Would you still want to talk sexual and tease/be teased if you knew you werent going to have sex anytime soon?

[DizzyDesii]

Like for how long can you handle seduction without giving into temptation? For example, if one or both of you were waiting til a certain point in the relationship (or til marriage), could you still handle the sexual discussions and teases or is that just fckin with your head? Is it making you assume you’re getting sex sooner? Is it likely to make you cheat? Will it drive you to breakup and get your needs met sooner? Would you have simply never dated the tease in the first place?

I know Twilight was corny bt see this one scene below. Edward wanted to tear dat ass up (or maybe just tear her from limb to limb and suck her bloody dry), but the way he pulls himself back is a great example.

I personally love it 😂 Yea you’re not going to get it out of me ANYTIME SOON but I still like to talk about whats gonna go down. I need someone who is freaknasty but patient. I definitely do seductive shit to tug at the hamstrings but I’m not one to give in so easily. I mean I will jump the mfs bones. But i often pull myself off and remind myself “not just yet”. So yea its best the guy is on the same page/level of resistance as me. But when we give in, we’ll never forget it. I might regret it (as usual). But we won’t forget it 😂 #FeelFreeToList

[Reece12345]

I have no problem being teased. If we're having sexual discussions and teasing my boners will be uncontrollable and she's bound to notice them. I hope that this will be a turn on and not a turn off.

I won't expect sex any sooner and I'll always be faithful, but would jerking off to the thought of her break the rules? Am I giving into temptation if I masturbate to her before we get married?

[DizzyDesii]

No you absolutely should jerk it for me

[Reece12345]

That would work very well for me then

[DizzyDesii]

Hehe

[Reece12345]

Oh, and if you wanted to watch that would be a plus. I'd be careful not to hit you and I'd take care of the mess.

[DizzyDesii]

If i was there, i dont know if i could just watch. I’d want you to wrap your hand around mine and guide me to stroke it the way you like

[Reece12345]

Mmm, I'd be happy to show you. I'd love to feel your hand around it

[DizzyDesii]

Oooo don’t get me started haha

[Reece12345]

Mmm I need to follow the rules, and show you self control while you stroke it, right? Things are getting awfully slippery but I won't lose it until you tell me to

[DizzyDesii]

I dont ever want you to hold back. I hate waiting. You cum the moment your dick jumps for me

[Twalli]

That's why I give timetables. Regardless of how sexual we get, I am not fucking you before we've been dating 3 months. Even if we express undying devotion and love, I'm not proposing before 3 years. You know this early on if we're dating so you don't see something there that isn't.

[DizzyDesii]

I do the same. I give a timetable of 6 months at the least. So i mean thats not even the max. I just know i gotta be in love with the person which is not the same as just loving hen

[DizzyDesii]

But im talking sex since im not in control of the proposal 😂

[Twalli]

You CAN propose. There's nothing saying the woman can't "pop the question".

[DizzyDesii]

I know i can. But these days i wouldn't. I saw myself proposing to maybe one dude but yea im past that

[bzcxx]

Well, some 'action' is better than none at all. I have a theory. Hear me out. I have always thought that everyone has a 'wank bank'. An imaginary bank that fills up progressively when someone is aroused. When the 'bank' is filled to the brim, your solo masturbation sessions are guaranteed to please with mind-blowing orgasms.

This 'bank' fills throughout the day. When you see someone attractive, read something erotic or have naughty thoughts, this bank fills up slightly, drop by drop, bit by bit. When you eventually get home and it's time for your solo action, how 'full' this bank is determines how your session goes. The bank might be empty, having received no sexual thoughts or temptations throughout the day or it might be filled to the brim with lots of touching, flirting and other forms of 'action' not amounting to sex (e. g. making out etc.). From time to time, this bank may overflow even before you're home for your alone time and you might find yourself having to relieve yourself in the bathroom at work or in school.

If I’m in a relationship with no sex, I’ll be sure to set aside some time each day where I reward myself with some mind-blowing action (with toys or otherwise). If I were the recipient of said action (teasing and what not), this bank is sure to overflow each day.

As someone with a high sex drive, even if I know I will not be having sex that day, I still love for that imaginary bank to fill (as much as possible) each day to help with my solo action at the end of each day. This might be unique to me, but if this bank is empty, the orgasms of that day's solo action disappoints (ruined orgasm at times.) IF I ain't getting sex, at least help me fill that bank!

[bzcxx]

jesus christ. I just realised this was posted 20 days ago. I hate the new site, it jumped right at the top of my feed... lol

[DizzyDesii]

This was a hot answer tho 😝🔥😍

[bzcxx]

HAHA do you have trouble with the new GAG website too? I keep stumbling across old posts!

