Yes, I'm Allowed to Have a Problem With Transgender Bathrooms

My Problems with Transgender Bathrooms

My Future Children

I am a Christian. (Let me make that very clear.) I don't think God makes mistakes when he assigns gender. Period. So, I don't want my possible future kids to go to school, see all their friends using whatever name, gender, or bathroom they want, yet coming home and having me tell them it's not right and that God made us beautiful and just the way he wants us. No! No! No!

Personal Safety

Well, if any male can say he feels like a female that day and can waltz into a female bathroom, he can see I'm alone, then he can rape me. Ummmm... Hello? This is a serious problem. To me, the bathroom is a private place where girls have their girl problems. I don't even want to know what goes on in male restrooms. The female lavatory is where I can change my pad, put on some make up without worrying if the person entering is a female or a male pretending to be a female to see if their are any women or young girls in the bathroom that they can satisfy themselves with.

Yes, I'm Allowed to Have a Problem With Transgender Bathrooms

You Better Match Your Gender to Your Genitalia

Excuse me for feeling this way, but I feel that if you're going to be in the male's bathroom, when you drop your pants there better be something there resembling the male genitalia. Same for women. Little kids in the 6th grade know that if you have a penis, you're a boy. Why can't adults understand that, too? If you have the surgery and you now have a vagina, by all means, come on in.

I really don't care what you do in your free time. You can sleep with other females, other males, other biological males, other biological females, you can wear dresses over your hairy man chest or shave your hair and glue it to your face to make it look like you have a beard. I really don't care. However, if you invade my privacy for the sake of "your transgender rights" or "not offending you", you'll have to get along because I will not give those up without a fight. I have rights too, you know. None of them specifically state that I have the right to pee in a room exclusive to my gender, but I do think that we shouldn't force this on people who don't want transgender bathrooms.

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  • Finally someone made a take on this!! Agreed!!

  • News flash, the world has more views than yours and just because you think that God doesn't make mistakes doesn't mean everyone has to agree with you and follow the rules you set out according to your belief in God. We're a secular nation after all.

    If you present (which means dress and act) as whatever gender's bathroom you use, walk on in. I'm not going to be like "drop your pants I need to check if you have a dick or vagina" because fuck it, you're in another stall and not bothering me.

    As for rape, do you honestly think a little sign on the door is going to stop a guy who wants to rape you? Nice thinking

    • News flash, a lie believed by thousands of people is still a lie. And cases of bathroom rape are an issue. Look it up. I don't think transgender people are the problem, people pretending to be transgender could be. Finally, I don't want to check. I want you to put your actions where you mouth is.

    • I'm all for it. I don't care who's in the stall next to me. I'm all for transgender bathrooms, if anyone presenting as female wants to use the female restroom, come on in. So yeah, I'll put my actions where my mouth is, I already do

  • "I don't think God makes mistakes when he assigns gender. Period."

    Are you suggesting God makes mistakes when he does things other than assigning gender?

    • Because, you know, disasters, stillbirths, illness, poverty, infant mortality, and general bad stuff. I know they are all "part of God's plan" because "He works in strange and mysterious ways," but couldn't one say the same about gender assignment? Part of His plan because He works in strange and mysterious ways? Maybe He is testing us to see how loving and tolerant we can be, perhaps even less territorial? FWIW, guys don't need to dress up in drag to enter a bathroom and commit rape. If they do - hey! - we already have laws against that, and we all agree on them!

    • disasters, stillbirths, illness, poverty, infant mortality, and general bad stuff all of this is done by people not GOD that's where you went wrong GOD gives rules people don't follow them these are the consequences the human race does it too themselves you think this is the first time the gay people in general have made a move like this lol this is the fourth or fifth time and ever time it gets destroyed just like this one will GOD doesn't work in mysterious ways GOD is very direct, doesn't sugar coat anything

    • @skeptic007 We are responsible for disasters and stillborns... Thanks, you just made me despise christians even more you idiot.

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  • you've got your facts totally mixed up. if there's a separate bathroom for transgenders, then transgenders are not even allowed to use your bathroom. in fact the whole idea is totally messed up because it means that when there is not a transgendered room somebody that was born a male and has now had an operation to look female now has to use MEN'S rooms and vice versa. your kids are more likely to realise transgenders are using facilities than before so that idea is totally wrong.

    anyway, your god does NOT always allocate people to one specific gender - so beautiful and natural - hence in the cases of hermaphrodites. but you would shun those people away from using the toilets of their identified gender.

