Wtf is wrong with this guy?

[Anonymous]

So I went on date with this guy next day he invited to a party (2nd date? I guess) well after the party we went to his place to watch a movie.. eventually he asked if he could hold my hand then if he could kiss me.. we did stuff but we didn’t do IT because he had no condoms which I was like okay that’s cool. Well I went last night to his house Iagain and he he started with holding my hand>cuddling >doing stuff and again he pull the ‘I didn’t buy condoms’. Like who does, basically Netflix and chill.. get all touchy and fucked me but with his clothes ( more like he humped me hah) because he didn’t want to put it in without condom (understandable) but doesn’t buy the condoms. I don’t know to me it’s weird every guy I’ve went to go “watch” a movie with I never had this problem so I don’t know to feel about it. I’m over here trying to get some D and this guy be getting freaky but not be prepared for it. Any options?

[Citru3]

I feel like many issues nowadays can be fixed with just constant communication. You can just ask him what his deal is. That said, from the situation I'm assuming he's super shy (might be first time) since he's asking you if he can do stuff before he does it. If you want to accelerate the process without confrontation just buy condoms yourself and text him saying that you did and that you're gonna bring one. (don't want to surprise him with one on the spot in case he wasn't prepared to do it, still shy etc...)

[Asker]

I know but we haven’t been seeing each other that long (5 days, we been talking a little longer than that tho) so I wasn’t to confident of how to bring it up. But that thought of his first time crossed my mind because it reminded me of me when guys would try to get me to do it but I was just down to foreplay and stuff but not do it. Maybe I’ll give him a couple more chances and see what happens.. if it keeps going for sure bring it up

[johnlast420]

The guy just doesn't care, in his mind that's your problem, he will happily fuck you, and leave you to deal with any consequences, best advice, find a guy who can think of more interesting things to do then Netflix and chill, plenty of places to fuck in this world it doesn't always have to be in front of some shitty Netflix original, and if he can't be bother to be prepared then why should you bother at all

[Roooni]

Dum, lazy, cheap, broke
Which one you think he is !

[dropkicknj13]

Maybe he's hoping you'll just do it without the condom

[Asker]

I thought that’s was it but nope he answered with ‘ my cousins all have babies’

[dropkicknj13]

Maybe he's secretly a virgin and is scared to tell you? I don't know there's gotta be a reason lol

[Asker]

You’re probably right

[Josephen]

so whats the problem? when you know that he is that type of guy so you have to buy a cond...

[kingoffreedom]

Maybe he cannot do IT with you (physically or religiously)
I think you should never judge without knowing all the facts