You jack off to a female you seen at the city bus stop?

[Anonymous]

About three weeks ago I caught my boyfriend checking out another female at the city bus stop , she was ugly as hell but had thick thighs. I seen him look past me to do it as well. It's like he acknowledged her but not me his girlfriend. So i thought man whatever it's just a natural habit for guys to have , however last night he admitted he has jacked off to her in his head. I was so hurt but I don't know why. Was it my insecurities? Jealously? What does this mean? Does it mean he'd rather fuck a stranger he seen then me? It sucks. He's only 16 and I'm 17 and I know it's common but that hurt , that he jacked off to the female he looked passed me to check out. I felt disrespected and so insecure , I just need some good advice. Also he admitted to doing it to some blond chick we seen in Starbucks , but why? Why them? What should I do? I'm just a very insecure person and dont want to be compared to them by him or if he thinks they have better bodies or something , how will I ever show my body to him after knowing this? I won't feel secure or like he thinks I'm attractive if he has to jack off to another female with thicker thighs. I have a big ass nd thick thighs just not as wide as hers was, plus she didn't have an ass it was flat just her thighs were big , help I don't know what to think about this at all. Please help, thank you

[Anonymous]

He's a dick for telling you those things. I can accept that someone might jack off over seeing some girl, but to disregard your feelings so much about it isn't a characteristic of a boyfriend that you should stay with. It's moments like these where people tell you who they are, you just have to listen.

[Asker]

I understand but I brought up the fact of me being okay w him doing it to strangers but me being uncomfortable him doing it to people he has seen w me. So he told me he can't lie and then told me that.

[andrewbagnall]

I think you are fine to he jealous but on the same hand it's nice to take a break from seeing the same girl every night and just imagine someone else just because a man looks at another girl doesn't mean he doesn't love you

[Asker]

I just worried about being compared to another female he jacks off too

[andrewbagnall]

most guys would not even admit it to their girlfriend, so you are pretty lucky and like I said it's just a fresh thought to him nothing to be super worried about

[Asker]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

You are quite possibly the rudest and most jealous person on here. Wow. No wonder your boyfriend is looking elsewhere

[Asker]

lol I well I just told how I felt. I'm not going to lie how I feel. Yes I'm jealous because he thinks of other women while taking care of himself how am I supposed to feel about that

[AaronTupaz]

Guys can have several preferences and it's sometimes not possible for one girl to fulfil them all. I could be sexually attracted to tall blondes , short brunettes as well Latinas. Now there's no way you or anyone could be all 3.

[Texasmade1]

Its normal to be jealous. He was thinking about her thighs probably.

[johnmichaei]

wow girl I would say he's not very much good for you

[sosocksock]

I think it's fine to be jealous

[Asker]

I think I'm more worried about him comparing me to another female he' sees even jacking off too

[bigdaddydoggo2]

Did u ask him if he ever did it or did he volunteer the info?

[Asker]

Well i asked him and he kind of brought it up cause he said he can't lie to me

[bigdaddydoggo2]

If you asked him if we ever masturbated to another woman then you have no right to be mad at him for telling you. You do have a right to be upset with him for doing it though. If it's something that you won't tolerate you should tell him.

[Asker]

I told him I'm okay w like strangers yea but like if we see another female around us and then does it , I feel like disrespected. In a way he chose to acknowledge a female he seen over me. Also I don't want him to have blue balls whenever we can't have sex.

[bigdaddydoggo2]

Only you can decide what you're willing to tolerate. I think you two should have a discussion about it.

[insidetherabithole]

I don't know what to say

[CT_CD]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

Yes, sometimes if she was hot and showing extra flesh, when I go home I jerk off to her picture in my mind :p