[DizzyDesii]

Yea they just made an update where gifs dont play automatically. I hate that

[bzcxx]

I miss the old site

[DizzyDesii]

Like the 2016 version

[bzcxx]

Yes! I was here in 2015/16 too. I lost my old account

[DizzyDesii]

Ooo what was your name Papi

[bzcxx]

I don’t remember either 😭😭 I was 14yo. Probably something dumb 💀

[DizzyDesii]

14? Good lord i retract that “papi” 🤣

[bzcxx]

14 back then 😭🥳 that was like 8 years ago

[bzcxx]

but yeah 22 this year, way younger than you, time to calll you mami (is that the equivalent?) jokes 🤡💀

[DizzyDesii]

😂 i didn't pay attention to the age at first but i’ll definitely start 🏃‍♀️

[bzcxx]

😂😂😂 ciao

[DaveJord]

For me personally I think the teasing and flirting is really fun and I get a lot out of it, as long as it leading to something. But once it becomes known that it is not, and it is all just for fun... then it becomes disingenuous to me.

So, I have gone as long as 6 months without sex, but the whole relationship was premised upon a genuine romantic interest. And the fact that we went 6 months is because she was traveling and wanted to take things slow... but I started losing interest and ultimately that became the reason why we had sex... basically she started to realize I was losing interest. So, we had sex, and honestly it was underwhelming, because all the sexual tension that was there at the start was somewhat diminished at that point. I had already lost interest and had tired of the situation and it was all too little too late for me. We had become friends, but the romance had expired, and I was already moving on.

At some point you got to start asking yourself, when starts to feel like it all really becomes only about her, and her insecurities and her issues, versus what's in the best interest of the relationship. Is she just playing hard to get, is she just a tease that loves the attention, or do my needs and wants really to matter? But when things start to stall, and you feel like the relationship is not progressing, you lose interest... you start to feel like this is not the relationship or type of person you can truly see yourself with.

If the expectation is that it's a romantic relationship, then at some point you got to put your money where your mouth is. If you string it out too long, people start to feel put out, unappreciated or used.

[DizzyDesii]

Its not stringing it along if you make yourself clear in week one what the standards are

[DaveJord]

Yeah, it was made clear to me in week one then I would not do it and ignore her if she tried.

[7Phoenix7]

Oh I love it. It's mental foreplay 😌

[DizzyDesii]

Physical and mental hehe

[7Phoenix7]

Oh I see lol

[Billlewis]

Oh my God yes! You just described basically every relationship I've had with women over the past twenty plus years... lol

[DizzyDesii]

Dang

[Billlewis]

Does that mean you like the idea of doing that to a guy?

[DizzyDesii]

For the most part

[Billlewis]

What if he also wanted to spoil you rotten and maybe even pay for your dates with other guys? I love doing that for a beautiful woman who's teasing me relentlessly and driving me crazy 8><3

[DizzyDesii]

I dont want anything monetary/materialistic from the guy. I care more about his emotions and actions

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, just keep teasing me and teasing me and teasing me... and when you know I'm going crazy with utter frustration, just giggle and tease me some more... lol

[Wish4UrB00ty]

I love talking about shit and I would for sure let myself kiss and touch but I can keep my dick off if a need to. It’s one of those things like I could and it has proven easier if at a distance but I have tested it and I can hold back if that is my goal.

[DizzyDesii]

Good goals lol

[Wish4UrB00ty]

It is right! I’m so bad at actually keeping to them… in that I’m almost always fantasizing about someone… but like! If I find a girl I’m ready to be true to I plan to be her golden boy!

[SnowedIn]

Yes, I'd still do that. It'd be hard... um... errr... difficult, but yeah.

[DizzyDesii]

Hehe i know but that makes it fun

[SnowedIn]

Actually, I agree. That sort of anticipatory erotic thought process is as much foreplay as anything physical.

[DizzyDesii]

Exaaaactly! And i think thats why im so fascinated with it. As much as i had sex with the two i did, it was still overrated which is why its so easy to go longer without it. Foreplay is what gets me going and keeps me going and holdin out

[coachTanthony]

Maybe a day two at the most …. I’m like this is great but let’s goooo

[DizzyDesii]

Damn lmao

[NathanDavis]

I like it, I don't mind it... I can enjoy a tease for what it is, and no more than tease

the rest all depends in the context and the circumstances... not all situations are the same, nor have the same reasons to be

[ShadezMcgee]

I have little patience for that bullshit. I find it cruel because there are people who do that to others who have no intention of following through or just outright blue ball them for kicks until they feel they are ready. If people are doing that, intentions can be easily misinterpreted with it.

In my eyes, if this is a recurring thing and the banging hasn't happened within a few dates, I am out. I have no timed or desire to be jerked around by women like that.

