Your first time without a condom and no pullout?

What was it like? I'm not talking so much physically as emotionally/psychologically. Did it change things, i. e. did it strengthen your relationship, increase your bonding and trust? Did it make you more nervous? How and why did you make the decision to do it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I was 16 and it was the 2nd time of having sex with my "first". My first time was a horrible experience. We used a condom that time and the lack of sensitivity was completely underwhelming. Several days after our first attempt we tried again but didn't have a condom. We only did it for a few mins out of fear. The experience was 100% better and it felt so much more natural and intimate.

    I remember thinking how "real" things were. All my senses coming into play making for a much better experience. The genuine and primal desire to keep going and release. The only good condom experiences I've had have been with lambskin which are so much more enjoyably than traditional condoms.

  • She was on BC so I didn't care. The first time I ecmver had sex I came in her multiple times. She was a much older woman and never said not to

Most Helpful Girls

  • Was exctacy and an incredible Rush! Fucking my ex boyfriend at the time we got so ht and heavy we forgot condoms. Certainly was a different experience then opening the drawer. It strengthened our relationship and bonding for sure; I got pregnant and have a daughter by him now

  • Our first without condom was after we were engaged, it was way better because there was nothing between us. We have been that way in everything like forever; then the condom changed that by adding a barrier between us!

  • was life changing coz fr9m that point on i knew i hated how condoms felt and bareback was the only way for me... i haven't had condom sex for a decade.. and as i have pcos there's no need for guys to pull out

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  • It was spur of the moment. It felt amazing at first. But then we got really paranoid because she wasn't on birth control.

  • Well the first time I ever had sex was without a condom and no pull out. Since it was my first time in general it wasn't that good. Now sex is great and I rarely use a condom

  • When I got married was my first without a condom

  • There's nothing quite like the feeling of being cummed in by someone you love.

  • Then I hope you're on BC or have an IUD or we'll have to call you little mom, next year.
    Pulling out is a way to have 'accidental' pregnancies.

  • the first time without a condom was still to this day the best sex ever! i try my hardest to always wrap it but man it feels sooo much better without it! i still always pull out tho

  • we didn't use condoms on my first time. tbh I was too young and I didn't know what I was doing so I didn't think much about it

  • if its a srys rlsnship then it will make a bonding and trust

  • Russian roulette for reproduction? Nice.

  • I was reading the comments and now I know why there are so many with HIV/AIDS.

  • It was sheer terror because he was supposed to pull out and didn't. Luckily his sperm didn't find its target. Now I like it when guys cum in me. Very sexy.