Your relationship changes, do you delete their nudes?

Personally, yes. Consent is withdrawn.
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  • I'd delete them but not because "consent is withdrawn." If you let someone take a photograph of you and they printed it out and put it in their room, you can't just go in and destroy the photo. It's their photo to use in private in whatever they see fit. Obviously that doesn't include uploading it publicly, letting others view ir, or selling it. That would be weird. But I sent a picture of myself to someone and ended up despising that person, I wouldn't expect them to delete the picture simply because I don't want them to have it anymore.

    That being said, if someone hit me with any kind of "consent" speech I'd just delete and have nothing to do with them. I am very particular about not breaking peoples' boundaries, so it's just insulting if someone tries to accuse me of something like that. It's just more trouble than it's worth to argue that I didn't do anything wrong, so I just let them have the win and disappear forever.

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  • That is a choice call clouded with judgments from all over what's right what's wrong etc. Each individual will depict what they will do. Then again if the relationship was as mature as believed it should've not ended so there's a tender issue of privacy here. Usually real people do not have to show their body, keep tabs on people or are plain insecure unfortunately they're the only ones that don't know it. My opinion you gave them to me freely, I appreciate the feeling I get from viewing them but keep their privacy no matter what private. Your insecurity factor will depict what your decision will be. There are levels and standards maintain them and you not put yourself in a position of weakness and in insecurity.

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  • Sexy pics are one thing, but I wouldn’t even send nudes to begin with lol. Not to say that every guy does this, but any guy friend that I’ve had or have never deletes their ex’s nudes. They’ll say they did but “forget” to actually do it or just want to ease the girl’s paranoia. One even has some sort of secret drive where he keeps nudes, sex tapes, etc that he gets off to. Even if the woman is married or in a serious relationship now, he still loves reliving those moments. They’ll use nudes as blackmail or leverage when the breakup is messy and the list goes on. I completely agree, when a breakup happens then consent is withdrawn but too often some men will not abide by that. So I’d rather not send anything at all, it’s just too risky.

  • I can't really delete them from my mind, but honestly I don't really want nudes from my man, rather see him in person. (:

    Chances are if he has any, he won't delete mine but I expect that If I gave him any.

    I am more likely to lose them than get around to deleting the ones I have.

    I have thousands of pictures that I take myself, for my photograph hobby (not nudes) and I am not the most organized on my computer, and they get lost. Then the Hard drive dies and well now unless your a retrieval expert they are technically gone.

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  • Good luck with any guys ever doing that.

    My dad told me two things a guy says to never believe...

    1) The check is in the mail

    2) Don't worry, I'll pull out before I cum

    I think I might add any guy ever deleting my nude pictures as #3 ... lol

    Your relationship changes, do you delete their nudes?
    • i think in this day and age, you may wanna eliminate #2

    • @laurieluvsit is that you on the left?

  • Only a fool would keep the evidence after uploading them to adult websites.

    (It's a joke people. I'd never do that.)

  • Wow! Next time a guy I’m seeing bitches because I won’t send him a picture of my genitalia, I’m sending him to THIS poll!
    I mean, deep down you know they don’t delete them, but it’s nice to think that they did!

  • I hate getting nudes. But i often delete their dick pics the same day. there's only one ex whose video i kept. I hate that mf and we only dated a few months. But he had a pretty dick and he jerked off at work for me. I haven't watched it in years but i can't bring myself to delete it haha

    • didn't know you was that dirty...

    • @Tdieseler lmao i consider that tame but you’re late to the party ig

    • maybe, i always thought you were on the up and up (boring)... well, maybe i'll pay closer attention now.

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  • I'd put them in a folder in my computer and delete them from any other devices.

  • Depends on the pic I think. Just him nude, yeah, I'd delete. If it has me too, then I would have to think more on it, maybe lean toward delete depending on how identifiable he is in the pic.

  • Consent is irrelevant. You give someone a picture and they can keep it forever. They can't publish it to anyone else because there are laws that prohibit that, but they have the right to keep it. . . unless you have a document, signed by them, acknowledging that you reserve the right to require the return of the image and all copies thereof at the end of the relationship. Do you have such a document signed by him?

  • I never thought about it like that before but I think you're probably right but at the same time after somebody sends me nudes I delete them anyway just out of respect for the person I mean I've held onto me for I have never even looked at them again until I might talk to that person again but yeah when you're starting all over there's no need to have something from somebody else that way you don't have to answer your questions when your new relationship see them or find them on your computer so just out of respect for everybody yeah I delete mine

  • I personally delete everything, including nudes - I don't see why I'd keep them if I'm not with that person anymore, just sounds a bit creepy but 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • Consent can't be withdrawn like that, it don't work that, it be like saying I have to throw away every gift after a break up and I don't have to, you gave it to me it's mine now, I will keep or get ride of whatever I want, it's my ( ours, yours, theirs, whatever you know what I mean) choice to make.

  • If it ended, absolutely.

  • never especially with the iphone cloud it’s memorial of life for us men. it’s like for example to make a woman understand, would you delete pictures you took of a great vacation a ex took you on if it was good memories, most likely not for most. we think of sex differently than women

  • Of course. Although we have none.

  • If we're no longer together, then there's no reason for me to keep your nudes, man.

  • Why would I delete them? She gave them to me as a gift, and I might like to keep them as a memory of our time together. Once you give someone a gift, you cannot withdraw your consent. If that's would you believe, you shouldn't be giving out nudes in the first place.

  • Yes, but I might save one.

  • I keep the nudes, they’re mine!


    But I don’t share with anyone.

  • Rolling my eyes into another dimension

  • I want everything gone of them

  • Nope. Only happened once though. Others were more conservative

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