Guys, would you eat a girl out that doesn't give head?

I personally never given a guy head, the thought of it grosses me out. But every guy I've been with l told them that l dont give head and that they don't have to give me head if it bothers them that l won't return the favor. Most of them ate me out anyways knowing they were not getting head back. So I want to know is there any other guys that wouldn't mind?
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  • I don't know if it's a matter of that, they most likely do it to make sure you feel good, which in turn is good for their confidence and pride. To be honest, a part of it too is because your average guy probably can't last long enough to make a girl climax before they do, so they want to break you in a bit more so you might get off together. That's not because it's some sort of trade, so don't worry about it, they can't force you to do anything when it comes to sex that you don't want to do, at least they shouldn't. Whether they mind or not depends, if they feel good regardless and they aren't getting blue balls haha they honestly probably won't have problems with it. But if you get the feeling you need to spice things up, then you'll have to get past that feeling that oral sex is "gross", because I think I speak for all guys when I say that if a girl can play with your dick better than you play with it yourself, there's something really sexy about it, like she's got you wrapped around her finger or something. If your curiosity takes you there, go for it, but don't do it because you HAVE to, do it because you WANT to.

  • There are two branches of sex. Intercourse, which is interactive "sport" like dancing and "me on you" nurturing intimacy; cunnilingus, fellatio, fingering and handjobs. The latter is sometimes used as foreplay and sometimes the main event where A does B then B does A. As it is, you are getting both and he is not. If I were with you, I would be lacking something I need. Its not about returning a favor, its about needing nurturing intimacy. In order four our relationship to be balanced and satisfying, and you were unable or unwilling to provide fellatio, I would look to you to find an alternative that would satisfy my need. Lacking that, I would tire in time and begin to think about looking elsewhere. I would diplomatically remind you from time to time. When I stopped reminding you, time would grow short.

    • Well see i would feel differently if l came from intercourse but being that l dont, l dont mind not giving head.

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  • I'd do it anyway. It turns me on tbh. If she likes it, what the heck.

  • I would do it.
    But if I were you, I wouldn't expect all men to feel this way.

    • Yeh i don't. Im very understanding of that

  • I rather not, I am not mangina, there did you find so many submissive males?

    • They weren't submissive at all

    • So you say, but it's an quite clear sign of an total submission to women.

    • If you say so...

  • I would do it. I view it as a bit of foreplay

  • @MsMusic

  • It'd be nice if she returned the favor, but it's not expected. If she doesn't want to or like it I don't want her doing it. And I'd still do it yes. It pleases me also pleasing you.

  • Unlikely, the less active my partner is in bed, the more likely I'm not going to go to her for any further sessions. Pretty much how I feel about it.

    • Just cuz I don't give head dont make me less active in bed

    • Maybe so, but it isn't a good indication for me, I tend to find partners who don't give head... less aggressive, so it isn't as fun fighting for control during sex. You might be different but that's just how I feel based on my experiences so far. It may change in the future.

    • Oh ok makes sense

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  • Blowjobs are in fact pretty gross. I prefer to eat out a girl who dont give head!

  • Nope beauty.

  • Lol no probably not. I mean I would like once, or twice, but as much as I enjoy doing that for a girl, if there's no reciprocation, eventually I'd get irritated with her for being selfish. No thanks.

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