Would you try anal sex? What's your opinion over it?

My girlfriend became very defensive when I suggested..
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In our case I was considering it because "normal" vaginal sex doesn't work because many times she is ill in there, like an infection that sometimes women have.
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I encourage her to go to doctor and try to figure out how to prevent the infections, the immune system is not that good. Also I can't have unprotected blowjobs and she physically can't give boobjob
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  • Some girls tend to think any interest in butt sex is a rejection of her pussy. Indeed, anal is often regarded as a means of degrading someone, superseding the regard for anal as an act if sex, which exacerbates that misconception (or validates it if it happens to be spot on).

    • It wouldn't be for degrading :( but I guess you're right

  • It's an interesting change of pace, but just like sex during menstruation; only if the lady specifically requests it.

    Some women like it... a lot.

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  • I like it. If she's having problems she needs to go to her OBGYN and get that figured out. You’re probably only going to cause more pain.

    • You encourage her? Is she going that is the question……

    • She goes. Since we started dating she went to the doctor a lot of times. But we never figure out how to prevent the viginitis :(

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  • I don’t blame her. I would never try. Not interested

  • I have had it twice at past girlfriends suggestions. Both times they did not orgasm and said it was uncomfortable. I prefer the front door any day!

  • Happened once and I didn't even know it. She said I aimed to far back --- I still think she was just trying to make me happy.

  • No, because it's disgusting. The body was not designed with that sort of thing in mind.

    • What about blowjobs and handjobs then?

    • @Tj87479 the same, I think.

    • Fair enough

  • Never, and I think it's weird and unnatural of any heterosexual male to want to do that. If they do that, they may as well be with another guy. It's disgusting.

    • So you obviously feel the same way about blowjobs.

    • @Tj87479 Why would you say that? You obviously don't know what you're talking about, if you don't see a difference.

    • No. You obviously don’t see the difference. If your saying that if you have anal with a girl you may as well just do it with a guy then if a girl gives a blowjob then you may as well have it be a guy also.

  • I love it. But only if she likes it. The idea that she’s into it and enjoys it makes it hot.

  • M. j y girlfriend and I enjoy it a lot

  • You should let her peg you.

    Fair is Fair!

  • Some like it and some do not. I think you got your answer. I have done it and I don't find it that appealing. Your not missing anything. If her vagina is out of commission, there are always blowjobs, tit fucking, etc

  • It's top of my want to try list but never found a girl willing

  • Not my thing

  • I would do it if she was into it. If she keeps getting infections she should see her doctor.

  • It hurts too much.

  • What is her objection?

    • It would destroy her body

    • She thinks that she will explode or deteriorate or something if you stick it in her butt? Wow! That is totally irrational.

    • She thinks that she will loose the stenght of the ass to hold in.

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