Would you want to know about your partner’s kinks and fetishes before you start dating?

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  • Interesting that 64% answered yes! I would say, only if the partner believes it can in the long term impact/affect the relationship. For example, if you are turned on by the idea of sharing content online, then you should share it but if your kink/fetish is to be taken rough, it will come with time.

    The whole point of dating someone is to figure them out and to know whether or not one can find true love. Before you decide to enter the next phase of officially being in a relationship let alone marrying someone, should have figured out what your partners kinks/fetishes are. Maybe your love for one and another becomes so strong that you can take part into their kink/fetish or they will forget about it.

    As an example, I had a kink for ejaculating on my partners face/mouth. Today, in my marriage, I've completely stopped doing that cause my wife doesn't like it. On contrary, my fetish for feet has grown and my wife is very accommodating and teases me with her feet or satisfies me with it. The love is so strong that we accommodate each others needs and wants.

    With that said, I would say NO! Date someone and allow for your kinks/fetishes to be brought up as you go along getting to know each other.

Most Helpful Guy

  • if there is a fetish as fetishes are... and that means, being quite fixated on ONE thing and that being the only one thing they're interested on, then it would be ideal for me to know before... because I don't think that would go very well with me (many things can go wrong if this is the case, lol)

    now kinks are a bit different... and depending on these, sometimes it might be good to know in advance but other times might be better to find out a bit later... and I've had good and great experiences either way...

Most Helpful Girl

  • Before starting intimate relationship it would be desirable :)

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  • I'd prefer to discover them on the journey.

  • It would be ideal, even more so if she was willing to realise your fantasies, in a couple you have to be complicit in everything.