Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Would you wait a year or two before having sex with your s/o?
stardust101 Explorer
The next I enter into a relationship, I’m planning on waiting.
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43 109With my personality I find it is best to not do hard lines in relationships - It is probably stating the obvious but I hope in the starting phase of any relationship that a person is comfortable enough to tell me their open and honest feelings about love/relationships etc. So in this initial period any deeper issues like "waiting" can be covered.
To simplify it, imagine saying "I will never be with a blonde" then you meet an amazing blonde and start to fall for her all the time there is a little guy whispering in your ear over and over "Dude she's a blonde"
Okay I concede this may be an age thing whereas an older person (like myself) may be content with a longer platonic/emotional/intellectual stage of exploring compatibility before literally embracing any sexual phase.
As one gets older sex/romance moves from the be all of a young person's passion to a pleasant bonus/ingredient in a full life relationship of maturity.
Well said 🤗
I don't see anything wrong with waiting. I think that people forget sometimes that sex doesn't make up the entire relationship.
What exactly would you be waiting for?
His patience, character, resolve, pressure, getting to know each other. I wang someone on my level
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Well, I would go crazy wondering what's wrong with me. lol
It has to be a mutual decision. I want someone who wants to wait also. Life is stormy and if he can’t handle the pressure of waiting then he isn’t right for me
Cool. So you have your answer.
I would maybe wait 6 months but a year is crazy
I think the appropriate time is 4-6 months before having sex. Especially if you’re young and/or if it’s your first time
If she is a virgin then I might wait for so long, otherwise it's not worth it.
We waited until we were married.
For a virgin, sure.
For a girl who had already had sex, no.
If I was in the dating scene again I'd feel that that would be too long for me! Also good luck finding a guy that would be willing to wait that long! I think there'd be too much temptation first of all... but also wouldn't you be curious to know if you two would be compatible in something as important as that? ! I know it's not "everything" but it's still a big part... that's how men and women (especially young ones) bond and build up chemicals and bonding hormones! But anyway, that's up to you and your partner. Good luck. :-)
I would not wait at all. A snowball has a better chance of surviving in a volcano than me waiting.
good luck to you in your quest though!
No. It's not my problem that someone is tired of being used and NOW wants to wait and put ME on hold because of some other dude and what he did!
NOT A CHANCE!
Ok but just to make things clear, this isn’t about what “he” did. It’s about what I wanted to do all along and didn’t do.
@stardust101 Every guy you date will then say WHY ME? WHY NOW?
And I will say, “because I’m in a new phase in my life.” All of my other relationships didn’t work out and I wish I had waited for sex, because I really don’t like sleeping with every guy I date.
@stardust101 sexual compatibility is part of dating... nobody is wasting a year to find out that your not compatible... nobody I know. You do you!
Unless he has a 1 inch dick or no dick at all, most people are compatible.
I’ve had great sex with men before and we were sexually compatible, just not compatible in other areas and so now I want to explore compatibility in those other areas first
Ok good for you! Hope it works out! Just answering your question and giving you my opinion.
I personally don't mind waiting for a year, if he can.
But basically i would want to have sex after i'm in an official relationship.
I think i would want to wait for some time (a few months first), because i would be worried and need to know if he wants to be in a relationship merely just for sex or not.
Nope, that would not be a fulfilling relationship for me as physical intimacy is also important.
I juat don't see a reason to torture yourselves for that long if you are both sure about your feelings. Unless you are underage maybe.
Absolutely not.
No. Just... no. The reason you're in a relationship is partly because you want to have fornication. You want to fornicate... the ation. You want to get your dick wet in the pussy. That's part of the agenda.
lol it's mostly older guys saying no 😂
Yes I would
Yes... sex changes everything so build a strong relationship first before jumping into it.
At your age? No way. Life is too short. A couple of months sure.
If in love and waiting until marriage.