You are dominant or submissive in bed?

Question

I am submissive

HighlyVolatile · Accepted Answer

Dom but not at all sadistic. I don't like to dominate people, just situations. So I like to take control in the bedroom (ex: I like to undress her, she doesn't undress me) but I'm not into choking or hair-pulling or anything of this sort. I took some online test and got this:

== Results from bdsmtest. org ==
97% Dominant
73% Vanilla
67% Daddy/Mommy
54% Voyeur
45% Owner
42% Experimentalist
37% Exhibitionist
35% Brat tamer
34% Master/Mistress
31% Primal (Hunter)
16% Ageplayer
1% Rigger
1% Brat
1% Non-monogamist
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Boy/Girl
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Submissive
0% Masochist
0% Degrader
0% Pet
0% Sadist
0% Switch

cphipps48 · Accepted Answer

I voted Submissive, I think it’s so sexy and hot for a girl to be the superior being and dominant one in charge, also I find it to be super crazy hot and sexy to be submissive to a girl when she gives me little to minimal or no control over my dick

laurieluvsit · Accepted Answer

Totally submissive! I have tried to be dominant and it just doesn't work for me. It isn't a natural state of being and is too fake. You have to be what you are :)

AvaOneLasTime · Accepted Answer

We need more dominant men! Come on! Look at the poll!

chrissykerdock · Answer

submissive for sure... i love to wear the short dresses/skirts and don't mind obeying a man's orders to get on my knees for him.

WhatTheHeckkkk · Answer

I am 100% submissive.  I can try and be dominant. Lol, that’s usually if my boyfriend teases me and wants me to take lead, then I will, but it’s not really dominating.

coolbreeze · Answer

Dominant

bones_20 · Answer

Why isn’t both an option?

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Just sort of throwing it out there but a D/s relationship is not just about the bedroom. There are other rooms to use, also outside fun, in public fun. would be a tad boring if was just the bedroom.

dustybiker · Answer

Depends on the mood.

Apple1996 · Answer

Switch but mostly dominant

NathanDavis · Answer

yes...

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Virgin, but I definitely consider myself to be submissive for the most part.

RawIronhide · Answer

If I say I'm dominant people think ur being macho if I say submissive it kinda makes me seem like a sissy as a man... I'm dominant fuck around and find out.

Cathy7734 · Answer

I like being submissive because by nature I'm a nurturer. I like to please and being a submissive assures that I'm able to please. If I'm dominant I really don't know if he likes it or not.