Would you think less of a girl if she performed oral sex on you on the first date?

[busysexygirl]

Say you and her talked months prior to meeting, you've shared nudes and talked dirty in multiple occasions. You get together, have a really good date and at some point she gives you head. What type of feedback would you give her?

[slatyb]

I would not. A man that would judge a woman for being too easy is not a man you want to be with.

[Lliam]

Not at all. I don't look down on women who are sexual.

[NamerOfStars]

I'm not a "sex on the first date" type of person, and emphatically not a "sex before we've been tested and know we're both clean" type, so I'd call a halt to it. If she went through with it anyway (I'm not going to pretend it's impossible), then that's sexual assault, and YES, I'd definitely think less of her for that, but if she took no for an answer, I don't think I would.

There is a qualifier, though: most of the women I've dated have been people I already knew, so my mind starts more from that basis than the "sex with a virtual stranger" one that most guys do. That may be affecting my answer.

[MrCommodore]

Not in those circumstances, it maybe would be different if I only met a girl, never having spoke to her before.

[Wgatap999]

No, I'd love it

[ohshee]

I know if I have done all the above with you then that means I know you and if you wanted to give oral on the first date I would say okay but at the same time I would want to do the same thing for you or just make love to you slow and deep because I'm more about making it all about you instead of you making it all about me

[livin_hi_808]

This less? Shit if she didn't do it then it wasn't really a date smh. After she does it she will for sure get a thought afterwards

[TheBootyChest]

I would be so happy that she made the move to do that.

It's hard for men to tell if the woman is truly into going further, without thinking that if he makes a move like that then he is only here for sex. But the build up to your first meet made things a lot easier to navigate.

[normalice]

It is the sort of thing that pretty much guarantees a second date.

[AndyOh]

You are totally awesome!
We need to start dating.
You look great.
Thanks!

[DonkeyDan]

Yeah I'm not looking for oral sex on a first date, doesn't say much about personal restraint.

[busysexygirl]

Even from you?

[DonkeyDan]

Yep, I wouldn't let it happen. If we're talking potential partner and not a ons or fb here then I'm quite traditional and wouldn't want anything to happen for a few dates.

[wankiam]

no... infact most my past relationships started with sex on a first date