Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Its fucking embarassing to me, shit most people did it by highschool, I dont know what's wrong with me, almost think I'm autistic or something. Like why can't I do what everyone else does? What is wrong with me?
I just want to be normal.
You think I'm a freak for being a 29 year old virgin?
TonyV Guru
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And no, even tho so many women will do it for money now I dont want to pay for it, I want to be wanted, is it so crazy to think someone would want to do it with me? Why am I such an offal choice that noone wants me? Being shy dosent help but fuck, 29? And still a virgin? I dont even know what I'm doing wrong so I can't change.
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You've all been very helpful so its gonna be real hard to pick just 2 MHOs
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What Girls & Guys Said
11 25I'm 26 and hate it to
It definitely affects the male psyche more than the other way around
Being a virgin is not a crime.
so, do not worry.
It's no doubt more common than you think
You probably give off that energy and people are repelled? Try NOT wanting and caring about it for some time and then tell me what happened then.
I'm 25 and also a virgin... not even for religious motives. It's easier being a virgin woman than a man, but I feel exactly like you. Actually I also think I might also be autistic which would explain my lack of social skills.
I'm reading your responses on here and they are weirdly exactly what goes through my mind. Wanting not to be virgin, but also not wanting to do it with whoever just because. Wanting to do it with someone special who actually likes me. Being a woman, it would be much easier to have casual sex for free and I had the chance to do it, but have no interest. Coming across in a way that scares other people off but I don't even know why. And just wanting to be normal. I hate when people glamorize being different and unique but then get weirded out by people who act a bit outside the norm. Now, if I came across a virgin guy who's 29, I'd be very surprised, but I wouldn't feel any less attracted. I'd probably would wonder why and I'm sure the guy would wonder the same about me. If she's your girlfriend, I reccommend you tell her, but not a few seconds before. Maybe a few days before, when the relationship is heading that way. This way she'll understand when you only last a few minutes and she'll have time to prepare her expectations. If you end up doing it with casual sex, don't even tell her. Who cares.
Thank you
Your mindset is just as bad as everybody who did it in high school.
You just sound hungry and desperate.
You can’t like my comment and not respond back. I mean, I did offend you..
Not desperate enough to get it anyway possible, i want it to be someone special, but I do want to experience it.
Sorry talking to a lot of people rn. I'm not offended, I'm glad you told me how I'm coming across to women, well you at least. This is the kind of thing I do that would scare off or creep out women and I'm not aware of it if noone tells me. So sure your words could be considered "harsh" by some but they help me work towards being a better me.
No because he didn't give it away.. they all probably lost it to someone who doesn't mean anything to them. I bet half those people are not together anymore.
@Paolaa988 He’s 29 years old, he’s probably aware that most of those guys just did it to feel more masculine or for curiosity or for the feels, but he’s comparing himself as if what they did was rewarding or expected, which makes him just as bad as them. If not, I apologize.
I smell hungry desperate men from a mile away; it’s not attractive.
wouldn't it be kind of rewarding? You know as long as it was cause someone wanted me in there live and felt so strongly for ms that they wanted to do that with me.
You think somethings wrong with you with not being desperate enough?
Could you reword that last one, almost sounds like you want me to be desperate, but I'm sure that's not what you mean.
“ Not desperate enough to get it anyway“.. you. Anyway, if you want to find someone special to do it with, don’t compare yourself to others.
Yeah even if you're a virgin if you're hungry and desperate I agree that can come off as bad...
You create your own standards and expectations.
It’s ok even after you have it your life will be the same nothing different will happen.
Get on dating apps, ask them out, go sleep with them. It's that easy. You don't have to cry about it or tell anyone. If the sex is bad so what? She'll never know ur a virgin. She'll probably think u were nervous.
Would it bother you of I was and didn't tell you and you found out?
No it's not an STD
It's not that easy for me and I dont know why, 8 d9nt know wht 8m doing wrong. I need to be original/interesting/creative and I dont think I'm being enough of any of those things. I'm new to this despite my age, I'm tired of failing but I'm also pretty sure the only way to learn or gain experience is through failure, it sucks and is not easy for me, I'm also shy in nature which really dosent help.
Nothing is wrong or freakish about you for being a "virgin". Feel GOOD about the fact you are pleasing GOD by waiting for marriage
But I'm not religious, I want it to be someone that is inportant but dont nessarely care about waiting till marriage.
@tonyv Don't worry about it! When you get really uptight, and judge yourself, somehow women sense that!! Just relax, and be you, and focus on what you like, and what you enjoy! Usually just doing things you like, you meet someone that shares the same interests! Just don't stress out about it! It's been almost two years since I have been with a lady, in a relationship, but I am not worried, or concerned, and I flirt with some, just to make them smile, and chat with a lot that I am not really interested in, just so I can keep that comfort level, and don't become a reclusive Troll, with the virus and everything!
There are 50+ years old Virgin people as well.
I hope not as I am a 36 year old virgin.
Not at all.
Would you want to be with a 29yearold virgin? I'm not gonna know basic shit when it happens. So embarrassing, I might not even be able too.
I would, as I am a 32 year old virgin.
It would be nice with another virgin, I'd feel less awkward not being the only one new to it.