Most Helpful Guys

  • I have, once. I have had sex on the 2nd date once. Usually it is the 3rd or 4th date for adults. But I met a woman on Tinder. We couldn't meet for a week, so we started chatting. but she got WAY into it. asking me things even about sex almost right away. We did that for 2 to 3 hours each night for 5 days (not just sex, all kinds of things). By the time it was our date night, we both half heatedly hinted around things. Finally she just said "why don't we forget the dinner and you come over and fuck me". after picking my jaw up off the floor, I quickly agreed. But we knew more about each other then someone on their 10th date. But, no joke, I walked in. we hugged and said hi to each other. She got on her knees, took out my cock and started sucking. I was a little in shock lol. We ended up fucking twice over about 4 hours, I ate her out a couple other times. I left thinking "did I just get used for sex?". I was obviously really happy. I thought even if I never saw her again, I would be one of my most precious memories. But we did date about a month. Unfortunately, it was only like 3 months after my divorce and I just wasn't ready.

  • Maybe if the chemistry was fire and a few drinks were involved. Always have to think about the whole STD bit and hope there would be an honest conversation about any known issues. Would have to learn some relationship history and talk candidly during the time before sex.

Most Helpful Girls

  • No. Because if th sex is bad I will judge based off that and it will make me loose interest fast. So I rather get to kno someone first.

  • If I felt safe with the person and the energy was right then absolutely.

    • I agree

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  • I don’t see an issue with it. I want to know 100% what I’m getting myself into before committing.

  • i'm a hardcore catholic girl so I wouldn't have sex on a 1st date or even a 10th date... I might give a blowjob i'm not a total prude.

  • If she wanted to, then yeah, I'd have no problem with it. I probably wouldn't instigate it myself because I wouldn't want her to think I'm just in it for a quick shag and then never contact her again, but if she wanted to have sex then I'm always up for that :P

  • Yes. But I wouldn't force the idea, generally if the moment was initied naturally or if she asks.

  • No.
    If we have sex at the first date, what will we do at the second date? Children?🤣🤣

  • Don't see why not, if the girl is nice

  • I usually do yes, it’s part of my screening process to see if I like them :p

  • Yeah if we had good connection

  • If we really hit it then I would, I've done it before

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    • @stars1968 what do you want to know

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  • I would.

    What about you?

  • If she asked if we could have sex yes, but i would never be the one to ask first if we could

  • Not for me. I'd want to get to know her first

  • Nope

  • No. Really bad idea.

  • Nope

  • I’ve been happily married for over 30 years, so I can’t truly answer this question now. However, when I was dating, I would not want to have a relationship with a woman who would be willing to sleep with me on a first date. That is just too promiscuous for me.

  • Usually no but I would if I really liked the guy

  • I did, once.

  • No...

  • yes, have a number of times.

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