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Would you still give oral knowing it won't be reciprocated?

at least not now.

I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now. he knows im inexperienced in most things sexually. I've been with other guys before but all we did was kiss and gave hickeys.

anyway im a virgin, never received oral and never gave one either. he's aware im not yet willing to have sex and I told him its not gonna happen for me anytime soon.

last time we saw each other he said if I want, he'd give me oral. I told him no since I wouldn't be reciprocating it and he said he didn't tell me that just so he could get some head. he said he just wants to let me experience it.

I still haven't said yes to him but I think he knows im thinking about it.

would it be wrong if I say yes and still wouldn't give it back? even though he says it's fine would you do it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He wants to give you pleasure, let him give you oral sex. You don't have to give him oral sex. An option is to stroke his penis. Why are you not willing to give him oral. Feel free to add me. I would like to talk to you further about this subject.

  • Just do what you are comfortable with, there's nothing wrong with having limitations.

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  • I vote for letting him give you the experience. I recommend it.

  • I prefer to just give anyway. But he should at least offer

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  • Some guys just enjoy giving their partner pleasure. If he wants to go down on you sit back and enjoy it.

  • I'm sure he'd still enjoy doing it and probably doesn't do it just to get it I too but If you are ready to receive oral, why aren't you willing to give it? That's kind of the least you could do after 6 month

  • I love giving oral. I really don't need anything in "return" that is just not how it works for me

  • Yeah, if I was the guy in your situation, absolutely. Now if we're both comfortable with sex, and we're regularly having it, and my partner decides that oral is too much work for her, or she doesn't enjoy doing it, then eventually I'd stop giving it to her.

    But if the situation is as you described it, yeah, I'd be fine with it.

  • I give oral because I want to. I consider it the end point of making out and believe it well precedes a girl giving a blow job. If making out is working, which includes bare breast play and suckling, I will go to it directly and actually not even want a blow job at that time. It is giving her really intimate cunnilingus which can make her feel appreciated and make her want to be intimate with me. I want her give me a BJ only when she wants to and is ready. I know that sounds altruistic, but there it is.

  • I enjoy doing it...

  • Tbh. I would play or go down on a friend when she needed it and i wouldn't ask for anything back. I think it pisses her off usually though because eventually wants to return the favor or jump me. Lol

  • Not as often though

  • Yes, but mostly because I enjoy giving it. I don't expect her to always reciprocate, but once every 2 months would be nice

  • Yes I go down on my girlfriend more then she goes down on the me and longer then she goes down on me

  • Of course. Sex is not a trade or exchange of favors. Do what you are comfortable with.

    I was dating this Indian chick and she was repulsed by the idea of giving me oral. She was also hesitant to let me give her oral. Eventually she really enjoyed receiving oral but never gave me blowjob. I was fine with that, since that was her limit

  • Yes I would.

  • Yeh. I enjoy it

  • Yes I would.

  • If he doesn’t care then let him, some guys like giving more

  • Yea thats fine i give it to my partner 2 to 3 times a week but never got it back i prfer it that way

  • Yeah, I give it to my wife all the time and never receive it.

  • What’s the difference between your job and your wife? Your job still sucks after 2 years. Kinda selfish of you. A virgin at your age? Jeez, what do you do for him?

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