Would you dump a guy for his dick size?

I loveeee my man he has the best personality + loves me. But I've been with other guys who have had 7 inch dicks. My man is like 4 inches. Tbh hella easy to blow job but like sometimes I think about those 7 inch dicks. I try not to but I can't ugh.

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  • Such a comment not only objectifies men but also perpetuates harmful stereotypes regarding male genitalia and their worth. As members of a community that values inclusivity and respect, we need to take a stand against this kind of behavior. We cannot allow people to make comments that are offensive and detrimental to people's self-worth, especially when it comes to their physical appearance. Therefore, I urge all of you to report this user for their comment. We must make it clear that such comments have no place in our community, and we will not tolerate this kind of behavior. Furthermore, we need to understand that comments like these can have a significant impact on individuals' mental health and self-confidence. They can cause harm to both men and women and perpetuate harmful stereotypes. I would like to remind everyone that people are more than their physical attributes. We must strive to treat each other with kindness, empathy, and respect. Thank you for taking the time to read this, and I hope that we can work together to create a safe and respectful environment for all individuals.

    • Thanks from those of us who have penises rather smaller than 7 inches.

    • @wilmareportu great, thank you for moderating this forum and standing up against hate speech and discrimination.

    • Understand the sentiment. Yes we do need to be with our s/o's because of them not dick size or boob size.

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  • No. But there's no avoiding the small elephant in the room.

    I'm dating an Indian guy and Indian guys are tiny in the penis department. Like when I first tried having sex with my Indian boyfriend they kept slipping off his tiny prick. Its unfortunate because like every girl I love a big dick even though his penis is cute.

    The way around it is sex toys. Like we to compensate for his sexual disability we have a penis enchantment sleaves that allows him to f*ck like an average western guy or like a well hung guys, as well assuction cup dildos I can ride or back up against while I suck his little dick. Sometimes I just cheat with another guy just to feel that again.

    • Asking for others here - I'm a gifted russian horror cock - but it appears, girth is the problem? Not the length? You know I wasn't joking whenever I spoke about the shockwave therapy? Blasting ut with shockwaves cause girth, hardness, and vasculature increases.

    • Thanks for your authentic honesty, but at the same time I can't help but feel sorry for your guy that he has a woman that keeps a secret that she cheats on him just to feel a large cock in her , tells the world but hides it from him what she really thinks. You should come clean with him no matter the consequences. I know for a fact there is hope for him to be larger and thicker. There are herbs like Ginkgo extract, horney goat weed and Tribulus Terestris and the amino acid L-Arginine that if taken daily will increase the blood flow to the penis and while doing pelvic floor exercises and ultrasound treatment to the attaching sides and tendons that are up inside the pelvis. Ultrasound units can be bought for cheap these days and they can increase length and girth a lot more than most realize if taken seriously making it a daily routine. I went from 6.10" to 8.25" and 2.45 girth in a little more than a year. If he is willing to stick to it along with the herbs he can expect to make some gains and has hope to become above average. Of course the younger you are when starting all this the more and faster results you can expect. Relay the message if this helps. Even if you don't stay with him it will help him later on.

    • I am very glad to see you are candid, and honest about... 'sometimes cheating with another guy to feel the larger penis again' I don't think that is an unusual attitude or way to feel about it. .

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  • We have a lot of penis size questions on here from guys, about if their size is acceptable or not. The last one I answered was based on my prior experiences with women prior to my marriage, and with my prior wife. I am going to mark this "no replies" so I don't get blow back from others calling me a Troll.

    A prior girlfriend told me to my face: "Most women prefer girth" - holding her thumb and middle finger in a large circle as if gripping a thick penis. Stupid me did not respond.

    Several women in my past have commented on that dimension to me, including my prior wife. She said I "got the penis that someone else was supposed to get" Based on that, women do notice penis size, IF it is outside the 'average' dimension of many men. I understand you thinking about the 7 inch penis, comparing it to 'the man you love who has 4 inches.

    Regardless of what some women say, I have to say that women MAY NOT drop a man because of his smaller penis, but they do note it and whether it effects their sex life, I can't say.

    • yeah ur right it is noticed can't sugar coat that. But does it matter I don't know. I think I watch too much porn see the unrealistic huge ones and then my exes were on the larger side too. Not like my pussy is perfect either. One of my labia lips is slightly protruding but my man lit is in love with me. I've even told him im a little insecure about it and he's like ur perfect. its natural and here I am judging him. he's so f good to me :(

    • Thanks for answering the way you did and being so honest about your slightly protruding labia lips, as many women will not, and only one girlfriend ever told me 'You don't want to see it" Usually that is the inner labia protruding a little. I had a friends with benefits whose inner lips protruded a lot, out and overlapped somewhat. Regarding the penis matter, my penis is on the very thick side (about 2") but only about 61/2 " long. Women do 'comment,' and many have, on the girth, but the length is average. I am not sure the girth makes a lot of difference except with slightly more 'stretching' on the initial penetration, and afterward, the vagina 'accommodates' whatever the girth is. I marked "no replies' but from you, since I did not want to be given 'grief' for my penis comments.