    • Read the last paragraph again. "If you have the surgery and you now have a vagina, by all means, come on in." The problem is not transgendered people using the bathroom of their choice if they look and actually legitimately are the gender they claim to be... but there is a problem with a man with a penis who is not actually transgendered, clearly so, being allowed to walk into the other bathroom and have that be okay... because that is not okay.

    • @Mekkalyn So a transgender that has breasts, wears dress, make-up and even long hair, maybe has even had surgery to remove the adams box... this person must suffer the ridicule of walking into the men's toilets because she still has a penis?

    • Well, why nit make a separate stall fir them then. Still has a dick that could rape little girls.. You wouldn't know gow perverted some mfers can be.. Seriously... "Feelings"...

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  • "Well, if any male can say he feels like a female that day and can waltz into a female bathroom, he can see I'm alone, then he can rape me. Ummmm... Hello?"

    Retarded. If a man is willing to rape you, he's willing to follow you into the wrong bathroom without the legal freedom to do so. Do you think someone who is capable of rape is going to falter because of a placard on a door?

    "... without worrying if the person entering is a female or a male pretending to be a female to see if their are any women or young girls in the bathroom that they can satisfy themselves with."
    Why would you worry about this anyway? What do you think we are?

    But here's a question for you:
    Which bathroom does an intersex person use when only male and female bathrooms are present?

  • I don't really understand why this is a problem and why transgender's need their own bathroom. Granted I haven't spoken with every transgender person but I think that if you use male pronouns and dress like a guy and consider yourself a guy then you would use the guys bathroom. Same goes for those who consider themselves girls, I think they would use the girls bathroom. But what do I know.

  • Your first point- there is plenty of other stuff you will need to explain to your kids, why there sky is blue, why people have tattoos,? why someone has gauges in their ears, why people dress goth. Explanation is simple, people are different!!

    Second point- I don't think pervs will dress up like women any more than they do now just to go into the women's room. If they want to go in there they just will. There are plenty of websites for pervs to use. Plus indecent exposure, rape, sexual harassment, assault are all still illegal in bathrooms

    Third point- do you want female to male trans people in the women's room, they can look just as ripped and manly as cis guys but still have vaginas.

  • I agree with you.

  • I totally agree with you, I'm actually getting scared to go into the bathroom alone and nearly asked my boyfriend to come with me recently for safety

    • So due to fear of men going into bathrooms u decided to take a mani in with u?

    • @aliceinwonderland69 well I didn't take him with me, but yes I considered it because then if other men were in there, I'd feel safe

  • All very true and everyone knows it. No one is pushing this but communist idiots who can't see whats right in front of their face. That or they're doing this specifically to destroy society. Regardless "transgenders" are screwed Muslims take priority over them with the communists and they're already starting to get thrown under the bus. That "all gender bathroom" sign only stays up till Abdul complains about it and he makes the alt right look down right progressive. What fools these people are.

  • There's the problem, you're Christian. I pretty much knew that before I clicked on this. It'd be nice if you religious people could just keep your beliefs to yourselves but I'm not waiting on any miracles here.

    • she did not enforce any beliefs of her through this article though.

    • @anonman32 she expressed her desire to do so, and they do usually try to. That's enough for me.

    • and the lgbt community does not force themselves upon society? if you even dare to say that you dont support them then you will receive a lot of hatred from them.

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  • So you're happy to have trans men, with beards, strong arms and veins full of testosterone in the female toilets simply because they don't have a dick?

    (To anyone reading my comment, I'm not suggesting trans men (or women) are more likely to be rapists than cis people)

    • Although, if they've had the surgery, they'd probably be taking estrogen. But I'm not happy with it. I'd rather this issue wasn't brought up in my life time, but it has and I am dealing with it. I'm trying to respect trangender people without giving up my morals.

    • You're thinking of trans women. I mentioned trans men, they (often if transitioning) take testosterone.

    • Yes, if they were a male and they want to be a female, they take oestrogen. If they were a female and want to be a male, they take testosterone. I thought you said something completely different. I'm sorry. I totally misread that. It even took me a second after you replied to realize what you meant. I'm sorry.

