Would you live with partner who tells your everything truth, and loves to have sex with other?

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Smc08 · Accepted Answer

Honestly I don’t understand it. I get why people have open relationships but I don’t get why they choose to get married. I feel like there’s some exclusion when it comes to marriage. What’s the point of getting married in the first place, I guess would be my follow up question. I’m assuming by “every truth” your talking about intimacy also. If your sharing that as well as your bodies, I really gotta ask what you see specifically about each other that made you say I want to die next to this person one day. Because if you love multiple people then it seems shallow. Or is it even that?

I feel like marriage isn’t the same anymore and that’s part of why 50% of the time it fails horribly. people somehow think being open and married is easier. But the reality is taking exclusion out of a marriage doesn’t mean you will be blissful in it. It’s more like more people are going to be in it. There’s more to marriage than sex and it takes a lot more work then I think a lot of people realize. People still get dumped and kicked to the corner when the sex isn’t good the same way closed relationship people do.

Bottom line is if your in an open relationship stay away. It doesn’t fit the life style of a swinger at all. Why try to make it fit with tradition? Your just setting yourself up for half of your stuff to get taken.

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

Absolutely NOT! I'd tell him to fuck off and get lost so quick. If you are fucking me and that isn't enough to where you are also getting it elsewhere I'm not in that game.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

If a partner is having sex with other then they truly don’t value you , you are just a convenience to them , so if you want to be in that type of relationship then that’s up to you but my ass would be kicking them out the door

Reece12345 · Accepted Answer

It depends on the whole context of the partnership. Some people would be only too happy to share and others would not. So many variables, the couple, context, etc.

Breanna_nonbinary · Answer

As I’m sure you know I do live someone who always tells the truth and we both have other sexual partners.  By the way, how Are you doing?😊

KarinMcDonald · Answer

No. I would not share my husband. Sharing is a one way street in our relationship.

musicbrain5 · Answer

No, I don’t want to share him or have an open relationship, if that’s what you’re asking.

MrCommodore · Answer

No, if I'm in a relationship it must be exclusive.

Berethor · Answer

It automatically make a man into a beta male so no, a woman might be okay with that.

Wish4UrB00ty · Answer

I mean I don’t think I would be okay with sharing of any kind… but it does sound like they would be having a good time.

juliammm · Answer

LOL, I am :) and he is too...

EmmaMary · Answer

No, absolutely not.

saffoler · Answer

Truth part, yes; sex with others, not so much.

sheikalana · Answer

No. I can't stand the idea of sharing my partner with anyone else.

DavidRaul · Answer

No. I don't want to share

TaureanBull81 · Answer

Couple swapping is absolutely fine if you're both OK sleeping with others without any jealousy creeping in.

Grond21 · Answer

Hell no. That is self destructive

Jennz6 · Answer

Of course Kelly, sounds like fun 💃

soe11 · Answer

Not at all

loveslongnails · Answer

I already do. LOL

clampfan101 · Answer

An open relationship is not a dedicated relationship. A marriage is supposed to be all about dedication, not a legal connection to a friends with benefits.