sex is important, but it’s not more important than getting enough sleep or making sure that both partners are contributing equally when it comes to keeping the house clean and looking after the kids when they’re sick. You’re putting so much extra pressure on yourself right now—imagining how “thrilled” your boyfriend would be if you had sex when you weren’t really in the mood more often, reminding yourself that you often end up happy once you’ve decided to have sex with him, worrying that it’s wrong to be angry when he did something you’ve already told him not to do. It is not your job to match your boyfriend’s libido. You have a right to set boundaries, to advocate for yourself even if that doesn’t make him immediately and instantly happy, to get a full night’s sleep, and to find a distribution of housework that doesn’t leave one of you exhausted and resentful and the other bored, horny, and wide-awake. I think it’s important to tell him that your current arrangement isn’t working for you, that he needs to stop trying to wake you up in the middle of the night to have sex (and if he does it again, he’ll be sleeping on the couch or at a friend’s house), and that there are other issues in your relationship that need to take priority right now.
0 0 0 0Oh I wake her. I'm hard and out some baby oil on my cock and get behind her like I'm going to spoon and then bam! I shove it in. Trust me, she's awake at that point.
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No one nor anything can wake me up in the middle of the night nor in the early morning
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2 18It would have to depend in what kind of mood she was when we went to sleep. If she was in good mood, I'd try to wake her up and ask her about it, but if she wasn't, I'd most likely do the job alone.
1 0 0 0That's yhe only choice I got & not often either
0 0 0 0I like the fact that olso girl will wake up for her needs.
0 0 0 0Wake her up if she's not very tired, anyways a housewife would feel very happy when her husband wakes her up for sex if she didn't have an exhausting day and would be mad if her husband didn't woke her up...
0 0 1 0what will you do?
0 0 0 0You got to try your luck lol
0 0 0 0I wake my Girl up! We always ask to be present during a Horny event. We share our Erotic Times, and we feel left out if one of us goes Solo! Before bed, we often say "If You need some "relief", let me know! I'll help You!"
2 0 0 0I wake them up
0 0 0 0if my partner woke me up I would feel very disrespected.
0 0 0 0P. S. my penis is sleeping too... don't bother him
I’d probably let them sleep and fall back to sleep myself
0 0 0 0I generally wake them up
0 0 0 0She would wake me up if she was horny or start with me still asleep. I would do the same. As long as there is a girl next to me, masturbation is not necessary.
0 0 0 0I would just do it by myself 😅
0 0 0 0I will try only once , if she wake up it's good , otherwise let her sleep , , trying to wake up her by a kiss lol
1 0 0 0Usually one hand job :)))
0 0 0 0I just wait til morning and we just do it in the shower together
0 0 0 0Work on myself for myself by myself.
1 0 0 0Sometimes I do
0 0 0 0I would ride on him if he doesn't want to wake up. 🤔🤣🤣🤣🤣
1 0 0 0Why? U horny?
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