear off, and started to eat her pussy, and did not spend a lot of time doing it, and probably should have and maybe brought her to climax, BUT I was too anxious, and got up on my knees, dropped my pants, and tried to fuck her. She closed her legs, and I could not force them open with my knees and ended up shooting my wad on the floor between her thighs. I did not want to be accused of attempted rape by trying to force her legs open, although I could have fucked her since she was 'wet' from me eating her. After I got back to my place, I assumed that her girlfriend was there, watching us from the "loft' they had in their place. Long story, I know, but is what can happen on a 'pick-up' with a strange person at a club. and it has always been a bitter memory for me. Hope not too graphic or drawn out?

[Bricealan]

In retrospect, I always thought, that I should have continued to eat her out, over time, and probably could have fucked her at some point. Never know now.

[Msputiton]

Nope.

What if i get pregnant.

What if they got an STD

I pass

[AviatorTom]

No, we'd have to do more than have a few drinks and a few minutes of conversation.

[Chazmatazz269]

No. Prostitutes notwithstanding, i can’t be intimidate with a woman who hasn’t impressed me through conversation first.

[Dargil]

I will see myself out.