Would you sleep with any of your friends on the opposite sex?

[Anonymous]

Since men usually say men and women can't really be friends I wonder..

[Anonymous]

Lol I totally have slept with several of my friends of the opposite sex. Hey we were horny, consenting adults, I had an apartment to myself, so why not have a friend, or several, come over (not at the same time, lol) so we could help each other out?

It was generally an unspoken thing, and honestly, for a good three / four years, I had several friends with benefits. None of them knew all about each other, although one of my friends knew about most of the other people. Since it was purely about sex, we never had issues.

[Asker]

Are you still friends today? didn't any build feelings?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm still friends with some of them, but a bunch of us moved out and away a few years ago, so it's harder to stay in touch. I admittedly did catch feelings for one of my friends, realizing years later what I was feeling the entire time. But our lives are much different now, so it's better this way. I definitely don't regret any of it; I'm glad we were able to have sex, and I feel it brought us closer.

[Asker]

Okay thats intressting.. would you have done the same with your male friends?

[Sparkie460]

I wouldn't. We are friends. Not lovers. We hug and kiss on the cheek but that's it. I value the friendship that we have

[Asker]

👌🏻👌🏻

[Sparkie460]

Thanks for the mho

[Asker]

Ofcorse you deserved it!

[Cynicaldreamer]

Hell no. I actually cringed in real life picturing that, LOL

I have several guy friends in real life and that is exactly why we're friends: I'm not attracted to them in that way, nor could I see it happening (and happily the feeling is very much mutual). I couldn't even kiss them... a hug, maybe? But that would be the limit, lol.

Wow, it tickles me how many of you said yes. Got to love "platonic friendships" huh? 🙄

[Asker]

Yeah Im the same as you

[Cynicaldreamer]

I just don't get it... but whatever. Sounds like most of these people would sleep with someone that probably just sees them as a friend they can trust or talk to- NOT sleep with, but that's not my business, lol

[Asker]

Yeah right... I could never risk my friendships.. i'd take a bullet for some of them but would never sleep with them

[Vegasrunner]

@cynicaldreamer Lol I doubt it's mutual. Most guys that are in the friend zone are their because they can't handle rejection.

[Cynicaldreamer]

@Vegasrunner Uh... not when they put you in the friendzone first, sir :| Fun fact- guys can (and do) friendzone females too: I'm proof of that :) But that's not what we're discussing. Back on topic: a lot of my guy friends are happily married or in relationships, and yes, have friends of both genders, male and female

[Vegasrunner]

@cynicaldreamer Some can, I do it quite often however overwhelming majority of guys don't have enough options to. If a guy is friendzoning a female it's typically because she's ugly. If you're married guy friends are hanging out w/ these women in couples that's not really friendzoning. Are you saying they're married and the are keeping single girls as friends?

[Asker]

Yeah men friend zone too! But its also true what @vegasrunner is saying

[Cynicaldreamer]

@vegasrunner "Are you saying they're married and the are keeping single girls as friends?" Why yes. And before you ask- yes, their spouses know, have met me, and trust me, lol. It's literally a friendship. I find it funny that shocks some people that people of the opposite sex can be friends without a hidden agenda, motivate, or sexual tension. " If a guy is friendzoning a female it's typically because she's ugly." Yes, exactly. As I've made very clear on this site many, many, many times- that's part of the reason I'm still single: men don't find me attractive or I'm not their type. And I've accepted that. I'm sure as hell not going to cry over it (I did that when I was younger, lol). You're not going to be attractive to everyone you meet in life, but I've got some damn good friends that support me, so I'll live.

[Vegasrunner]

@cynicaldreamer TY for that. Based on that info then it's like I said. The reason a guy would friendzone a girl is because she is ugly. If their spouses know about the girl and are not concerned then she's 100% not attractive and they don't see her as a threat. Yes all that tracks. Sounds like we're I'm agreement.

[Samantha36]

Not now im with my boyfriend. I used to. Iv slept with all of my male friends over the years.

[Asker]

Are you still friends with them and does your boyfriend know?

[Samantha36]

My boyfriend knows everything. Some i still speak to on social media but most of them are no longer friends

[Asker]

👍🏻👍🏻

[Samantha36]

I must add that most of them were not friends before sex. They were strangers that became fuck buddies then friends with benefits. I have 1 male friend that iv known since 5 years old and we got drunk 1 night and ended having sex. We both regretted it after and we are still friends now with no awkwardness

[peterrezeeek]

how old r u?

[Samantha36]

@peterrezeeek 36

[peterrezeeek]

am surprised so u have high sex drive in this age... ur behaviours sounds like 18 years old teenager girl

[Samantha36]

@peterrezeeek why? Woman like sex too you know. Yes I have a very very high sex drive, and it usually gets higher with age. I slept around a lot when I was 15 to 21 and then again when I was 34 to 35 when I split with my partner. Now I'm settled with my boyfriend and happy.

[peterrezeeek]

ah ok thanks.. wish u have a happy life 😍

[OlderAndWiser]

I am engaged and faithful, so this is not my reality. But if I was not in a committed relationship, I have a few female friends and acquaintances who are sexually desirable and I would certainly consider them as potential sexual partners if there was mutual attraction and a relationship developed.

[Asker]

Alright makes sense in a way!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

No I wouldn’t. If I wanted to sleep with them, they wouldn’t be my friends.

