You guys care what the vagina looks like?

I have been having some problems having sex because I think my vagina is horrible, I have big lips🙄. Can you guys help me and say the truth about what is your thoughts about this?
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  • Unlike boobs, vaginas (actually vulvas) were not designed by The Creator as things of beauty. We men evolutionarily "selected" women with beautiful boobs which is why so many are beautiful. Not so with vulvas. They tended always to be covered up and we only got to see them (if we bothered to look) when we were about to have sex/make babies. At that point, a stiff dick has no eye for beauty.
    There are stunningly beautiful and really ugly vulvas out there but most fit in the huge middle ground of looking useful.
    Short answer: Not important at all. Clear your mind of this.

    • Thank you for give yourself the work of a long explanation. 😊

  • "big lips"? Like Beautiful Butterfly wings? I've NEVER seen any lady, that has 'ugly' parts!! I agree with Richard Prior, when he said, "Any of you ladies think you have an ugly pussy, I need to see you in my dressing room, after the show!!"
    Women judge their own bodies so horribly, and harshly, and in reality, a lot of guys just look at you and smile, and can't figure out why?
    Ever seen the Wall of Vagina?
    https://news.artnet.com/market/jamie-mccartney-vagina-sculptures-321901
    Find one like yours, and see how perfectly normal, and beautiful you are!!

    • Thank you 😊

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  • This is a problem that's all in your head. You're fine. Focus on enjoy the sex, and quit worrying about things that don't matter. You're cheating yourself for no reason.

  • Vulvas are beautiful and sexy, regardless of the size of the lips. But I actually am one of the men who prefer larger lips. They are sexier to me in the way they look and how they feel. Very, very few men think they look bad.

  • Forget about it. We don't care.

  • Nothing wrong with puffy lips. Keep them neatly trimmed, clean and fresh. give them plenty of fresh air and exercise.
    My experience is that by the time we are close enough to see what her vagina looks like, I am past the point of no return.

  • Most of us genuinely do not care what it looks like.

  • I couldn’t care less

  • Not sure it would bother me. As long as it tastes ok

  • Vagina and penis come in all shapes, sizes, and colors. Dont be so hard on yourself and enjoy your sex life. If your partner says something, then ask why they feel that way.

  • I don't care what a girls Vagina looks like
    all matters is her kind heart , great personality,
    loving ways etc.

  • I will tell you the absolute truth. All vaginas look beautiful, it's the differences that make it best.

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