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  • The reason we have separate bathrooms is because women don’t want to walk into a men’s restroom and see 5 guys lined up with their dicks hanging out. We just don’t. And some guys will make it weird... yes, most guys wouldn’t, but we have to have it that way because of the few who would try to be perverted

  • Stopped reading after "I am Christian."

    Not interested in your opinion.

    • So you came here to state that you are butthurt. That's a´pathetic, you know and I would advise you to abstain from such behavior.

  • Respect #LGBT 💜💚❤💙💛

  • I agree whole heartedly with you, your not accidentally born the wrong gender, plus to clear up the whole gender bathroom issue, they should just have them labled, bathroom for people with balls, bathroom for people without balls

    • Nature doesn't give a shit whether you agree or not when she makes mistakes. Transgenders will still exist no matter if you believe in them or not. I bet your archaic neanderthal brain can't even comprehend homosexuality.

    • @JuicyBrain nature doesn't make mistakes Sir Nincompoop, so you may know for future information, my brain can comprehend many things and is plenty advanced with a considerable IQ that I find adequate. I do not dislike transgendered people or homosexuals, I only dislike the choice, which is their own to make not mine, I do not condone it but nor do I despise the person because that would be messed up to do.

    • @JuicyBrain Calling someone a neaderthal over something her or she did not even say is true bigotry. I bet you're part of the pro-gay community, whom are often the true bigots.

  • a. you're complete idiot because transgender bathrooms are separate to the male and female bathrooms so you don't have to be near the scary LGBT+ people
    b. "god" makes a lot of mistakes and your children will probably notice this if they are even allowed to question their beliefs, just look at innocent people suffering around the world + people born with missing limbs, genetic diseases etc
    c. you are making bathrooms out to be a sacred place where women socialise and hang out lmao and "I don't even want to know what goes on in male restrooms" ? LOL take a wild guess

  • "Well, if any male can say he feels like a female that day and can waltz into a female bathroom, he can see I'm alone, then he can rape me. Ummmm... Hello? This is a serious problem."

    What stops men from doing that now? A sign? If someone wants to rape you in a bathroom, he will. It's just that the vast majority of people doesn't want to do that.

    And of course, you can have a problem with transgender people in your bathroom. But when it's law that transgender people can be in your bathroom, you have to accept that. Because the law trumps your flying spaghetti monster.

  • Honestly, I don't care what the genitals of the person in the next bathroom stall look like. Seriously whoooo caressss

    • I just don't want to know, Who the fuck looks at that shit

    • YES!!! I am the same way. Men are freaking people and not animals and should be treated as such.

  • You are fucking insane, and here's why.

    1.) Don't blame God. If you're such a good Christian, you should know that the very first thing God did to man (even before he created woman) was to take him for a walk and lie right to his face. If everyone is born according to God's exact specifications, then God must have created Hitler, conjoined twins, Zika virus/Zika babies, down syndrome, etc, etc. So if we apply your logic, we shouldn't stop Hitler's genocide because he's a christian and a creation of God, and it's all part of God's plan? That you wouldn't stop the 911 hijackers if you could because they that's God's plan too? Fuck you.

    2a.) Men are not rapists by default! Seriously. Your pastor/priest is more likely to rape you than random strangers in dark alleys and public bathrooms. If you're so afraid of rape, stop going to church.

    2b.) Men have things on our faces called noses. It detects smell, and one smell we particularly don't enjoy is urine and feces. That's why pedophiles and rapists do their work in churches, and not public bathrooms.

    3.) And who's supposed to be doing these genitalia checks outside bathrooms? If my daughter is in the bathroom and I saw you going too, will you show me what's between your legs to reassure me that you're not some trans man that's going in the bathroom to rape my daughter?

    Let's not ignore the fact that you're a fucking woman here! How many times in your life have you even caught a glimpse of another person's genitalia while you were inside a public bathroom? Seriously, you don't just walk in there and immediately drop your pants and wander around bottomless while you queue up for the next available stall.

    Now get off your high horse, pull your head back out of the horses ass, and come back to reality. While you're at it, go see a shrink.

    • If it wasn't for Hitler, I wouldn't be alive right now.

    • @mntwins66 And what have you done that can justify the millions of people that died because of Hitler?

    • There's nothing I can do, but I was given the chance to live a life.

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