Would you marry a woman who is not a virgin?

Would you marry a woman who is not a virgin and has been used before?
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  • What do u mean by used? Why do you compare women as property or a thing that is used or consumed?

    Any way , i don't have a problem in that.. there is nothing wrong... The ones obsessed with virginity are the ones who feel insecurity as they consider women to be a property thus this property was taken by another man !!

    The obsession with virginity is the reault of patriarchal system taht is it.. all the definitions or concepts about vitginitt phrity and impurity , honor are the product of the patriarchal system as it considered women as properties for the male.


    Second : i don't have the right to speak about her previous relations , what matters me is that she closed that past or not.. is she still attached to somekne or an ex or not , did she move on or not... If she is si gle and not attached then i accept to be with her...

    Third : i don't have any rational reason to feel jealous about her being in previous relations because we weren't in a relation so i can be jealous and leave her..

    • used is like used clothing , meaning worn by someone else. a fitting analogy.

  • Anymore these days and my age you be hard press to find a virgin.

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  • sleeping with somebody is no “using them” and I don’t care about the body count of my partner

  • @melanie31

    "USED"... Would you please be good enough to explain yourself... Thank you.

    • Just take a look at the account, it's obviously a man

    • @LazerBean I know, you're absolutely right and that's the sole reason why I'm challenging "her".

    • @lazerbean

      Also, take a look at this one. lol

      How would you react if your husband cheated on you? ↗

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  • Why is it always about what a woman is!

  • Most men do not care about virginity, since most men have also been pre used. And that's good. Only virgins are good enough for other virgins.

  • No, I don't want used goods, it's like drinking from a can that someone else drank from.

    Would you marry a woman who is not a virgin?
  • Yes, but I probably wouldn't marry her if she was a virgin.

  • I wouldn't marry a woman regardless of whether she's a virgin or not.

    • You only marry men? 🤔

    • So @cheapskate are you saying you WOULD marry a man? lol

  • yes, that is my expectation. i live in the west.

    active lost virginity by 19, 63%
    active lost virginity by 19, 63%

    cdc health report 2017, but by now 2024 probably 75% by age 19.

    • So you're a virgin?

  • Yes I do as it's not a criteria according to my Norms of life...

  • Only if marriage and divorce laws were radically different in the US. As they are now, i’ll never marry. I can’t relate to men who do. I just automatically assume they’re very dumb or masochistic.

  • Not ideally.

  • Lol fuck no. I wouldn't have even dated a woman that wasn't a virgin forget marrying one

  • I would never marry a virgin, so I would marry a non virgin by default

  • yeppers, both times.
    As you get older the chances of finding someone you truly like and want to be with that is still a virgin are slimmer and slimmer every year.
    But if that is all that is important to you well best of luck to you.
    And here is a thought, what if you met someone that is a virgin and they rejected you because you were not a virgin?

    • older meaning age 17 to 19! i read 70% are active first year possible age 16, and 90% by age 19. in the west.

    • oops i remembered wrong. 30% first year possible only 63% by 19.

  • because you fell in love with them and want to spend the rest of your life with them.. her being a virgin has no bearing on that

  • Yes as it’s irrelevant.

  • As my last choice perhaps

  • I doubt it. I don't want other men having been with my wife.

  • Nope, I also wouldn't date her or hump her.

  • I don't put virginity on a pedestal. If you need your car fixed do you want a mechanic that has no experience. Literally in almost everything in life you rather the experience over never having tried it.

    If anything I'm more inclined to marry the non-virgin over the virgin.

  • Yes I probably would if we were in love and agreed to be monogamous.

  • Of course! Virginity isn't some sacred state. Who wants inexperienced anyway?

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