Would you ever take a cheater back who had sex with someone in your own bed?

[coachTanthony]

At least get a hotel.

[NathanDavis]

to be honest, I would prefer it was in our bed... hotels can gross me out, especially the cheaper ones lmfao

but, germaphobe fixations aside... there are no reasons whatsoever for me to "take back" a cheater, when someone cheats they already decided on their own "our relationship is done and gone"

I might understand and even forgive, that yes... but going back to MY mistakes, no... I do not like to repeat mistakes, and even if someone else cheated on me so it is their wrong... I would see it as my own mistake as well, either I neglected too much or I was too blind to pick the wrong person, so... move on, and lesson learned

[Dargil]

Cheating is the ultimate betrayal. A cheater needs to be shown the door.

[moondazed]

Big fat NOPE. The where doesn't matter. Cheating is always a ticket into an instant breakup. There's no point in forgiving someone who has no respect for you. You should have the self-respect to be with someone who won't do horrible things to you.

[douride2]

I don't care where he had sex with someone else. He's out on his ass. Go away & never come back. Stay out of my life.

[Mansearching]

Yep 100%

[douride2]

Thanks for a MHO.

[Mansearching]

No problem

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

The why someone would do that to someone matters more then the where… it doesn’t matter “where”…

and, nope I wouldn’t… they can stay with the person they cheated with😁

[coachTanthony]

For the people who would take a cheater back maybe this would matter I don't know I just don't know halhahahahahaahaha

[katiesmuff]

No not a chance

[SeriouslyFunny00]

No. 🤢 And I will burn the bed HAHAHAHA

[Still-alive]

Get out the holy water too! Exorcise them demons! lol

[Reece12345]

There are different kinds of cheating. I might be able to forgive sexting only. Physical fucking around in one's own bed is a whole different story. I don't think I could handle that.

[SnowedIn]

yes. the where doesn't matter (though I agree with you, get a hotel) but there's other considerations.

[Melodis17]

Not a chance.

[Dinklex3]

Nope. Wouldn't take back a cheater in general.

[Summeroflove]

Nope. I might forgive. But that’s done with

[Miristheiss]

Nope

[LiamSawyer]

No, never

[Chazmatazz269]

I would never take back a cheater under any circumstances. Anyone who would has serious self esteem issues.

[Fireguy17]

no, and it doesn't matter where they cheated.
they would be gone.

[Finchie40]

Nope I don’t take cheaters back period

[billmunch]

Every relationship I've ever had, I've been cheated on and had absolutely no problem forgiving the other person. The only dealer breakers are if she fucks my friends or gets pregnant. Otherwise, I encourage it.

First and foremost, it turns me on. I once dated an active prostitute and I loved knowing she was fucking other guys. I prefer promiscuous women. The higher the body count, the better. I would still be with the prostitute but she wanted kids.

Also, I get that it's possible to be in a loving relationship but still want to explore a personal sex life outside the one with the partner, so I accommodate for that. Sometimes, you just want a little strange. I am also guilty of this.

Furthermore, I can be weird and totally get it if my SO sometimes wants to fuck other guys. For example, I like to wear certain articles of women's clothing and she's good about putting up with it. I only wear panties and pantyhose under my trousers when I go out. At home, I like to wear full length comfortable cotton dresses around the flat in lieu fo pyjamas, plus I'm hairless, so I get it if she wants a more manly man sometimes.

I've been with the same woman roughly 16 years on and off and starting from year five of our relationship she started seeing another guy seriously. She eventually moved in with the guy but continued seeing me on the side. This ended once his visa expired and he had to go back to the States. She tried to get a greencard but failed. She moved back in with me after this and we've been together ever since. Once or twice a year, they go on holiday together. He doesn't know about me.

[JosyJosy]

No. I'd have him stay a bit longer and mess around a bit to have enough proof to shame him online, but after that it's over. Guy who cheated on me, still single to this day and bitter about it too.

[Sam2Iam]

Hell no

[cth96190]

Yes, if next time I was invited to watch.

[suckmytitties]

Absolutely not

[Mansearching]

Nope never would.

[LiamJHayden]

I would not take a cheater back, period. Too many women out there for me to consider putting up with that.