Would you wait to have sex until you're married? Why or why not?

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  • No. Marriage is, to my mind, a lifelong commitment; making that before you know if you're sexually compatible is just asking for trouble. Now I'm not saying divorce should be illegal or anything like that, but it should be entered into with the good-faith intention of being together for life. To that end, you really need to be able to make an INFORMED decision.

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  • I definitely did not as I wanted to experience sex with a lot of wonderful girls before marriage and ( IO always used condoms) and I have no regrets at all. I have a great sex life and am happily married.

Most Helpful Girls

  • No, most certainly not. People have different libidos. You need to find out whether you are sexually compatible before you commit yourself to a long-term relationship, such as marriage and having children. Also marriage comes much later in our lives than our sexual maturity.

  • I believe that if your love is healthy, you can wait cause it will not be based on or about sex and will not need to be expressed through sex.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Of course. Skip the emotional damage.

    • What emotional damage?

    • The emotional damage that causes most people to have poor judgment and have perpetual relationship failure.

  • I kind of did LOL, married the girl I first had sex with that is.

  • Nope as their no point to that plus do you really want your first time to be awkward, you won't know exactly what to do and what if your not exactly compatible and both parties are fighting to be on top

  • no, because I am not religious and its old outdated tradition

    • Not having sex before marriage is a religious thing?

    • its a christian tradition, premarital sex is considered a sin by them and brings you to hell. Although marriage exists also in other tradition but you get what I mean. When marriage is not religious or traditional, it just an official contract, nothing else. These nonesense rules about premarital sex are just superstition and mostly from religion

  • I won't marry anyone I'm not already having sex with

  • I would not have

    • Why?

    • I see no benefit to waiting

  • Hell no. Because you have to know if you’re sexually compatible

    • What do you mean "sexually compatible "?

    • What if you find out you’re really shy and will only do it in one position under the covers with the lights off and she’s into bdsm with whips, chains and leather or she’s into swinging. Yeah that’ll work

    • So basically you and your loving the same thing sexually?

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  • no sex before marriage

  • I would if thats what she wants to do. If she wants it before then okay, but I would have to be serious about her that Marriage is definitely in the future.