Guys, Would you let your girlfriend or wife experiment with another girl?

[Anonymous]

Just curious to see how some of you feel about this.

[Aguysopinion4799]

I haven't been in a relationship, but if I got a girlfriend and she told me she wanted to try experimenting with other girls, I would say okay, at the end of the day I want her to be happy, I'm not going to tell her that she is supposed to be my girlfriend and therefore any other current new feelings she developed she must cast aside.

I would love to either watch or be part of it, but I am also okay with it if she decides she wants to try it out with just a girl and herself and not have me watching.

If she comes to me and tells me she discovered she likes girls then that's fine, I would tell her I hope she gets a great girlfriend and that there are no hard feelings.

If she came back and decided she wasn't into girls then great, I would say that you can add that to your experiences book :D

[normalice]

Sure. I understand women are sexy. If a girl i was with wanted a regular sexual relationship with another girl, I'd be fine with that. I'm well aware of my limitations and any capacity for filling the role of other women is certianly one of them. Though I would discourage oversized "toys" and obviously if im to be her "main" partner, whatever that means, then our mutual sexual needs would have priority over hers with any other girl's.

[wagsingle]

I'm pan, so I would be cool with it if we could all get together. Maybe we could also get another guy for both of us.

[RemoErdosain]

Pansexual doesn't mean you don't like monogamy. Other pansexuals wouldn't be OK with that

[wagsingle]

@RemoErdosain I worded that very poorly. I didn't mean to imply being pan made me non-monogamous. I am cool with it, but it's not because I'm pan. I only meant say that because i was pan, and ok with non-monogamy, I would be cool with having a shared girlfriend. HOWEVER! since the question deals with polyamory, , that should have been understood anyway.

[wagsingle]

@RemoErdosain Not all polys would be ok with that, but some would. I read about a survey of polys, I believe it was a Harvard study, that showed a majority of polys identify as pan, and a large percentage of pan persons were poly.

[RemoErdosain]

OK, I understand :)

[TonyV]

Well your suppose to be together for ever so yes.

As long as shed let me experiment with trans woman

[Truthatanycost]

Absolutely... since she'd no longer be a girlfriend.

[Kurαȷ]

In a way, yes.
Because I would dump them the moment they would bring it up.

[triff]

I'd be hesitated in case she converted her It would have to be someone w both knew and trusted

[pepperhicks]

Before we were married, my girlfriend brought my ex-girlfriend into our vacation this way. It was loving and fun. It was confined though to less than a week. It was a special experience to see her making love to another woman. If we were not the three of us together though making loving it would be different.

[wankiam]

absolutely yes

[boggboss]

No i wouldn't doe me monogamy is just that me and her

[Miristheiss]

That us an affair.
That is unfaithful to me.
If she wants sex with another... we divorce.

[RemoErdosain]

One cuck downvoted you

[Miristheiss]

@RemoErdosain lol!

[Dchrls78104]

@RemoErdosain pity him😂😂

[bowenw]

That's a tough one. If I tried to prevent it, she may just do it behind my back. I think I'd first ask her why she wants to experiment.

[Asker]

You do have a point there haha