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Would you find it weird or awkward if another person asked you to shave their genitalia area before having sex with them?

I know it’s not really my choice what other people do with their bodies but it’s just my preference for the guy’s genitalia area to be hairless if they feel interested in hooking up with me. Too be honest the thought of having sex with a guy with a hairy dick seems gross to me but I don’t want to come across strange to a man if I ask him to shave his dick.

I still currently a virgin though now but I asked this question in case I meet a guy I really like in the future.

I’m curious about other people’s point of view though. Would you find it weird or awkward if another person asked you to shave your genitalia area?

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  • If you get to the point that you're willing to have sex with this person, you can tell them that it's your preference that they are shaved. Pubic hair is gross to you. Be honest. Tell them that you probably wouldn't have sex if they had hair down there

  • Many guys have a virgin fetish, so it can be worth the effort to them, it's okay to ask them.

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  • I wouldn’t like it if someone asked me to shave before sex. I’d ask why she wants me to look pre puberty like a little boy and not a man. I’d counter and ask her to keep her hair natural down there since it looks mature and sexy.

  • A little but I have dated an OCD type A girl who was a little that way in all things. Cleanliness...

  • I would be okay with thing request. You want to be attractive to your partner.

  • It would definitely be weird if another person asked YOU to shave THEIR genitalia before having sex with them. I think you mean if they asked YOU to shave YOUR genitalia before having sex with them.

  • It would definitely be weird. You should just accept the other person for how they are if you actually like them

    • Good answer, Miss apple!! Good answer!!

  • I don't find it weird, but it's hard (at least for me) to shave my balls (dicks don't have much hair).

    My balls are not a smooth surface so I worry I could cut my scrotum somewhere. Also, I've heard that your balls itch like crazy after you shave them. I wouldn't want to end up scratching my nuts all day!

  • If you are having sex with random strangers it makes kind of weird. Like “hey you’re cute. you want to take me home and strip me naked?… also… do you by chance shave… down there… because other wise, No! ”

    like no… good by… lol!

    but if your waiting and getting to know guys and making friend and dating guys and waiting until you are comfortable with a guy before having sex with him then there are tons of ways to get to know a friends thoughts and habits before doing it. You can easily know if he shaves his balls before as well as if he has any kinks or if he is dominant or even how big he is if that is something you are curious about.

  • That's actually not weird but it's much less common for girls to ask guys to do it; normally it's guys asking the girls to do it.

    Most of it will be in how you ask. If you're chill about it and something like, "hey, my preference is this, would you be willing?" and be accepting if the answer is no. Because that's their option.

    But, my final advice would be that, since you're a virgin, try it with hair first in case you like it or you learn it doesn't gross you out. But, if it does, that's what works for you and that's legit. You'll find guys (plenty?) who either already don't have pubic hair or are willing to shave/wax.

  • NO Not at all, I have shaved my husband several times but I don't allow him to shave or even trim me. I either get a Brazillian or do it myself.

  • No, I don't mind adjusting to her preferences. I don't have a strong preference for how I keep my pubic hair.

  • No. But, I might use whipped cream for more fun cleaning up afterwards!

  • I would find that kind of weird, yeah. But I keep myself shaved anyway, so it's not a problem for me

  • I think that would be kinda hot (although I'm shaved down there myself).

  • If you are dating guys you should tell them upfront that you prefer the area to be bald. Don't be shy about it. Just make it a part of the conversation. Let him know what your boundaries are.

  • I would try, but I can't promise more than trimmed.

  • a little

  • I don't think it's strange, if I'm giving oral I'd sure require shaved genitals as well

  • I already have it shaved so no need to ask

  • I've always wanted to do this

  • It honestly depends on the guy. I wouldn’t find it weird but u wouldn’t have to ask me that or shave me. Long as u shaved urs too, we’d be good. 🙂

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