Would you like to know about your partner's previous sexual encounters?

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  • Honestly I rarely care. I have had some pretty scandalous episodes in my life, with crazy amazing sex, and some pretty terrible sex... bat shit crazy woman and some pretty amazing woman.

    Bottom line men and woman both always ask about your history... and Ex's always come up. But honestly no man or woman, I suspect, wants to here about how amazing it was or traumatic it ended. So I try to never talk about Ex's, but its near impossible. I have been told things that really made me think, and sure enough... weeks more months later when she flips on you... your like I f'ing knew it because she said this what she did last time.

    It's like in possible to avoid forming opinions about people when they start talking about their previous encounters. It's not good. I had one woman tell me that once in her life she had a guy come over they fucked, and before he could get dressed, she had him out her front door. Basically, she said she wanted him to leave so bad after, she flipped out on him. He left so fast that he forgot his phone and it took her two weeks to give to a freind of a freind to return it.

    I can't tell you how much I wish she never told me that story 2 weeks into a relationship, but in a way 2 months later when it ended in a big ball of flames, I felt a lot better about the choices I made based upon that story.

    • Had another woman tell me about how jealous and processive he was so she had to end it. He was too much. But she said his major deal was that she would go running with this younger guy every day. Just her and this younger guy running together every day out on these hiking trails. And that her boyfriend at the time was very not happy about it. So, she tells me this story. and the whole time I am thinking how I would not be okay with that guy freind situation either. Its doesn't seem right to me that she loved hanging with this other guy together and spending that much one on one time with him... when she is dating someone else. Yup, months later she meets a guy at her gym, and they start going to lunches together even though we were dating in a committed relationship. Guy starts showing up at her apartment unannounced and they would go out together... so she claims. I told I did not like this at all... she flips out and calls me jealous and processive. So am I happy she told me this story... no not at the moment... but given how it ended in a ball of flames I did feel better knowing that she was that type of person.

  • Of course because I don't like promiscuous girls

Most Helpful Girls

  • Those stories aren’t always the most flattering. Sex is intimate. I’d like to keep sexual experiences something between me and him. I don’t care what he’s done. Our experiences bring us closer. Others would feel to me like pulling us apart a little

  • I'm not interested as he does a fine job of taking care of my needs now!

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  • In general no, I've found that most women will share that shit without prompting though. The more they talk about ex-boyfriends, the less invested I am. It makes me noodly both physically, and emotionally.

    It's something I never paid much attention to in the past, like I'd just tune the women out, and really just didn't get too close to any of them. My wife was a virgin when we got together though, there is no ex or previous sexual encounters.

    It has made things amazingly simple, and aside from when she has asked me about exes, they just don't come up whatsoever. It's something I can't really imagine having differently, like if I had to get with another woman now, I probably just wouldn't, or look outside the West.

    I mean, before being with her though, if a woman had just said she was only ever with one other guy and never wanted to talk about it, that would have been refreshing. How organically and naturally a woman will bring up an ex after you've been together for a couple weeks and are comfortable just blows my fucking mind though.

    God forbid you talk about the last woman you were with and how she had bigger tits, or more simply just didn't talk about her ex...

  • Yes but out of like morbid curiosity. I know it make me jealous but at the same time for some reason j do want to know. And kind ve aware if it's crazy high or low and if there an explanation for that

  • Within reason, sure.

    I would appreciate getting a general sense of how many guys she's been with, just so that I know how compatible we'll be together (in that area, anyway).

    I neither need, nor want, specific details about any particular guy, or encounter, though.

  • I don’t really care, I’ve always said whatever she did in the past is in the past. I know she’s only ever had sex with 2 others before me but even if it was more it wouldn’t really bother me. I cross the line at things like onlyfans though. Fair enough to the girls that do it there’s a lot of money in it but it’s on the internet forever and your future children may see that, you know.

  • Not really. I never asked a girl about her body count and none ever asked about mine.
    I knew that they had been in previous relationships and that never bothered me. But I don't want to hear them reminisce or hear details or tell me drama. It's in the past.

    I doubt if she would like to hear about my sexual exploits or details about sex with previous girlfriends. It could only make her feel insecure.

  • No, because I wouldn’t want to be jealous.

    • But would be quite interesting to listen, actually haha

  • No, this opens doors to places you dont want to go. Some things need to stay in the past or you'll compare your relationship with his previous ones.

  • Yesss just to get a number of body count. Not wanting to know full details tho that's a bit much

  • I'm fascinated with all of her encounters, whether they're from previous relationships or with someone she's seeing currently.

  • Yea you can kinda calculate or get an idea about her self control and sex drive strength and it kinda in a way let's you know if putting in the effort is worth it

  • Doesn't matter to me, I don't care

  • I find it's irrelevant as I can't change it. If they want to tell me I wouldn't object.

  • Not really, it doesn't serve me a purpose.

  • No. Past is the past.

  • I already knew about her last partners

  • Yes i want to make sure she does not have a history of going for looks or bad guys.

    • What's wrong with her going for bad guys?

    • @ChristLover21 There is everything wrong with it, it is childish at any age, it is morally wrong.

    • And after she’s done all that, you don’t wanna be with her anymore, right? I understand it being morally wrong.

  • Not in great detail. I just want to know all her past connections if any are gone.

  • Honestly I don't care maybe I don't about the guy but I would mind what she had done with a guy. I wouldn't ask but if she did tell I can probably figure out what she likes and fantasies she fulfilled or want to relive with me.

  • no i wouldn't , and believe me its not good to ask

  • No. It's in the past and none of my business.

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