Would you keep the baby if the baby daddy never take any responsibility?

I’m 4-5 months pregnant but my stomach is really small ( my baby is underweight) and now I have covid. I don’t feel really healthy right now and I think I have high chance to have miscarriages and the doctor warn me about that. And the baby daddy now he lives across the world from me. He been talking about fucking with prostitutes and the life he has with many prostitutes before he met me. I paid for all the appointments with my own money. He refused to send me money to do abortion or even take care of his baby. He makes me has depression while I’m being pregnant with his child. I don’t know what should I do with this baby. The latest I can do abortion is 6 months. If you were me what would you do, girls?
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  • He has not helped you, he has not paid for the appointments, he is fucking prostitutes, and he is not going to change an won't be with you. You have all the information you need to make a decision now.

    • I’m making decisions now, every minute of my day. He hasn’t help anything and when I try to talk about his baby he been talking shit how much he wanna Fuck with his regular prostitutes. He treated me worst than anyone. Spit on me. Pour a beer on me without me doing anything back

    • As I said, you have all the info you need to decide if you want to make a decision to abort or to raise it as a single mom since he will not be there except to abuse you!

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  • Can’t tell you what you should do that’s your choice. If it were me, I would take care of that baby because there is something to taking care of a child that is different than loving a spouse. Abortion is your call, I personally don’t believe in it, but I’m not going to belittle you or tell you what you should be doing. And yes you baby daddy is shit for not taking care of his responsibilities. He should be forced to take care of his child. Go after that child support if you can.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes. If I were in that situation, I know it is certainly not the babies fault that I chose my sex partners poorly, and that it is my duty to give the human that I created the best possible chance at a happy and successful life.

  • The decision you have to make now is one where you look at this as if you are alone (which you are) and do you want this baby. If not adoption is always available.

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  • Abortion is murder. Unfortunately he’s being a POS. But you also have to take responsibility for your own actions as well.


    There is adoption and I’m sure you’re not in the best situation. Yes I would not abort the child if this is what you’re asking. You created this child


    Neither one of you seem to want to take responsibility SMH

  • If he's got money for whores he's got money for child support.

    Sue in both countries

    • He just fucked Prosttitutes last night while I was pregnant with his kid , I’m so sad I want to suicidal but now I’ll do abortion

  • Wouldn't keep it regardless.

  • How long ago did you and him break up

  • Was this guy in the military? If he is you can talk with the military support services. They will get you support.

    • No, he works from home with small company

  • Unless you're against abortion, you should abort or give up your child for adoption to an infertile couple. You are too young and likely don't have the means to raise a child right now.

  • You are both responsible for the unplanned pregnancy but unfortunately you're the one literally left holding the baby who needs you. So girl up and getting on with it I'm sure there's lots of support available for you to access

  • I would hope she keeps the child; but I would also marry a woman who I got pregnant.

  • I would hope a girl would keep the baby.