Sexual Relationships 
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The Breast Size Obsession
So I've been seeing a lot of question on here about "Do guys like women with 32A/32B cups or whatever, and other questions about like "Are my breast to small" and whatnot. I've seen a lot of it on here about women letting there breast size effect them or there worth or whatnot. And I know I can't make it stop but I really wish women would feel more happy about the body they're in.
I understand where other people are coming from, they might feel like they're breast won't ever grow or they may feel left out that there friends get asked out more than they do. My thing is why does breast size have to matter? If a guys likes you for you and for your personality then that's all that should matter.
There is No Such Thing as the "Perfect" Size
Some breast are big and some are small, and some people are flat chested but that doesn't mean you just beat yourself up and just sit there and pout. Breast size shouldn't be the thing you use to attractive men or guys.
The way you attract men is by being yourself and loving the body you are in. I think there is no "perfect cup size." A's, B's, C's, who cares we all have them. Why can't we as women just be happy and love the body that were in. Sometimes I wish mine were bigger but I just work with what God gave me. I think women that let their breast size determine there worth have a low self-esteem and low confidence.
You Are Beautiful
Love your body, who cares if they aren't big at least you have some, some people don't have any. I would like to say that whoever is reading this that you are all beautiful, you don't need breast implants or something to boost your self-esteem to make guys like you. Love the body you're in, tell yourself that your beautiful, be yourself, of course. That's the best thing a person can be.
I hope this sums up the title of myTake, I wish I could help you all that are maybe insecure or whatnot. I guess the best thing I can do is just give advice. Don't ever let someone tell you that your not pretty or your breasts are not big enough. Who cares, as long as you are yourself and you love yourself and have a bright personality then that's all that should matter.
Know Your Worth
Those of you that may wish you breasts were bigger you don't want them trust me, you'll end up having back pain like me when I get older. Be happy and thankful with what you have, and another thing never get implants please, they aren't good for your health and they have some side effects. Know your worth and love your body, you are beautiful.
What Girls & Guys Said
108 54I've gotten made fun of for my boobs being small and it's so annoying.
Right? I've always hated it.
1. It's not affecting your confidence unless you let them too
2. At the ages of under 18, yes probably most guys will want a girl with big boobs ( same can go after too, it's just that even though big boobs may be nice, I doubt every guy you like will reject you because of small boobs, or guys won't approach you because of them)
3. When you start embracing it or not caring you will realize guys care about other things than your boobs too.
4. Guys have different preferences
5. If it has come to the point where you think boobs affect your dating life or confidence, bad news.
Thanks so much for posting this! I'm comfortable with my body and breats size though I cannot say I have always been. Up until recently I was very self conscious about my cup size but someone came along about a month ago and helped me realize that I really am beautiful exactly the way that I am. I appreciate your post, many girls and some women need to hear this as well :)
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I like them all. honestly girls, size doesn't matter
Breast size is an obsession of women. While men might make rude comments from time to time, truth is that they really don't care about breast size. As far as bodies go, men care most about a physically fit body, with curves in the appropriate locations. But if it is an A curve of a D curve, or somewhere in between, I just don't believe men care. I would worry more about a flat butt than a flat chest, but that's just me talking. I had a very flat-chested college roommate who put it like this -- "I never had a guy tell me to put my top back on because my boobs were just too small." She's marred now to a great guy, and I can't see how in any way that her sub-A breasts have caused her any negative issues in life.
I'm 36D now and I love my breasts because they're very lifted as if I'm wearing a bra when I'm actually not (bc of my intense workouts) and they're round and look good but boobs are not always perfect, as much as I love mine I'm very insecure because they're not even. like one is bigger than the other I understand its normal but since mine are big they look way odd. its very noticeable. i know as much as people and even your bfs/husbands/whatev tell you you look perfect and whatnot, you'll still be a little insecure and to be honest i find that completely normal and common.
Funny thing 32A to 36D in 3 years.. I feel the exact same about my bust. Too small... HA women are extremely critical of ourselves. Sure men value looks, but you'd be surprised to hear some things men say to me in confidence. I was freaking out about my new body and my husband adores it. Making up negative conversation in your head doesn't mean he really said, or thinks any of it.
Having the big ones is not fun. Whenever I aim to lose weight I am so happy to shrink up top!
Haven't you ever seen a girl with small, tiny boobies get married?
I know a gal named Shanna with a tiny little A cup. Just a little bigger than a boy... JUST. She is the most darling. sweet gal with a sparking personality. If I was young I'd marry her in a second. And I'm a a big breast man too. What do I prefer... D cups. My wife has B cups. What would marry... A cup. It is the girl... not the boob size.
Ladies... just do the best you can with what you have. Don't obsess and fritter your life away. Develop true inner beauty that supports your outer beauty. There are plenty of guys that would love to worship you... you just have to find them. Personality and disposition is the bottom line ladies... not big tits.. Sure boobies are important. But if you just go by what your dick tells you, there may be problems down the road. There must be beauty within and not just beauty on the outside. Once the outer beauty fades, what is left if there is not inner beauty?
Lots of things make up a gal, not just face and body such as: femininity, sweetness, adorability, sexiness, honesty, smarts, loyalty, being able to accept being worshipped and pampered, healthy habits, clean, not too many bad habits, orgasmic.
