Would you say that people who are into hookups, one night stands, causal relationships, friends with benefits are "broken" in some way or another?

[Anonymous]

To me it shows a strong lack of self-respect and lack of respect for others.

Ironically most of these sorts of people are (often heavy) drinkers, smokers, and/or have other tendencies (such as gambling) that hint at their weak nature & personalities.

[SnowedIn]

I don't think they're broken. They may have a different way of going about life and relationships but I don't think that mean's they're broken. Also not sure that we have good data on their drinking and other habits to draw any sort of solid conclusions.

[Asker]

It strongly indicates a strong lack of self respect & self esteem if you google mental disorders and broken weak personalities such goes hand in hand. So if they're not broken, they're mentally disabled.

[CharlieDMX]

You are assuming people looking for one night stands are driven by addiction, which is too broad of a generalization... well, you are broadly generalizing saying they tend to be addicts and weak natured. You are also wrong on saying all of them are disrespecting others

[Berethor]

Less so with friends with benefits but yea, broken and slutty girls are having causal sex.

[boggboss]

No I would say what they want or need in life currently is not what I want wouldn't say that makes them broken

[AshViper]

And yet as the OP says most of them have obviously weak natures. Excessive drinking, etc. That isn't a sign of someone who is necessarily even happy with their own existence in life.

[AshViper]

*That isn't a sign of someone who is even happy with their own existence in life.

[boggboss]

Yet I wouldn't state thats a fact thats a observation she has but I think she is being blind to the fact most people these days are of that nature irrelavent of there sexual lifestyle in the modern world most people have some level of addiction to something

[Asker]

No WEAK people have an addiction. In this situation their WEAKNESS is very well exemplified by the fact they have such little respect for themselves that they can't not settle for anything except cheap.

[boggboss]

Yet thats by your definitions of what is cheep pr what u class as respect they are not objective points they are your opinions and when it comes to addictions believing only weak people suffer with them is the type of ignorance of someone who has not first hand seen someone that deals with addiction but meh

[Soremain]

"Broken" sounds overly dramatic. Almost everyone wants to escape boredom and loneliness in some ways. And for some people having a lot of random sex is the preferred method.

[OddBeMe]

Broken is certainly not true. We all approach sex differently. Some see it as a way to get to know someone. Others see it as just a fun exercise.