Would you do something kinky if your partner asked?

Question

Would you do something kinky or weird/ something you don’t normally do if your partner asked. If so where do you draw the line for what you would do

NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

In my experience (which is FAR from exhaustive) most sexual kinks fall into the category of "weird, but innocuous". Those, I don't have a problem with. She wants you to dress up as Batman? No harm there; sure. SHE wants to dress up as Batman? Odd, but no harm there; sure. But which do you think she's going to have a harder time expressing her desire for? People's knee-jerk reactions against the weird but innocuous make others reluctant to express their desires, and nothing good comes from that; I've always felt it important to be non-judgemental, even when saying no. Like Jesus Himself said: treat others as you would be treated. Would YOU want to be thought less of for your desires?

shanshu · Accepted Answer

It's good to be open minded rather than offended but I think if you do as your partner wants, make sure you get something in return just as equal.

You draw the line when it makes you uncomfortable or to a point you feel horribly degraded by doing it or if it's too painful maybe like anal or a hard spank.

KrisPW · Accepted Answer

I would likely try it, at least once. As far as limits, I guess it would be any kind of permanent damage to my body or psyche. I don't want my body damaged, so no cutting / unwanted piercings. Being pooped would certainly screw with my psyche, so hard no there. Other things I'd be more willing to pursue as long as I felt safe or at least supported through it.

laurieluvsit · Accepted Answer

I would have to know what it was first. For example I am not into scat or serious pain so I would never agree to anything like that.

RobT312 · Answer

Sure... everything is worth a try. my only limits would be no piss or scat and no pain... I think most people wouldn’t want that anyways

SamIam96 · Answer

Asking a partner to do something kinky takes a lot of trust. The implication is that they're comfortable with you. It takes a lot to get to that point in a relationship. If my woman asked, I'd try almost anything. As long is no one is hurt emotionally or long lasting physically.

Miristheiss · Answer

"kinky" doesn't mean anything.  Would I do... what?  I would depend on what I was asked to do.

Nmdr3 · Answer

Almost anything. But I’m the kinky one in the relationship :(

Bricealan · Answer

I draw the line at inflicting or accepting pain.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

She better not use my body as a toilet or having other people involved. Other than that im willing to get freaky with my partner.

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

Depends what they ask for

Black20Squirrel · Answer

Yes, I probably would try it. Im not into pain or butt sex but i might try it once.

oldguystillhasit · Answer

I found as the years went by I do a lot of things with my wife that I thought I would never ever do when I was younger. We do or have done just about everything except scat, pee, pain or or humiliation.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Depends. But I try to live by do anything once so probably

bowenw · Answer

I'd consider anything they wanted, but nothing involving pee, poo, blood, or vomit.

exitseven · Answer

yes, as long as it did not involve human excrement.

RebeccaBI2000 · Answer

I normally give things a try at least once. That would be once per partner, because someone can make the bad experience. I do not do anything with blood, cutting or scat.

ashish804 · Answer

not any line..

Henry_-_Blakes · Answer

I would do anything. No limitations. What's your kinky thought?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes. I would probably do anything she asked me to. As long as it wasn't gross.

Pete671 · Answer

Yes I would do anything my partner told me to,,,

Cowboy6666 · Answer

I am single currently but If I had a partner and she asked me to give her oral for one hour I can do that but If she ask me to peg me, I won't do that :)