Would you forgive someone who accidentally cheated?

Last weekend I cheated on my girlfriend Annie. The reason why I did it is because I've been convinced for the longest time that Annie is cheating on me. I've been on this site before with my relationship issues. Here are the reasons I think she's cheating:

1. She has lots of guy friends who she
admits wanna fuck her. She doesn't care
how I feel and remains friends with them.

2. We were hanging with her guy friend one night and he tickled her stomach. I found this very inappropriate.

3. Her guy friend Brad, his girlfriend thinks they’ve fucked. Annie also gets upset when Brad neglects her and doesn't text her as often as usual. She knows Brad from being friends with his ex wife. She's not friends with the ex wife anymore.

4. She tells me that I'm weird and no other woman is gonna want me even though I'm handsome.

5. Always refuses sex and just dick teases me. For example, she'll flash her breast and open her pussy at me and say "you're getting none". We only have sex twice a month. I'm definitely more into her than she is into me.

The reason I put up with Annie is because I do love her. She does lot of good things aside from the negative. Sometimes I feel like Annie is the best I'll get. I've always struggled with a low self esteem. I don't get love, affection, emotional support, and the
sex I need from Annie.

About a month ago I started talking to a girl on a dating site named Malia. I didn't think it was cheating since Malia lives 2 hours away. Me and Malia had an emotional connection. Talking to Malia made me feel good about myself. Last week Malia drove to my work to surprise me. We hung out and had sex.

After I cheated on Annie I ghosted her for a week. She called over 50 times from 3 different numbers during that ghost period. I talked to her yesterday and she was really sad. She also signed up for a 1 year passport because she was expecting me to marry her.
Now I'm feeling really guilty. I can't live with myself and what I've done😢
Would you forgive someone who accidentally cheated?
Would you forgive someone who accidentally cheated?
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  • Accidentally? You can't accidentally make a choice, personally I wouldn't forgive or eat up the crap that it was done accidentally

  • That's not accidently cheated on her. You deliberately acted that way.
    Be honest with her and talk it through. Seems you two don't communicate very well

  • You cannot accidently cheat and just because she lives 2 hours away does not make it okay. I think your girlfriend has real issues and you should dump her and find somebody else.

  • That relationship with Anna is toxic. Time to move on

  • Break up with her

  • Cheating is never an accident. As for forgiving it will never happen again. You cheat your gone for ever.

  • How do you accidentally cheat?

  • Yeah but not after two times.

  • How do you accidentally cheat on someone?

  • You should have broke up with her before fooling around with the other woman. She shouldn't be hanging out with guys that want to fuck her if she's your girlfriend, she should want to hang out with you more than them. That's suspicious behavior and no girl would tolerate that from her man, so she should not expect you to tolerate it from her.
    You said "I don't get love, affection, emotional support, and the
    sex I need from Annie." Have you communicated that with her? You shouldn't marry a girl who makes you feel like you're not loved, or makes you feel like you care more about her than she does about you, or makes you feel like the attraction isn't mutual. It sounds like she is emotionally unavailable to you and mentally immature. It sounds like the new girl made you feel wanted and Annie makes you feel unwanted. It does not excuse cheating, but it is what it is. You and Annie don't sound like a good match.

  • doesn't sound like an accident.

  • Forgive? Yes. Reconcile? No.

  • You’re fucked for not breaking it off bfor you stuck the new girl

  • You should tell her you cheated and explain why. If possible keep it from a fight/argument

  • In my entire life I have never cheated on any girl that I have ever been with. So how do you intelligently actually cheat by a Supposed Accident? What a Overwhelmingly Stupid Question!

  • I completely understand why you did what you did even though it probably wasn't the right decision. Feeling like your partners attention is somewhere else is one of the worst feelings in the world right next to finding out that your partner cheated. Do you think that Malia would ever tell your girlfriend about what happened? My reply and opinion to your question would be no, I wouldn't be able to forgive someone that cheated under those circumstances because even though you didn't know for sure you were going to cheat you still were on a dating site while being in a relationship and you have continued to talk to this other girl for over a month. Just those actions alone will break your girlfriends heart. Those are premeditated actions. Good luck to you. I hope everything works out for you. My advice would be do not tell her about it. Ever. Being cheated on hurts to the core. Please do not get married until you know without a doubt that you are right where you belong.. My opinion.

  • You are both toxic lol. And that girl you cheated with wants to marry you? Wtf? You people and your marriages. You should separate then. Before you both do more of what you regret.

  • There is no accidents when you cheat

    • @debbie14217 exactly

  • Accidentally? Yea ok.

  • I hate when I accidentally slip and fall into the vagina of some chick.

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