Would you ever have a friends with benefits relationship with someone who you had a crush on?

Do you think you would run the risk of catching feelings? Is just easier to do it with someone who you find attractive?
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  • Well if I have a crush on them then there’s feelings already lol but I think it depends on who you are as a person. Some people are good with detachment and having the right frame of mind to be in that arrangement and others just can’t. I would personally not do a friends with benefits, sex is already very personal and I don’t need to exchange that sort of energy with someone who doesn’t want anything with me.

    • I agree. It’s hot to fantasize but reality is far more complicated.

    • Very true. I think the only way that arrangement can really work (or at least have a chance) is if the people involved are very honest about their intentions from the start. That way no one is being misled or thinking A but receiving B. I also don’t think there can be real romantic feelings involved, just the attraction. That’s how jealousy happens, expectations change and someone ultimately gets hurt. It’s a really big mess.

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  • No and those things never work out

  • Yes, I have had several.

    • Did you ever catch feeling or were you able to just have sex?