Your reaction if the girl you love tell you she made a chastity pledge and refuse sex before mariage?

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HighValue · Accepted Answer

Leave her. Why is she insisting on marriage? I just assume she plans to steal from me if she insists on marriage.
Marriage doesn't guarantee a relationship will last, that the partner won't cheat, etc. All marriage really does is give the woman the opportunity to steal from the man if they divorce, which more likely than not it will end in divorce.

What is her view on signing a prenuptial agreement where the man keeps his house, all vehicles he purchased, all of his financial savings/investments, his pets, all of his household possessions, etc?

LZPanzer · Accepted Answer

I would reassess my values and criteria I use to determine a partner. Determine if those values should be altered, weigh the value of the relationship against the new metric then make a decision.

Waiting for marriage to have sex has both possitives and negatives

It means she values exclusivity, but not nessisarily with you.

Sex in a relationship canact like a glue that strengthen the bond 2 people have. If she is unwilling to have sex before marriage she must find some other means to reinforce the relationship.

NeerajCham · Answer

If I love that girl and I adore her presence in my life then I'll just pass a smile at her that will communicate the confidence I've in her decision and will let her know that how she'll always be my utmost priority over anything else and I'm not wanting ever something that is not mutually desired and agreed upon by us and kiss her palms softly.

Lliam · Answer

I'd find another girlfriend. I wouldn't consider marrying someone who had sexual hangups. I also wouldn't marry someone without knowing if we were sexually compatible. Who knows if she even enjoys sex? I want someone who craves sex.

People who value virginity, chastity and purity make me barf. But that's just me.

In addition, I wouldn't marry someone unless we trusted each other completely. If she doesn't trust me enough to give herself completely, they we don't have a strong enough relationship.

I also hate the idea of using pussy as a bargaining chip or form of coercion.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Lol, we met quite a few girls like this in the US, I think they had rings and or bracelets.

A lot of them were pretty much in to anal and a few gave blow jobs to multiple guys in same room.

i can imagine their husbands being thrilled to be marrying a virgin, admittedly they will have had a few Squadrons of guys in their bottoms lol.

I would not be marrying someone I had not connected with, had sex with or lived with.

Lionman95 · Answer

I´d go so what I´m not looking for sex but rather a relationship is a deeper emotional bond for me.

DonkeyDan · Answer

She wouldn't be ny girlfriend for starters. You're a long time married to someone you're not sexually compatible with. Same as I wouldn't marry someone I haven't lived with before marriage.

slatyb · Answer

Have a nice life.

Almost10inch4funlol · Answer

i would have to let her go because out of respect for her and myself it would constantly be a uncomfortable situation unintentionally pressuring her. i think love can’t fix incompatibility.

Albino010 · Answer

Nothing wrong with it.

Dargil · Answer

If she is willing to "walk the bases" (meaning mutual oral), I'll work with it. If not, she does not love me and I will find the door. A degree of sexual intimacy is central to a relationship. Strict abstinence means nothing to me.