    • P. S. Glad I am not the only one that 'watches too much porn" - but we both know that the unusually large penis is not the 'normal" size

  • well you prolly lying which i hope you do cuz if ain't then simply by statistic to find a ''few'' guys with 7 inch in your life would mean you did it with pretty much every guy you found. Statistically speaking that is so lets hope you lying. Not to mention hella disrespectful to your man to reveal his size and say its small. Would dump you ASAP if you were mine and i found out about this. Now thinking about it there is a good chance you ain't lying at all. Feel sry for you guy. he deserves someone better

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  • I think most people find value in their partner, and it is not related to size or body type.

    • you're right. he's such a good guy :(.

    • I certainly am not oversized, and I'm pretty sure my wife is very satisfied, because there are other ways to make a woman enjoy herself without being massive

  • This should be a good thread.

  • Love that your ideal size (length) is around 7 inches. Mine's a fraction over that - as girls I've been sexual with have said, not toooo big, not too small !

    • PS I can understand you thinking your man's penis is small but as you say, he has a great personality and loves you -- aren't they the most important favors in a long term relationship?

  • Do you really fantisize on those bigger dicks?

    • not just bigger but like I don't know other guys I've been with have really veiny ones. He is the kindest most gentleman man. The other guys their big dicks got to their heads. They had big heads huge egos too :( I think I watch too much porn too its just unrealistic :(

    • Good to hear I can understand that. He's a good steady guy just doehsve a huge dick. I think I'm like thst a steady loving guy but horny. I'd like a woman to like me gor the values you see in your guy.

  • You are thinking about dumping a good guy for a dick size. Basically you're dumping him for an insignificant short time pleasure that could possibly make some difference. It's like refusing owning your toyota Camry to just be able to drive a lambo that's not yours and only once a week for example.

    • exactly. you're right it's dump I shouldn't :(. He is such a good guy.

    • Excellent response!

  • I had a girl laugh at my penis and she wouldn't have sex with me because she said it wasn't big enough so I get it

    • omg im so sorry wtf thats awful :(

    • Thanks. I mean mine is 6 inches long so not that small (but she said it was) but it also curves to the left like a banana when I have an erection and so maybe that would turn off a lot of girls too.

    • wtf 6 is perfect and curve is fine. I've been with guys with curved dicks and they hit the spot every time

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  • Bigger is not better they all are ugly and hopefully do the same right thing big ones can fl damage your insides stay with your pencil if u love him ( I had a pencil once too)

  • If you do you're a size queen.

  • Does your man please you do you please him have you been together long it’s not always size but I do understand there are lots of women that like larger men just like men like larger breasted, women, bigger asses, etc. in the end you have to think about are you going to stay together for a lifetime can you be happy with what he gives you in and out of the bedroom if it’s only about the size. As long as he is fulfilling, your needs sexually with what he has then maybe you should talk and maybe just get a vibrator or a dildo or maybe you should move on that’s a decision you need to come to in the end. Are you going to spend the rest of your life with this gentleman or are you in the search for somebody bigger but maybe not as nice maybe not as caring maybe not the right guy for you but he has 7 inches

  • I love bigger dicks guys so😊

  • Dump him so I can fuck you

  • If that's not your preference and you ate not satisfied, I think it's only right to do so, you should be satisfied too, just don't tell him that this is the reason, tell him, something is not working or you need to focus on other stuff.

  • You found a nice guy so don't blow it. As long as he is willing to use sex toys on you to make sure you are satisfied then you could have a satisfying life with him.

  • At last, you’re not gonna dump him for that reason.. i see you just need more satisfaction..
    You can try to spice up your sex life and build sexual tension
    For ex you must prioritize the foreplay.. May be testing new positions for deeper penetration.. create a long sexual bucket list and discuss your fantasies frequently… get a nice mix of sex toys and accessories for both of you and get for yourself what may help you get more satisfied with size related issue..
    Think about ways you can capitalize on creating pleasure for all of your senses
    And make sure he know how much you appreciate him :)

  • I’ve been dumped for that🙂

  • 4 inches is more than enough, I wouldn't want to big of a dick, I imagine that would be very painful if they went balls deep

  • A girl I dated did this with an ex.

  • Size queens will do that.

  • Sure why not. Just don’t be upset when the other dudes treat you like shit after giving up someone who sounds like a good man. That is something beyond his control just as I’m sure there are some imperfections about your body that are beyond your control as well. Imagine one day you two are married. You have a stroke, can’t bang, can’t suck dick. Is he justified for leaving you or cheating on you w a girl who can?

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    • why wdym

    • It's too complicated to explain.

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