[Red_Arrow]

When you meet someone and fall in lover, then marry, they were a friend for you to get close enough to love them. So that is obvious. But you can have other friends where there is mutual sexual attraction and you act on that. The alternate to that would be that you are sleeping with people you don't care about.

[Asker]

Alright so thats a no for you?

[Red_Arrow]

Since I married and slept with her, it is a yes.

[Asker]

👍🏻👍🏻

[Sour-rose]

o god no. Just knowing i have something putting their arms around me after sleeping alone for years, i'm gonna start swinging. In the dark. :)

[Anemone978]

I could sleep with most my guy friends because they are hot but I wouldn't because they are whore bags and probably have stuff. So let's just keep it platonic 🤣🤣

[Asker]

Haha wise choice😂👌🏻

[Pinay_ako]

I have slept on the same bed with a close friend in college. We never did anything. We slept well and ate a heavy breakfast in the morning after

[Tstrbrainer]

Were you open to the idea of doing anything if he initiated? 🤔

[Pinay_ako]

@Tstrbrainer no.

[Mac-One]

@pinay_ako Yes - should be possible to sheep in same bed without sex if that is your choice.

[Tstrbrainer]

Sheep 🐑? 🤔

[Pinay_ako]

@Tstrbrainer 🤣 we counting sheep 🐑 instead of zzzs 😝

[Paige90]

Did both of you have clothes on or off?

[rachel776]

i have done

[NudeBella]

Yes, I have had friends with benefits.

[rosemilk]

ew no. and i'm taken already.

[EmmaMary]

No, absolutely not.

[Asker]

Same😂

[EmmaMary]

Well it's certainly nice to know that I'm not alone!

[Asker]

Yeah same! Thats why I asked😂😭

[BoopBoopBeep]

I have slept with over 90% of my female friends in periods when I was single.

[Asker]

are you still friends?

[BoopBoopBeep]

mainly yeah... all but maybe 5 of 'em, but that didn't have anything to do with the sleeping together. One passed away, one was KIA in a drunk driving accident, one went off to australia and we just didn't' keep in touch through the years with all my deployments, 2 of them kinda... got boring as they aged and we grew apart when we didn't' have anything in common... BUT in the immediate short term after sleeping together we were still friends.

[Asker]

sorry she past away. i see life change sometimes..

[BoopBoopBeep]

thanks... she had a long battle with cancer... it was an eventuality

[Paige90]

I have with one and with enough alcohol I might again.

[MementoMori777]

It's why I refuse to make female friends lol

[Asker]

😭 im good with male friends! You'd see me as a brother I swear!

[MementoMori777]

You wouldn't be the problem, if I see something I like and it attracts me, it's just gonna complicate things lol

[Asker]

You gotta get the ugly female friends lol! We exist everywhere. But I got it!

[Asker]

So if you have a girlfriend would you be okay with her having male friends?

[MementoMori777]

Nope and it's not because I don't trust her but I know how guys think and 90%(maybe higher) of the male friends want pussy, i don't want her anywhere near them pigs, I trust her but I don't trust them, I'd return the favor tho and no female friends, we have each other why couldn't we be friends to each other.

[Asker]

Okay... Evan if she knew they guy since kindergarten and they never dated or did anythinng sexual? And you could be with her when she is with her friend?

[MementoMori777]

Maybe, I'd check him by terrifying him to not try anything perhaps it will work

[Asker]

Okay.. how would you terrify him lol?

[MementoMori777]

Depends how tough he thinks he is I guess

[Asker]

If he is skinny and scared?

[MementoMori777]

Then yea, he should step out of line

[Asker]

Alright lol

[MementoMori777]

I hope you know I'm probably completely unrelatable, don't take my aggressive mind and compare it generally

[Asker]

Alright then I won't

[MementoMori777]

👍👍👍

[Pinay_ako]

Nah we friends whatchu talking about

[MementoMori777]

Ey world record for the quickest friendzone in existance⌚🥳 Foreal tho, indeed but online is different 😂

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 yes 🙌 true that

[ARWINGx1]

That would depend on the girl in question.

The most important question would be that... well, whoever I do sleep with, oughta be ready for the possibility that I may think dirty.

I mean, that I'd give the "example girl" such a heads-up, and let her decide if she can accept that.

[glennos89]

I'm a guy 33 years old and I have female friends but I wouldn't consider sleeping with them. And that is not because they are ugly or unattractive or anything like that, but sex changes the connection you have with a that person. I value my friendship for what they are so I wouldn't sleep with them when the opportunity is there because it will cost me to sacrefice my friendship

[Asker]

Agree!

[Dargil]

Not now (taken) but I did in college. On one occasion, a girl asked if I would sleep with her naked but non sexually. It was partly out of curiosity and partly a psychological experiment we talked about after. It centered about my feelings and body reactions in bed. Hard being hard and dribbling for hours. Honestly.

[Asker]

Oh okay.. is she still in your life?

[Dargil]

No longer. Back in college.

[FunkyMonkee]

Already did it at least twice.

[anon1903]

Sure. But if they think I'd date them, haha!

[dreamstar72]

Would, but will not now

[Mac-One]

Should be able to sleep (just sleep) with a person of the opposite sex and even cuddle.

[Asker]

I meant sex..

[Mac-One]

I know that but wanted to qualify my response. Sex or no sex should not effect their friendship.