Would you ever do very embarrassing things with people because it makes you feel more connected?

I myself have often felt enjoying the embarrassing side of life, somehow where when you do or say things with people and they react to it in a way that is light hearted but makes you embarrassed, it just makes me feel happy, so I am happy to tell people things I might be embarrassed about if I believe the outcome will be one that is light hearted :)

I still remember in my first course of college, I was surrounded by my friends and they were all looking at me during lunch break and when I asked what was going on they said I had been sleeping and they recorded me because I was so still that a cat came and sat next to me, I genuinely blushed so hard and got really embarrassed and I begged them to never show anyone and asked them why the hell they were taking videos and photos of me sleeping and they said because I have a cute sleeping face in class which made me panic but eventually thank them.
Would you ever do very embarrassing things with people because it makes you feel more connected?
genuinely got caught off guard doing this and I panicked, moaned the whole day about them always recording my snuggles with the cats hehe!
I am not good with taking compliments like that because I will always get flustered but I just love random situations of embarrassment, where I feel a mix of happy, worried, scared and intrigued, mainly because I rarely ever feel so many emotions towards things, embarrassment is such a wonderful thing in my opinion ^__^
Would you ever do very embarrassing things with people because it makes you feel more connected?
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Would you ever do very embarrassing things with people because it makes you feel more connected?
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Would you ever do very embarrassing things with people because it makes you feel more connected?
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  • This story radiates childlike innocence.. so sweet ^-^
    I've purposely put myself on the spot many times in my life, and some of those memories I do share with friends. Like the time I tried getting me and my bff some prom dates, and I went to this guy and said "would you go to prom with me, and your friend goes to prom with my friend", he just said he'd ask his friend, but never got back. Oh well, that was really funny to my friend and I, because I'd never been so bold back then, I was only 17

    I cringe very hard when I remember those, but it's a good cringe. Like I'll randomly burst into laughter any day. It's a good feeling

    • ehehe, well I do actually radiate childish behaviour when with friends and staff, I have been described to be very cat like in that I switch very easily between very playful and childish to very serious and cold, a thing I only realised myself recently :p Sounds like that prom situation went a bit south! 0_0 I envy you a bit though, when I think back about my prom I always wish that I had at least danced with someone or had a fun time, it wasn't as exciting as the movies made me expect, it was literally just standing in a hall drinking water and chatting with some music and people just wandered off, it felt so gloomy x_x I don't even know if people in other places do the dancing thing at proms now whereas in mine it was literally nobody requesting to dance and nobody feeling the mood at all o__o

    • no kidding, prom was a gloomy scene xD only couples that were actually together were dancing, and teachers. like, at 17 ys old, there were only like 4 actual couples in our grade. so not a lot of dancing. at east i enjoyed exploring some of the venue, it was quite fancy.. yea, not the moos i thought of. but i liked my dress too xD i was probably the only girl with a super puffy gown <3.. about 2 years later tho, i got my dream "prom" tho. I went to a new year's ball in a palace in austria. Wore the same puffy gown, and went with my handsome boyfriend at the time. We waltzed the night away into the new year. So im not too mad about high school prom. "i you keep on believing, the dream that you wish will come true"

    • I honestly think the most exciting thing about it was the clothing really :p I admit I really loved the way I looked in my suit since my friends were all so surprised and they said I looked really good, it's just because I am never a person who wears that stuff so when I do it really made it feel like a confidence boost I guess ^_^ Yeah, only couples would dance and even they might not always decide to dance but just go and kiss or maybe just be together and talking, whereas all the singles did none of that really hahaha!! Good for you! :) I honestly do feel kind of bad because I would have liked to slow dance with one of the girls at the time, but I think that because everyone was so eager for more energetic music than slower music, I could not get that opportunity >_< Maybe in the future ayy? Maybe it will be a funny joke with my partner when I just fluster and get embarrassed and tell them not to laugh and ask them if they would please do a slow dance with me XD it would likely result in them laughing and making fun of me saying how we had been in a relationship for so long and this is the request I am making? Pahahahaha!!! Yeah, but it would be super cute in my mind imagining it ^_^

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  • Doubtfully, but maybe. I’ve never been asked, and am still very shy.

    • That is very understandable but also nice to see how you added in a maybe so you were not saying it was absolutely never going to happen :) Shyness does change the amount of discomfort in those kinds of situations so I can understand ^_^

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  • Sure, we could always fart 💨 together lol.

    • hahahaha!!! That is a event of true connectivity, a moment of managing to be comfortable around each other to do something like that XD

    • Oh yeah. We’ll smell which fart is silent but deadly 😄

  • I might consider it.

    • Intriguing! Certainly a answer I did not expect but so glad to see that side of you! :)