Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Before you vote think hard about this. I think most of you would vote “looks” but that can be fleeting. Just like how you men be really attracted to a woman and yet feel tempted by another attractive woman it’s also possible for women to get tempted and seduced by other attractive men no matter how good you look. Especially if she gets bored with you in bed.
As much as I hate to admit to say it I would rather have a woman be in love with me for my abilities and resources then come from it. Reason being is they can age well vs. your looks that will fade.
I am not going to say “ability” in itself. You can be the smartest most talented guy in the world but at a certain point you need something to show for it.
What Girls & Guys Said
1 1Well, since I'm a total loser, in my case it would have to be for my resources... lol
So you have never been physically attractive to women? I was at one point in my life. Most women considered me a 8/9 in my late 20s and early 30s Wow that sounds great and all it also falsely made me believe women would stay in love because of my looks. We both know that’s not what makes women stay with a man.
I'm actually quite handsome and good looking; I just prefer to be shamed, humiliated and embarrassed by a beautiful woman who thinks I'm a pathetic little wimp, which is absolutely true... lol
If that’s really true then that’s bizarre and depressing to the point it’s scary. I take it you were raised by an abusive mother?
No, I just enjoy being thoroughly humiliated and shamed by a woman who is having sex fairly regularly with other guys, but never lets me have sex with her.
That is not normal. You must of had some sort of childhood trauma to be like that. Some sort of toxic guilt or something.
Perhaps, I couldn't tell you. All I know is that I'm happy today.
Well if that’s weird. But if you really are happy then the more power to you.
Thank you very much, sir:)
How about personality
This poll was meant for men. Also the whole “personality” is so general, so unpredictable, etc is extremely. Whatever really is a good personality is such a constant moving target. It’s like a guy has to be a movie character who so always in role. Sick of hearing that from women.
Your personality is what defines you as a person more than anything else. Without it your just an automaton and you leave it out and your sick of hearing from women suggesting that's what matters?
Personality matters. But personality is very complex. Most women want to date an extroverted guy who has a sense of humor and is “confident” (which is another amorphous concept). Then they want him to be sweet and vulnerable at the RIGHT moment. In theory that’s great. But that’s also very rare and most women don’t have personality to match the same personality they expect in a man.
Personality is easy for anyone with emotional intelligence to understand.
How about women care about personality only after looks on the first place and resources on the second place? Lets face the reality - personality is the last thing women are looking for. Would you rather date (or even have a child) an ugly guy with a perfect personality or a handsome chad with a bad personality?