Maybe part of the ritual magic of losing your virginity?
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Kayla45Guru
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I'm a virgin and I rarely masturbate, and I have a very low sex drive. I probably wouldn't stick anything up there.
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The_FallenOne
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Right! Lol, same here.
sarahbear1750Xper 5
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I literally just stared at the photo for 10 minutes trying to figure out what the hell a fruit had to do with the question
Now I know and i can’t stop laughing😂😂😂
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mistixs
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You could've just asked :P (If anybody else doesn't know, the fruit looks like a vulva)
CertaintyXper 3
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My hunch says no, I just can't find any reasons at the moment.
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elizamichale1Guru
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lol when i did it i didn't have any toy with me so i used my fingers and some other random objects and i think there's no harm in doing it
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ExterminatoreGuru
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No idea if it makes it easier. If you’re horny and you wanna get off, go for it. No guy is gonna hold it against you and a good enough amount will be turned on by it.
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AnimeMan205Xper 5
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*Giggle* Um... I voted G.
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Giggletr0nGuru
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Read some medical articles a while back about a similar subject, apparently it can help ease the experience of a girl losing her virginity but it won't nullify any sharp and uncomfortable pain like feelings, what's recommended for that is some head pads (applied to the lower abdominal area afterwards) and gentle insertion and thrusting during the experience.
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Giggletr0n
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*heat pads
genericname85Master
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i mean she could do that if she wanted xD it will probably help.
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DakotaNorthYoda
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When I get my new vagina I will have to dilate several times a day. Dilators resemble dildos and are designed to keep the neovagina from healing itself shut. From all I hear it will not be fun, it will be painful but necessary.
So I will be quite ready when my Michael finally goes at me. That is so exciting!
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StraightOuttaHadesXper 2
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How bout a cucumber instead?
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mistixs
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Waste of a cucumber when I have a perfectly functional toy that I could use instead
Marie1996Xper 4
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It does help because it helped me.
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Jamie05rhsMaster
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Wouldn't the size of the penis you're planning to use factor into it somewhat?
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TonyMetal_86Xper 7
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No way... nothing is compared tona real penis and the girl wants a real penis...
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mistixs
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The sex-toy can help a virgin prepare for a real penis
beancheese
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Depend how big the toy is. i think you should start small and work your way up
TonyMetal_86
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Well a man must takenyour virginity and not a toy... your giving your virginity to him and not to a plastic toy
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mistixs
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Virginity refers to having sex with a partner. You can't lose your virginity to a toy; it's not a person
mistixs
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Have you ever masturbated? By your logic then you gave yourself a handjob & thus aren't a virgin
TonyMetal_86
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Look miss, your a virgin girl which means your vagina hymen is intact and nothing can penetrate it, when you stick this toy or anything inside, your hymen will be broken and you will bleed and this means you ain't a virgin anymore... What i'm saying is that a man should take your virginity and not a toy stick "rubbish" and ofc this man will be your husband.
mistixs
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"Nothing can penetrate it" umm... tampons penetrate most girls' vaginas since they're like 13. Does that mean most 13 year old girls aren't virgins, because they use tampons? You don't know much about female biology. The hymen is elastic. From my research, most women DON'T bleed when they have sex for the first time. If she bleeds then they're doing something wrong. Regardless, hymens have nothing to do with virginity. The definition of virgin is "a person who has never had sexual intercourse." If you look up sexual intercourse, it refers to activity with a partner.
mistixs
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Image #1 is a normal hymen. There's more than enough room for a variety of things to be able to penetrate without breaking the hymen, especially since the hymen is elastic.
If your vagina can't be penetrated due to the hymen (see "imperforate hymen"), that's actually extremely dangerous because it means menstrual blood can't leave the body, either.
TonyMetal_86
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Your talking here about medical issues which are not normal, it seems that me as a man knows about your body more than you do... Tampons do not penetrate in a girl's vagina, it's a not a dick 😄 Also about bleeding from 1st time having sex, it's bleeding by all means, just couple of drops of blood that have a pinkish color. Intercourse, well yes a girl who has never had a sexual intercourse with a man is considered a virgin but the hymen is like a proof that the girl never had sex.
mistixs
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No. In the image I provided, the first image (#1) is a "normal hymen" (the rest are abnormal medical conditions). You can see very clearly that there's enough space for a penis to penetrate. The hymen is elastic; it doesn't break unless a man is doing something wrong.
TonyMetal_86
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Well i'm talking about a normal hymen...
mistixs
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And I showed you a normal hymen, & a normal hymen is small enough not to interfere or break when a penis is entering the vagina
TonyMetal_86
+1 y
Yes if the man have a micro penis...
zagorMaster
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LOL did you post that pic or did GaG?
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motownplayer2000Guru
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Nah. You both need to explore your bodies together before a toy does
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Daniel3035Yoda
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No do you girls want to take everything away from us.
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Daniel3035
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No why do you...*
ghostingzXper 4
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yeah i've been with virgins and before penetrating them myself i'll use a toy slightly smaller than my own dick to get them comfortable with having something inside, it helps a lot because any slight anxiety or nerves can cause the female body to completely tense up and not accept a penis
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TwalliMaster
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I fingered my girlfriend often before we had sex. She actually broke her hymen before we had sex. I would say it helps to experience some moderate penetration before your first penis.
