Since it has been shown that males are almost always friend with females on the premise that there is some sexual attraction somewhere, asking this question is like asking if you are willing to breath air to survive.
You can't "ask" for sexual favors from them, that's just asking to be called a bunch of shit like creep.
Being "dirty" with them would depend on your level of respect for them as a person.
I am sure the level of respect for a female who gives out blowjobs without issue, would be reduced. In regards to feelings-wise I am sure that could stay the same since most males don't get attached emotionally with sex. She on the other hand is more likely to get more attached after sexual activity so she may be different afterwards.
That's an interesting point! Is that true.. that males become friends with females they find attractive? In terms of the second point, I meant in terms of hinting at it. How? Yes, the dirtiness would depend on the moment I guess. It could be different.. I meant a girl you find hot, but don't see as a potential partner. Also check out the question in the update. Thoughts on all this?
You are a male, do you have any actual female "friends" that you go out of your way to be friends with that you would not sleep with if given the chance? Almost all studies on the subject show that it is almost always a no. I have never been active "friends" with a female I didn't want to have sex with. You know the ones you make the effort to call or text or ask to hang out. The addition to your question is almost silly. Don't we all fantasize about girls in our lives. Masturbate to and dream about them. Having the ability to virtually fornicate with them would be a perfect fantasy.
You make a great point about female friends. Yes I guess you would get naughty with them.
And true on the virtual fornication!!
So true! Can you check out this then pls about a female friend and a separate girl? Is it true the other way round?
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1677761-why-do-i-fantasize-about-this-female-friend-who-wronged-me
Yes to all except like only way I'd ask for a blow job would be if we were in the moment some how started making out and our lust took over. Wouldn't be a random nonchalant question. Depending on our friendship and sexual tension or lack of it. I would go about it as normal "tell her I dint regret it and care for her" in hopes it happens again or try to start a relationship. I'm not an ass enough to just not care about her she is my friend after all.
Like the last point, well said. But how would the sexual tension or attraction move to a bj? How would make out even start? And how to ask for the bj?
Well not proud of it (but it's happen) go out as a group were already flirty but only friends. We start drinking then we make out and hand start roaming. Kiss her neck and whisper in her ear how beautiful you've always found her (soft touches on her sides and chest). Move her hands down to your crotch. Est...
I see. The thing is if you're not the only guy how do you make it happen with say two hotties in the group (one of whom you kinda like, the other you think is hot). Or even one tbh! Can it turn out into a bj at her place or a double bj?
I had a guy friend offer me oral sex and I never talked him ever again
Woah really? How did that happen? What was said, and what would you say as to how it would happen the other way round?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!1. Totally.
2. Not unless she was clear or otherwise indicating that she was sexually attracted to me.
3. Yep.
4. I'd probably want to transition into an friends with benefits or a relationship after that.
1. Love the answer! Totally here too. 2. How would you know and how to suggest? 3. As in straight off the bat? 3. Intersting, so not a one off?
2. If she was being overtly sexual in our interactions. 3. Well by dfault, no, but if she wanted it. 4. Probably not. I'd likely want more in the future.
How would you know she was being sexual? How would you hint?
1. YES
2. NO
3. YES
4. MAYBE
yes...
No, I'm not interested in any kinds of friends with benefits.
If I wasn't dating anyone, totally
Nice, how would you do it or fulfill this - as in point 2 above?
Trade sexual favors? Lol. Jk, you can't really, it's a fantasy you have I think
So there's no way to make it happen?
no because I don't wanna risk our friendship because of a blowjob
ok fair enough
What a gentlemen <3
@Afrochick haha thanks ^_^
1: maybe
2:yes if they consented
3:only if they asked, let her swallow
4: well, only time would tell afterwards
1. Nice. 2. How would you hint? Also check out the update question?
1. Yes
2. I would let her offer it.
3. Yes
4. I'd probably want to transition into an friends with benefits or a relationship after that.
1. Nice. 2. How? 3. Yeah agreed, do it right right? 3. How?
2. I might just ask them 3. what do you mean?
3. As in make it a mind blowing bj. 2. How would you ask or hint at it tho? What's the best way to make it happen?
yes of course
1- yes
2- yes - if he/she show interest.
3- yes - if he/she show interest.
4- seems okay for me... but really speaking.. I am still wandering about normal and not normal.
How would you define 2. interest? And how to hint that you would like one?
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interest is shown by a hint the hint would be by: eyes, words, touching, showing, etc
Very unlikely scenario, though.
Agreed. But how would it ever happen?
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I wouldn't want one from a female friend.
Ok, why?
So you'd say no?
It would depend. I could carry on as normal afterwards but I've met very few women who could. If I thought they could and I wasn't in a relationship I would if I liked blowjobs, which I don't. Teeth.
Fair enough. Could you even suggest a one off or casual fling with a friend?
I wouldn't because so few women I've known would be up for and emotionally suited for that the chances are vanishingly small it would be well received. I've had women I didn't know proposition me at parties but I never took them up on it because I didn't know them.
How did the women proposition you for a bj? So is it possible to hint at it to a friend or woman you know?
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