Guys, Would you go to a swinger club?

[Anonymous]

From what I hear from friends, you're under no obligation to do anything. Some people just like the atmosphere and dancing.

[Sjoerd85]

I have been with my wife. We had a great time. There was an all-inclusive dinner BBQ-buffet and drinks, a jacuzzi, sauna, and many rooms you could have sex in. And it was allowed to be naked everywhere, except for the restaurant part. So I just got rid of my clothing and walked around naked.

We did not have sex with other couples there, aside from just touching, but we did have great sex with each other while being watched by other guests.

[Asker]

I've heard of many couples who go there, but never have sex at all.

[Anonymous]

For sure, why not? also the women seem sexy

[Asker]

I was shocked about how many single women go to these clubs.

[Opinion Owner]

Well why would they?

[Asker]

I just assumed it was just couples and single men. I was wrong. I talked to a pretty nurse that goes all the time.

[Opinion Owner]

What did she say besides that she goes all the time?

[Asker]

Her first time there she "played" with two couples, and sucked off four single guys.

[Opinion Owner]

That is a bit crazy, but nice also at the same time I would be tempted to go there but dunno if I would sounds lacking of hygiene kind of

[RobT312]

Yeah, never been but sounds fun

[Asker]

I have friends that go. They like it. I heard a comedian say that Halloween is the only day of the year that it's permissible for women to dress slutty. lol I think my friends just go for the attention.

[RobT312]

Awesome, a little slutty on occasion is fun

[Asker]

Agreed.

[Lionman95]

No it´s not an atmosphere I´d be comfortable in for various reasons.

[Asker]

Fair enough.

[OfMiceandMen]

Not my cup o' tea, I gather you would have to have a completely open sexual relationship for this to work.

To each their own.

[Avicenna]

Nope

[Mansearching]

No. I believe that's cheating.

[Asker]

Cheating? On who?

[Mansearching]

Your s/o.

[Asker]

I'm not sure what you mean. Couples go together.

[Mansearching]

Yes. If you have any type of sex not with your s/o its cheating. Now if you're single then that's different.

[Jersey2]

No, I can’t pinpoint why, but it just doesn’t appeal to me. I have a vague notion that it is a group of lost people who think it’s the answer to something when it’s not… but whatever.

[Nerdvana]

If the girl I was with wanted to go, I would go. I have always been curious what happens at a swingers club. To be honest I have heard positive things about them. But I have never been

[Asker]

Same here. You can go and just be a fly on the wall. You can also just go with a male friend.

[Nerdvana]

Yes, true. But I would prefer to go with a female. Even if she is just a friend. I think it would be less intimidating as a couple, then if two guys showed up

[Asker]

Yeah, some couples hate single guys, because they don't act properly.

[Nerdvana]

Have you gone to a swingers club?

[Asker]

I never have, but I know girls who go. As a matter of fact, one club offers Girls Gone Wild night once per month. That's supposed to be very popular.

[Nerdvana]

That sounds like fun. Why haven't you gone yet?

[Asker]

I'm way too introverted for that. And just look at the girls in the pic I posted. It would be hard to compete with that. And that's why my question is only about going there to be a fly on the wall. You could sit back and see what it's like.

[Nerdvana]

I am sure you are just as beautiful as the women in the pic I would also like to go and be a fly on the wall. Although, hearing a woman get fucked is sexy and a turn on. I might have to just hang around an area where people just drink and talk. lol.

[Asker]

I heard they have couches in the playrooms that people can just go and watch.

[Christoff92]

I have as a matter if facts. The swinger club been to had tons of people mostly couples.

a lot of people had towels worn around them since it a nudity friendly environment. One younger women just walked out naked because their weren't any towels left. She didn't care. But she also was observing the place in the nude 😏

[Christoff92]

*off

[Asker]

Sounds interesting.

[Nightmoon83]

Of course I would my wife and I have gone many times and done things

[Asker]

Interesting.

[Nightmoon83]

Haha what’s interesting about it?

[Asker]

It's interesting because most people seem to hate the idea.

[Nightmoon83]

The idea of messing with others?

[Asker]

The entire topic is not suited for this crazy site.

[Nightmoon83]

It is people are just crazy now a days there is nothing wrong with stuff like this

[Asker]

The divorce rate in America is around 50%, but people can't see that.

[Nightmoon83]

Yeah that is crazy my wife and I never use to be like this we use to be like every other person that thought only one person and that’s it

[Luckycharms12]

Ya I'd go see what it's like people are Ment be really nice respectful if want to play you can if don't can chill drink and dance

[Asker]

It would be fun to just check it out.

[Luckycharms12]

Like to go with someone tho

[Asker]

Yeah, it would no fun going alone. You can bring a friend.

[Luckycharms12]

I'll bring you

[Luckycharms12]

😜😜

[najekim]

Been to a few clubs. Prefer house parties since they can get wilder. ;)

[Asker]

I've heard that.

[LEGENDARY4200]

Yeah

[Guido]

I have been and it was a fun time. The main floor was where everyone drank , danced, etc. and most wore sexy clothing and lingerie. Clothing had to be worn on this level. If you found someone you wanted to have fun with, then you went upstairs to a play room.
There were private and group play rooms. In the private rooms, if you closed the door, nobody opened it, if you left it partially open, then you were inviting people to watch you and if you left it wife open then it was an invite for people to ask to join you and it was your choice. Always played with the door partially open as it was a huge turn on to see others watching you.
Each room had a large bowl of condoms for safe sex and stuff to clean up with after. Si goes were not allowed to roam around upstairs. Had to go up as a couple or more. Have gone upstairs as a couple and a threesome with 2 women. Was a lot of fun to see others watching 2 women pleasure me.
No pressure to do anything at all and as a first timer you will be given a tour and the rules explained.
If you are open minded, it is definitely worth a visit to see what goes on and you may at some point decide to partake. First visit we did nothing but see what goes on. 2nd visit we were taken there by a woman who is a regular and we enjoyed ourselves fully.

[Asker]

My intention for this question was mostly about curiosity and just attending.

[abc--123]

Id love to

[QuietRunner]

Yes and have before