That would depend on the circumstances that come up to get laid, like is this going to be a one-off, or are we trying to start something here? If the latter, sure, the former, nope. Also is it a drunk decision, rebound, part of being a friend, rather than hovering and hoping for a chance to penetrate, is being a friend.
There's also the most important factor to bear in mind. Women do not take rejection well. I had a woman I was good friends with, we went out together and she was my wing for hooking up with other women, I was her security for going out as she was ridiculously hot.
One night we got wasted together, I couldn't drive, and we walked back to her place, she wanted to get it on, but I didn't feel comfortable with it as she had just gone to the bathroom to vomit. I've had that excuse of "oh, I was drunk, I'd never do that" It hurts because you know they got drunk specifically to have that excuse. Anyway, I said hey, let's wait until the morning, we have time, I'll cook some breakfast and we can fool around. Morning came, she kicked me out (gently but firmly), and we never talked again. She remembered the night clearly.
No matter what you choose it's a trap.0 0 0 0
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Well, I’ve had sex with multiple people I’m friends with. I see it as both of us pleasuring each other, and that sex doesn’t have to change anything as long as we both understand we are only friends. Sex can just be a way to get closer to and enjoy each other.
But, it depends what do you mean “could?” Because if you mean she wants to have sex with me, then clearly, yes. But I don’t really take advantage of people, so if you are talking a date rape situation then clearly no.0 0 0 0
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(41)Um, of course?
If they express in me sexually why would I say no?0 0 1 0If we were both single and I was attracted to her, I might pursue her for a romantic relationship, but probably not just for sex.
0 0 0 0It would depend, but if it happened, I think it would be good.
If I thought I would lose the friendship, then I would not.0 0 0 0I don't see the problem if she's on board with it. I really wonder where you girls ever read that sex ruins relationships.
0 0 0 0I value my female friends, and would not take advantage of them, just because they were in emotionally vulnerable because of some event. My female friends treat me with kindness and with worth, and I do the same for them.
0 0 0 0Honestly no I have friends for that reason to be friends why would I endanger that for a fuck its a bad bet
1 0 0 1You are a good person.
Lol I never understood trying about liking someone just to try fuck them
Don't be stupid.
Friends are not there to be taken advantage of whether sexually, financially, emotionally or other. That's not the purpose of friends.1 0 0 0I posted this poll because a nasty pervert tried to convince me that every one of my male friends would have sex with me if I asked. I’m furious.
"Because I could" or because she wants to? Not because I could (and what exactly does that mean? Like she was offering?). It would change the friendship to some degree and if we have been friends that long, it's a pretty good friendship I'm assuming.
0 0 0 0Sure if she wants to? And i am single don't see why i would say no. Sex is just sex.
0 1 1 0Assuming I'm not taken (I am) we would have to talk it through, first.
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