Would You Rather Date Someone Who's Had A Very Large Amount Of Past Sexual Partners, (Like 50+) Or Someone Who's Had None At All?

Do you prefer if someone you're dating has had an extremely high amount of sexual partners before you, or that they've had none at all?

All other factors aside, would you rather be with a person who's got a very large body count, or a count of zero?
I'd Prefer someone who's had a very large amount (50+)
Vote A
I'd Prefer someone who's had no previous sexual partners at all
Vote B
It doesn't bother me either way, both would be equally acceptable
Vote C
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  • As long as there are no STD’s, they are just as tight and one isn’t like blown out looking lol, and it wasn’t like 50 dudes just unloaded in her yesterday lol I’d rather have the good sex and real woman who knows what she wants in bed and will rock your world. Main thing is cleanliness and safety. As long as its all safe then the number doesn't matter you take the best lay! And trust me the girl who has gone through 50 dicks in her day will know how to take care of you and will be willing to do so much more!

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  • I’m getting to the age that finding someone who no sexual history at all is very unlikely. Unless I travel to Asia and get in a arranged marriage to a virgin (and it will be most likely be for money purposes) that is just not going to happen in the west.

    I hooked up with a 21 yr old a week ago and I’m 39. I’ve known her for 2 years throw CrossFit. She always came off as the innocent type to me but when got to it I discovered that wasn’t true at all.

    Anyway I really like all these girls voting saying they literally want to date a virgin. There is a very fleeting “cute” angle they get from that. But when it comes down to it the vast majority of them want an experienced guy. They want a guy who knows what he is doing and takes the lead. The want a guy who has some idea of what women want in bed.

    That doesn’t mean an experienced guy is going to be a cheater. I’ve been with lots of women but once I commit, I stay committed.

    • you can be experienced without having sex with 50+ people. Experienced can also mean you've had 4 gfs in the past.

    • 4 gfs over the period of 10 years.

    • @nella965 hey nella nice to see you again.

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  • Depending on his reason as to why he has had as many or little (or none at all) partners.
    Is he a player that just see women as numbers to run through?
    Does he have crazy standards that make it impossible?
    Will he only have sex after marriage?

    I think the reason is quite important.

    That being said, The number he has been with doesn't say whether he's good or not. I've been with a guy who had been with 12 or so and he wasn't really good. And I've been with a virgin who was really good.
    The number doesn't say how good he is.

    What's important though is how the sexual chemistry is.
    Are we into the same stuff? And will he be loyal to me instead of cheat around?

  • So this is basically asking another "what is your body count?" question. Why would someone who is a serial sexer be more desired than a one timer? Would you prefer sloppy #100 or fantastic firsts or 2nds? Just as anything else the more use it gets the more worn out it gets, including your bed springs after all those countless bed hopping.

    Would You Rather Date Someone Who's Had A Very Large Amount Of Past Sexual Partners, (Like 50+) Or Someone Who's Had None At All?Would You Rather Date Someone Who's Had A Very Large Amount Of Past Sexual Partners, (Like 50+) Or Someone Who's Had None At All?Would You Rather Date Someone Who's Had A Very Large Amount Of Past Sexual Partners, (Like 50+) Or Someone Who's Had None At All?

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  • That would depend on my motive. If I wanted only sex? I'd take the experience.

    If I wanted a woman with boundaries, I'd take the little to no experience.

    The high number wouldn't scare me, it her inability to form boundaries and keep 50+ guys away and at that high of a number, I doubt she can do that.

    I wouldn't want a virgin either, because I'm not interested in teaching. So a smaller range would work for me.

  • As long as they are clean and can prove it, because I can. Then I’m fine with it

  • I'm waiting for marriage. Hope my future wife is too.

  • 0-3. If its over 3, that makes me uncomfortable

  • In the real world I would probably get along better with someone who had sexual partners before. But if we play the game that it is the only difference, so no change in personality, I don't care.

  • An experience guy is more appealing to me. As long as he dropped his thot days and be loyal🙃

  • Nope. I don't want a guy with no morals and who can't keep it in his pants.

  • The key word if prefer,, of course I would prefer some with very little ,,, but if I'm dating her is because I like her for many reason and not because how many times she has had sex

  • I would never date anyone that uses the phrase "body count" to refer to past partners.

    Beyond that, the number doesn't bother me. I'd rather be with someone with experience than a virgin.

  • I don't date people based on their sex life. If all u want is good sex, then that's not a relationship. That's being a slut. Just saying :p

  • I have a large amount of experience, so it would be stupid for me to want a woman to have low miles.

  • I’d want someone who has had no experience before but I’d also not judge a person if they have slept with someone else before. We all have our own pasts but that shouldn’t be what stops us from finding love with someone.
    Personally I’m waiting for marriage and would hope my some day husband is too.

  • 50 is quite conservative really. They must be religious?

  • I wouldn't like either option, but I do think I would be more comfortable with someone that had 50+ previous partners.

  • I personally need and want someone with experience.

    Obviously with any new partner you go over your likes/ dislikes, what feels good for you and what doesn't etc - but I'm not a teacher, I want someone who knows what they're doing and who's good at what they do.

    Sex is sex, it's enjoyable, it's fun - the stigma around it needs to go away. With being with multiple people myself, I'm experienced.

    I'm also heavily into kinks and BDSM so throwing a virgin into the deep end wouldn't exactly be fair in my opinion - I don't just need someone who's had multiple sex partners, I need someone who also has experience with bdsm and kinks.

  • For long term, I'd rather have a clean girl. Statistics have shown the more sexual partners one has, the higher the chance of problems (in this case for women) single motherhood, overall lower happiness, higher risk of developing depression, higher chance to contract STDs and HIGHER DIVORCE RATES. Besides, no self-respecting man is going to invest in a woman who is an easy lay.

    • nailed it

  • the more past partners, the more you'd really start to wonder why there were so many XD

  • If you the slut that sleeps around you a slut the sleeps around I don’t know that you’re not gonna cheat on me so I would much rather have someone with no experience. Hell I might even prefer a complete amateur 30-year-old Virgin over the super hot 21-year-old with only 2 partners. It be nice to build that closeness and have them only know me as a partner I know they’re not trying to compare or consider other options.

    • Lmao some slut downvoted me because she can’t live without the d. Let’s give her a round of applause.

    • nobody is a virgin nowadays. Just saying...

    • WTH does that got to do with what I just said? Dumbass people.

  • I'd rather date someone who hasn't had any experience at all

    • Would You Rather Date Someone Who's Had A Very Large Amount Of Past Sexual Partners, (Like 50+) Or Someone Who's Had None At All?

    • sorry had too, I knew you'd like it

    • You know me well, 😂❤.

  • i like women with a sexual past so 50 plus is fine with me

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