[DizzyDesii]

Thats why i said someone on the same page. And i dont say stuff to just say it unless we’re a huge age gap and then i make it clear that nothing will ever actually progress past flirting. But nah I’ve always lived up to what I said. Even if they didn't het sex, they got something. I’m not gonna just make a man starve and get blueballs. I always fix the things i’ve nearly “broken”

[ShadezMcgee]

I get it. But I am still answering with that as well. If we are wanting to be sexual it has to be on the same page and timeframe of when we want it. I wouldn't be happy with being teased or want to be teased like you are saying for exactly what I said above AND for the reasons you mentioned. It is misleading because it comes off as wanting sex early and then doing a quick takeaway of it saying "no, no, not yet" I would view that as messing with me and and make me want it sooner outside of confusing me if you go against what you originally stated of when you wanted to start exploring sex. I would want to get nookie soon and would rather go get my needs met or find someone who won't pull that shit. I wouldn't be satisfied with a hand job or any foreplay crap because I want to reciprocate the whole act, not just part of it.

[DizzyDesii]

Well thankfully I always state it up front that I wouldn't have sex until I’m in love and i let them know thats gonna take at least 6 months because i know myself better than any other. They then can choose if they feel the same and can easily wait around or if its too much for them and they need to leave. But im not gonna keep my hands to myself while we wait so they gotta be able to handle so much

[MendaciousMarxist]

I can hold, always have,

it's the men I've been with who couldn't. It's so cute to tease them and watch them worm.

[DizzyDesii]

I come with a disclaimer. So if they choose to stay thats on them. But im never surprised when they get frustrated and can no longer stick around.

[MendaciousMarxist]

that is very fair, it's on them if they couldn't handle it.

[20yearsolder]

Absolutely, even though I'm not going to have sex in the near future, it doesn't stop my hand from fighting up and down my dick

[DizzyDesii]

I mean the something would still cum soon... just not the sex

[20yearsolder]

As long as we are getting to cum, I'm all in

[DizzyDesii]

Oh the you’re good to go

[DizzyDesii]

*then

[20yearsolder]

Wouldn't you be? If you got the tease each other as long as you knew there was going to be a happy ending

[DizzyDesii]

I live by the tease lol. I already regret the two who did eventually get into these drawz. But each time i get a little smarter and wait a little longer. I’d like to not regret the 3rd dude

[20yearsolder]

Understandable, If you're willing to tease someone to that point, even if he already knows there's no sex involved, there's no reason you can't cum too

[DizzyDesii]

Plus i make it clear from day 1 whats im about. Anyone choosing to keep in touch past that, thats on them haha

[DJB72]

Love being teased. My ex was great at it. Sadly my wife not so much.

[DizzyDesii]

You gotta teach her how to seduce you

[DJB72]

It's been 20 years. New tricks not going to happen...

[JDavid25]

Oof, I could do it.. I've done it before and nothing happened between us.. But would I want to? I don't know.. Lmao.. I don't know if I want my hormones want to handle that level of build up.. LOL..

[DizzyDesii]

Awww but its soooo... fun

[JDavid25]

I have two extremes.. One where the sexual anticipation is peak and I'm ready to jump on that ass.. And the other where they can tease me all they want, my hormones are low enough to where they may get a tiny bones outta me, but they ain't making me horny all day.. It's those extremes that help me not to teeter on the edge... Of wanting to give them all my kids all the time.. 😂

[JDavid25]

Tiny boner**..

[DizzyDesii]

Lol i can relate. If its a guy i like enough, i’ll be pouring from the smallest thing he says. But if im not that into him, he’d basically be talking to himself because i won't flinch 😂 I can resist pretty well. I often know in 24-72 hours if i can see myself with someone longterm. And if not, nothing they do can change that

[Agape93]

Yeap

[AnUglyBarnacle]

No. I'm an extremely visual dude, so just seeing her in person is gonna be enough to get my tension up fairly high. Don't want to add to it if I'm gonna be frustrated all day or longer. lol.

[DizzyDesii]

Awww you gotta be able to handle it haha

[RavVid]

If I am in a committed relationship then I don't want to participate in teasing. It is nasty to be fucking your SO while imagining them to be somebody else.

Otherwise it is quite fun to be teased or teasing. It builds up a big head of steam to release.

[DizzyDesii]

Im confused. ain't nobody cheating 😂 where did you see me say flirt and tease while in a relationship? Im single baby boy

[exitseven]

I could do that all day.

[DizzyDesii]

Good

[DavidRaul]

I mean yeah it would be fine. I am not having sex until i see her as my potential wife. A little tease would be fine

[DizzyDesii]

Okay good

[es20490446e]

I can resist it, but not my partner.

[DizzyDesii]

Ooooo

[MysticDevice]

Yup. For sure

[DizzyDesii]

Good. Gooood

[MysticDevice]

Lol pretty much always up for dirty talk

[DizzyDesii]

But can you handle the touching... if she was in front of you, sitting in your lap, grinding on you, could you you handle not getting to have sex but possibly doing other stuff

[MysticDevice]

Yup. Did that for over a year with a girlfriend before

[DizzyDesii]

So hot!

[MysticDevice]

Mhm. It actually really was. There's a lot you can do without taking ALL your clothes off lol

[DizzyDesii]

Ikr! I always try to keep the socks on at least

[MysticDevice]

🤣🤣 can't be naked if you're wearing socks

[DizzyDesii]

Lol exaaaactly