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horsegirl500
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What's hymen?
Twalli
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@horsegirl500 it's a part of your vagina. Usually it breaks when you lose your virginity. Apparently it's painful when it breaks, which is why the first time is a bigger deal for women than men
horsegirl500
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Oh yea
Lumberman989Xper 6
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I guess it would help you to see what you're comfortable with
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25 34Don't you think maybe it hurts for a reason?
Maybe that little membrane is there for a reason?
Maybe part of the ritual magic of losing your virginity?
I'm a virgin and I rarely masturbate, and I have a very low sex drive. I probably wouldn't stick anything up there.
Right! Lol, same here.
I literally just stared at the photo for 10 minutes trying to figure out what the hell a fruit had to do with the question
Now I know and i can’t stop laughing😂😂😂
You could've just asked :P (If anybody else doesn't know, the fruit looks like a vulva)
My hunch says no, I just can't find any reasons at the moment.
lol when i did it i didn't have any toy with me so i used my fingers and some other random objects and i think there's no harm in doing it
No idea if it makes it easier. If you’re horny and you wanna get off, go for it. No guy is gonna hold it against you and a good enough amount will be turned on by it.
*Giggle* Um... I voted G.
Read some medical articles a while back about a similar subject, apparently it can help ease the experience of a girl losing her virginity but it won't nullify any sharp and uncomfortable pain like feelings, what's recommended for that is some head pads (applied to the lower abdominal area afterwards) and gentle insertion and thrusting during the experience.
*heat pads
i mean she could do that if she wanted xD it will probably help.
When I get my new vagina I will have to dilate several times a day. Dilators resemble dildos and are designed to keep the neovagina from healing itself shut. From all I hear it will not be fun, it will be painful but necessary.
So I will be quite ready when my Michael finally goes at me.
That is so exciting!
How bout a cucumber instead?
Waste of a cucumber when I have a perfectly functional toy that I could use instead
It does help because it helped me.
Wouldn't the size of the penis you're planning to use factor into it somewhat?
No way... nothing is compared tona real penis and the girl wants a real penis...
The sex-toy can help a virgin prepare for a real penis
Depend how big the toy is. i think you should start small and work your way up
Well a man must takenyour virginity and not a toy... your giving your virginity to him and not to a plastic toy
Virginity refers to having sex with a partner. You can't lose your virginity to a toy; it's not a person
Have you ever masturbated? By your logic then you gave yourself a handjob & thus aren't a virgin
Look miss, your a virgin girl which means your vagina hymen is intact and nothing can penetrate it, when you stick this toy or anything inside, your hymen will be broken and you will bleed and this means you ain't a virgin anymore... What i'm saying is that a man should take your virginity and not a toy stick "rubbish" and ofc this man will be your husband.
"Nothing can penetrate it" umm... tampons penetrate most girls' vaginas since they're like 13. Does that mean most 13 year old girls aren't virgins, because they use tampons? You don't know much about female biology. The hymen is elastic. From my research, most women DON'T bleed when they have sex for the first time. If she bleeds then they're doing something wrong. Regardless, hymens have nothing to do with virginity. The definition of virgin is "a person who has never had sexual intercourse." If you look up sexual intercourse, it refers to activity with a partner.
Image #1 is a normal hymen. There's more than enough room for a variety of things to be able to penetrate without breaking the hymen, especially since the hymen is elastic.
If your vagina can't be penetrated due to the hymen (see "imperforate hymen"), that's actually extremely dangerous because it means menstrual blood can't leave the body, either.
Your talking here about medical issues which are not normal, it seems that me as a man knows about your body more than you do... Tampons do not penetrate in a girl's vagina, it's a not a dick 😄 Also about bleeding from 1st time having sex, it's bleeding by all means, just couple of drops of blood that have a pinkish color. Intercourse, well yes a girl who has never had a sexual intercourse with a man is considered a virgin but the hymen is like a proof that the girl never had sex.
No. In the image I provided, the first image (#1) is a "normal hymen" (the rest are abnormal medical conditions). You can see very clearly that there's enough space for a penis to penetrate. The hymen is elastic; it doesn't break unless a man is doing something wrong.
Well i'm talking about a normal hymen...
And I showed you a normal hymen, & a normal hymen is small enough not to interfere or break when a penis is entering the vagina
Yes if the man have a micro penis...
LOL did you post that pic or did GaG?
Nah. You both need to explore your bodies together before a toy does
No do you girls want to take everything away from us.
No why do you...*
yeah i've been with virgins and before penetrating them myself i'll use a toy slightly smaller than my own dick to get them comfortable with having something inside, it helps a lot because any slight anxiety or nerves can cause the female body to completely tense up and not accept a penis
I fingered my girlfriend often before we had sex. She actually broke her hymen before we had sex. I would say it helps to experience some moderate penetration before your first penis.
What's hymen?
@horsegirl500 it's a part of your vagina. Usually it breaks when you lose your virginity. Apparently it's painful when it breaks, which is why the first time is a bigger deal for women than men
Oh yea
I guess it would help you to see what you're comfortable with