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Would the thought attract you? Would you bring it up to your partner? 2 girls or 2 guys.
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79 275I don't believe in casual sex, so if I ever have a threesome, it would only be while in a loving relationship, where my gf/wife and I picked a person we both trusted and were attracted to, and invited them in.
I wouldn't merely spring the idea, but it would be something we had discussed, as with other sexual interests, as well as non-sexual things. Communication and understanding matters, and if you love someone, you should try to communicate about it.
If my significant other had no such interest, I'd never push it, and I'd be happy to be monogamous.
And it would be two women. I think that, if you have a threesome, the person brought in should be shared by the committed partners. Well, I'm not attracted to men, so I wouldn't be "sharing" him, I'd be, at best, having sex with a woman while he also had sex with her. With another woman (if my gf/wife were bi and interested, as I said), we would both be interacting with the person we brought in. It would be three people having sex with each other, and not 2 people having sex with one person.
I've had a lot of 3somes and gangbangs.
Mostly with my husband and other guys have had quite a few with hubby and another women aswell.
Prefer two dicks or two chicks... With dicks?
2 guys. They can plow my pussy at the sametime... it feels fantasic
I have DPd a girl a time or two. My problem is my head is so much bigger it kinda makes the other pop out
You sound like a hell of a lot of fun. How many guys in your gangbangs?
Depends on the gangbang. 8 is the most I've had swaping and changing. 5 is the best number at a time. Have had a couple nights at parties were guys would join and leave the room when they were done and their place in the 5 was taken by someone else that night was upwards of 15-18 different guys that had a turn with me
Just, wow. Please tell me your hubby was watching this!
he's been a part of most gangbangs I've had since we met.. the 1 with the 15 different guys he was part of but we were not a couple at the time
Hmmm Did he meet you at the gangbang, or did you just go with him? (You can answer here or with PM. Up to you.)
No i met him at a party.. found out a few days later he was friends brother that she was trying to set me up with anyway... but i found him myself :).
First gangbang i had with him involved we werent a couple we were just kind of hooking up
Now I get it. I was just trying to paint a picture. In my mind, it would be really hot for you to be escorted to a gangbang by your bf/hubby. You arrive arm in arm and he offers you up to the crowd.
My unoffical 30th birthday party went a lot like that.
No, I wouldn't. It's not my thing.
Sure, I'd be interested in it as a one time thing. Also, three guys. :P
Nice. Go fot the gusto!
There is SO much potential for harm and you are taking that chance for an hour or two of physical pleasure. Seems stupid to me. . . like smoking cigarettes.
I agree with you my friend!
I don't think I would like except if its a woman and that my wife is not enough bisexual to have a crush on her.
NO WAY! Can you check out my question please?
Already done it, it was fun. We've even talked about having a girlfriend we share
I kinda have mixed feelings about this. Since i wouldn't be too fond of the idea of another man touching her, i dont think she would like me having sex with other girls either
I was considering a threesome with another woman my wife really likes. This woman told me her experience has been that having sex with someone you know as a friend messes up the relationship, so we didn't pursue it. I'd rather have her as a friend than a former friend with whom I had sex.
not my thing... ik people can be in relationships with multiple people and be happy, (polyamorous), but just inviting someone in who neither has an emotional attraction to won't end well usually
Nope
Not my thing
I'd consider it a failing relationship if I was having sexual inclinations for someone other than my partner or having the thoughts of sharing her with someone.
Interesting the amount of people who said they don't/won't share. Seems like they haven't considered that they might be the one being shared...
Probably the only way I’d consider it.
Wym?
@DaRealEazyE huh?
Wym. huh?
Wym. is what you mean
@DaRealEazyE WTF is Wym?
It means what you mean
@DaRealEazyE buh bye loser.
It means "What You Mean?"
@Boob_Boy also known as what do you mean.
I don't see the difference in a guy cheating in general whether the girlfriend is present or not it's just an excuse for a guy to cheat because of course 2 guys and one girl is never okay #doublestandard
if its consensual, its not cheating
You're right in that but if she says yes and truly doesn't care then she isn't really in love with him lol
My girlfriend in my junior year of college told me that her roommate (who was way hot) wanted to join us for sex. I was a little nervous about it, but it turned out to be a fun afternoon and evening. We spent the entire afternoon and into the night naked and playing a few games (truth or dare) and of course the orgasms were incredible. Of course I had to take a few breaks for food, beer and to "recharge" but it was way fun. The next day I was kinda sore but I had a big smile.
First off, always two girls. The male ego is easily damaged. Second, the fantasy is nice but for some guys the reality can be intimidating. Know your partner and all will be fine.
i wouldn't be opposed to it. I would probably prefer two guys but two girls sounds good to.
Yeah all women are bisexual
no they are not. that is a ridiculous statement to make
Well you at least are. And several scientific peer reviewed studies have claimed so indiana.edu/.../Chivers_Seto_Blanchard_2007.pdf herer is one
obviously I didn't read it all, but in my book to have any kind of sexuality means to be attracted to someone not only sexual but also romantically. that means I would be interested in having a relationship with a girl, and trust me I really don't
You mean you wouldn't have a romantic relationship with a girl? Anyway, romantic attraction and who you love has by very definition nothing to do with SEXUAL orientation, it deals solely with SEXUAL attraction.
I guess that differs from person to person. I wouldn't be able to have a relationship solely on sexual attractions
But you are sexually attract to girls. So it's bisexuality.
My girlfriend and I are always on the lookout for someone new to play with.
Oh? Lol
@BeWithMe Is that strange?
No, I feel like it could bring up. potential resentment later on in the relationship. Probably on my part. And it will probably. make me a bit confused. And I just don't like the idea of my partner fucking someone else. Especially. if it was a partner I truly loved