Would you want your future spouse to have had sexual experiences before being with you?

[solitarysoul]

[Lliam]

I would much prefer sexual experience over no sexual experience.

I would never even consider dating a woman who was saving herself for marriage.

I never asked any girlfriend or my wife about their body count and none ever asked about mine. I just know that none of them were virgins.

As long as a woman has high self esteem, self respect, healthy morals, values, hope and dreams, wants an exclusive-style, long term relationship, and adores me, I think sexual experience is plus.

I prefer a woman who is sensual, orgasmic, has a strong libido, and knows how to please a man.

[LunarEclipse433]

If we are together. Hearing about previous experiences to me is a turn on.

[solitarysoul]

I laughed a lot at this :D

[Apple1996]

Nope I couldn't be in a serious relationship with a slutty guy

[LazerBean]

Any prior sexual experience is an absolute deal breaker.

[solitarysoul]

May I know the reason behind your thinking?

[LazerBean]

Because men who have sex outside of marriage make inferior husbands and fathers.

[TheUniqueOne96]

It would be better if they hadn't had any previous sexual experiences before me.

[solitarysoul]

For you to hold this view, you would also need to have not had any sexual experiences before them, if fairness is to be considered.

[TheUniqueOne96]

That's fine. I also have no sexual or relationship experience. The idea of being each other's first, only and forever sounds nice, as much as it may sound like a fairytale. 😂

[solitarysoul]

While it may sound appealing, it's not very likely 😀 However, it may be possible in the Middle East or Islamic countries.

[TheUniqueOne96]

True, but I'm not religious, lol. My goal in life is to be happy anyway and I don't know for sure whether or not a relationahip would give me that.

[solitarysoul]

We share the same opinion, my friend. My only goal in life is also to be happy, but unfortunately, our world is not very conducive to happiness.

[Nikki1989]

I prefer experience, but their past is none of my business.

[Guido]

It's very rare to find a spouse at marrying age that has not had sex with a few people. Even when I was in high school, every girl I dated had already had sex.

I have been married twice. The first was to a woman with little experience and the second time to one with a lot of sexual experience. It's the second one that has lasted 30 years because she knew what she wanted and is happy with her choice. The first one figured she was missing something and took off to find it.

There is a lot to be said for finding out what you like and don't like and getting the wonder out of your system.

In today's society, people are getting married young, do not know what they want and the majority end in divorce. Also very few women stay with their first sexual partner. One or the other moves on and leave the other devastated if that was their dream to stay with only one person for life.

Reality sucks but this is life.

[solitarysoul]

Despite being 64 years old, does your sexual relationship continue?

[Guido]

It certainly does. 30 years together and still going strong. I may be older but that does not slow me down in the bedroom.

[solitarysoul]

I congratulate you 😀

[Anonymous]

That would be best.