Guys, would you take the time to make a woman orgasm without penetration?

I’ve tried masturbating using my fingers but I don’t feel anything. However, I can easily orgasm in 2-5 minutes through circular motion clitoral stimulation. I feel like because it doesn’t involve penetration, that a guy may not put in the effort to do so. If you could make your girlfriend orgasm in that time frame with just rubbing, would you do it?
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  • My SO does not cum from PIV.. She does from fingering and from oral. I have gotten her to cum just as you do it; first circles, reverse circles and zig zags to her clit outside of closed lips until she's aroused and then parting her lips and doing that directly. But there is a secret weapon, so to speak, that gives her more than clit stimulation. I call it 4-fingering. I wrote this My Take about it.
    Four-fingering. Turning foreplay into the main event.
    When I don't advance into oral, this is how I bring her off.

  • Generally, unless she's begging me to just fuck her (and that happens), I get my girl off via foreplay at least once, if not several times, before fucking begins. For the vast majority of women, this makes it much easier and more likely that she'll cum during sex too.

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  • Why fucking not? I would actually be a habitual time taker to make a woman orgasm without penetration. I'd be the advocate. Start a global movement with it.

    When do we start? I faked my death.

  • Oh definitely, One time I went down on my girlfriend, she was on the couch and I was On the floor and it was so hot and she was moaning and grinding her hips on my face and I got so into it that I came in my pants

  • Of course I would. Have you considered some sex toys. My fiancee has a vibrator that she loves and I love watching her use it. It gives her great orgasms.

  • Its very important to make my girl feel as much pleasure as possible
    Do you feel the same for a guy you are with?

    • 100%. 😊

    • Its such a high, such a turn on to know that your partner is feeling amazing because of what you are doing! And obviously, we all love the opposite! May I ask, how old are you

    • I’m 23.

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  • Rubbing and licking should get you off pretty good. Hence foreplay to get your motor running and hopefully want to have your man park his Lincoln in the garage.

  • Absolutely.. getting her to orgasm is the ultimate goal

  • Of course, that’s part of regular foreplay. The rule is she comes at least once if she wants to before intercourse begins.

  • Yes my ex-girlfriend could only orgasm through clitoral stimulation
    I would go very slow to the speed that makes you feel good

  • Pfft, I call this "warming up" 😉😅 you been dating the wrong guys lol

  • Sure. It could be part of foreplay. That isn't too long.

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