Would you hide the details of your past sex life from your current partner if they were slutty?

What if it involved a friend of his? Anyone has experience with this?

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  • I don’t typically share any details of my past sex life with anyone, regardless of whether anyone might think it’s slutty or not. The bottom line is, that’s personal. It’s no one’s business but my own and that includes my current partner. Guys in a relationship often press for details of my past sex life and I don’t budge on that. If they don’t like it, they know where the door is. If I had been involved with someone he knew, he’d find out anyway so I might mention up front that I had a past relationship with this person and leave it at that. Then he could decide if it was too awkward for him or not. That would probably be the only scenario where I might volunteer something.

    • But what if he don't know him until after u guys stayed dating

    • What if it were your husband? Would you share then?

    • If our relationship predated him knowing the guy, I’d probably maintain privacy. If my ex wanted to tell him he could.

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  • Not if he asked I wouldn't lie, but if he didn't ask I sure as hell wouldn't volunteer the information.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Be honest.

    Do not be a liar.

    Face it, a sutty past will eliminate a lot of guys from being intersted in you. Just accept it. Actions have consequences.

  • This is a dangerous one, I'd say no, because if he finds out later, he could dump her even I'd they are married

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I wasn't that provocative before I got married. That part of me has happened more recently.

  • No. I've been 100% honest of my exploits with my boyfriend.

    • We're any of them very extreme and did honesty ever cause a issue

  • Past is past.

    But if

    - any impacts may appear and leads to misunderstand

    - these details affecting you till now

    You should be clear with him, at least with no much details

    • Past is past? Hmm. Interesting. If I was a pedo in my past, you think women would look past that?

    • @Jdjfjcjj If it is affecting you till now as I said above -could you take it all?” , you should tell her. Just to fuck you up 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • i'm private about it

    • So u would keep it to yourself

  • No, just get it out in the open.

  • Well... past is past. I wouldn't volunteer it. But if they asked, maybe.

  • I'm always of the mind set of if it happened before me I don't want to know although it comes with the understanding I personally wouldn't want to date someone who has been with a friend or family member

  • A friend of his? Damn that I don't think you should hide.

  • I would leak certain things but not give her a feature length history.

  • I usually never discuss this kind of thing, but in your case you may want to ask your friend for her opinion and to find out if her fiancé has told your partner what happened.

  • I have nothing to hide because I'm not a slut

  • Should they?

  • Guys have radar for hoes, we know you have been fucked a lot.

  • Why hide the truth. Either they accept you or they don't. The past is the past.

  • Past belongs to past

  • friend and coworker

  • not their business, it is in the past

    • Right...

  • If you want to talk about it, follow me and I will offer your ideas.

    • What?

    • look at my message

  • My husband knows pretty much all of my past as we have been friends since he was 12... he's witnessed my hoeing phases and I hoed with multiple of his friends

    • That's nice I wish that was the case

    • Wow... Have you cheated on him?

    • @Jdjfjcjj no I have not cheated on him it was way back as teenagers that I dated/slept with his friends at the time

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