Check out Excalibur Films online and search for small breasted adult videos. They have 467 'X' rated small to flat chested pornos. And that is just one company. Small breasted girls are hot in another way than the big titted gals. The small, flat chested girls look like little teens! So, there you go... you can have your 'under age' fantasy going.
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Good luck and I hope you find peace with your little boobies ladies!
exactly! as long as you have a pretty face the rest doesn't matter!
yeah im a small boobs man too! they are much more sensitive and perky
Hmph, see girls, muchhh more men like small boobs! Be fucking grateful! Mine are huge and i have veen. blown off soooo many times :,(
I have large breast, and I've become really insecure about them. Mostly because I have to get shirts a size bigger then what I actually wear, finding bra's that fit comfortably is a hassle, and lets not forget the "are your boobs fake" or "do you stuff your bra?" from the girls and the perverted "nice tits" from the guys, and the fact that most guys just wanna date me FOR my breast. I love my breast I really do, but they are the largest part of where my insecurities come from.
My mom seems to think it's funny to make fun of my body. Things like "you could get away with a boy sized shirt. They don't have any shape and you don't exactly either" and "yeah, you can fit your butt through there. All 2 inches of it" and when I was trying on dresses for a band concert "why does it matter? Not much in the chest area and no hips. Chill"
For a girl my size and age, I am quite curvy and have a heavy behind side and top side. So her comments are just uncalled for.
I have big ones... really...
And I don't feel any more confident about it. O. o
/because of it.
I hear you, I'm a D cup the biggest of my friends and I don't like it, I constantly catch guys staring at my chest it's annoying. I can't wear low cut shirts wwitouy dealing with perverts. Luckily I go for guys with personality, and ones who like me for me, not some douche who only wants me for my body.
I have small tits and I've had zero issues with getting checked out, as well as no success avoiding perverts.
I'm a C but I'm blessed with what I have, what i mean is I wish women with A cups or B cups or whatever small size cup they have wouldn't feel like they have to get implants or something just to get a guy to like them or whatnot. There's more to a women besides her cup size. But anyways I'm just trying to help other people, my mom has big ones too she's a D cup but she doesn't have back pain or anything like that. I might have that when I'm older.
I understand that a lot of smaller breast girls are frustrated and insecure. But it does go both ways. I am a D cup, and coincidentally, as I type this, I'm crying, because I'm unable to find a bra that fits me, even though I've been fitted, I feel uncomfortable in my own skin, and my boobs feel saggy. And then I'm constantly reminded on here by so many users that "you don't want big boobs, they sag and give you back problems". It's not only smaller breasted girls who are insecure, believe me.
yeah none of the extremes are good right
I agree with that. I have small boobs myself, and I don't like to hear people say "oh small boobs are better cuz they won't sag or whatever". But you have to realize one thing honey. As insecure as you are about your big boobs or whatever, there are sooooo many small chested ladies who are. And guess what? There are a lot more breast augmentation surgeries being done than breast reduction. And even then, the breast augmentation surgeries are being done for mostly superficial reasons, and serve no health benefit. In fact, they put the female at such a high risk, even death. While the breast reduction surgeries are usually done, they actually have health benefits (breast reductions are usually done for back problems not because the woman actually "hates" her boobs , unlike small breasted ladies). I understand it sucks at both ends, and I wish people wouldn't feel the need to bring down any body part. But there are so many more breast augmentation as opposed to breast reductions
(continued) . . being done because girls are unhappy with their breast size. So although bigger breast ladies may be unhappy about their breast size, so are small breast ladies. But the difference is, us small breast ladies are actually doing something about it and even risking our lives to change it. I know I myself am considering breast implants. Shallow, selfish, yea I know I'm a monster. But since I was younger, I have always wanted boobs. Mother nature cheated me out of this. And I will probably get a boob job at 30, so in about 7 years.
@BuchitaBuchys I think either I'm misunderstanding you, or you're misunderstanding me, but I said nothing about smaller chested girls at all. I'm very aware that they go through a lot of issues with their self esteem as well, which I stated. I don't think it's a matter of "smaller chested girls are doing something about it, and big breasted girls aren't". I also don't think it's possible to say one has it harder than the other. Girls in general have a lot of body image issues, and until we stop kicking each other down, we can't expect men to support us either.
@BuchitaBuchys Oh, and if you think a breast job will make you happy, then by all means! Although be sure you know and understand the risks very well before committing to that. I'm sure you will look beautiful either way. ^^
Oh I agree with that. I do not like this constant pitting woman against woman for male approval. But I'm saying it that the issue with small breasted women is more severe atm. Women are literally dying to increase their bust. Not saying that busty women don't have issues, but no woman has died from breast reduction. And us small bust ladies are literally willing to inject items into our body and even die to feel accepted. The issue at hand is that there are so many women willing to die for big boobs, that serve absolutely no health benefits. While breast reductions are done more so for health reasons. Busty women say they hate their big boobs, but the numbers don't lie. Small chested women are going under the knife at an alarming rate. Even girls younger than 18 are getting implants. We may all have insecurities, but the actions that small bust women are doing is a little more risky (breast augmentation).
Lol thanks. I'm still deciding whether or not to go through with it. On one hand it's very risky, and need for re-do in a few years, and has negative social stigma. But on the other hand, boobs. Haha I'll make my decision by 30. If I'm not happy with my body by then, under knife I go.
@BuchitaBuchys Be prepared for awkward fitting clothes! Trust me. That's one thing I hateeeeee so much about my boobs. Sometimes, I feel like I don't even want to be seen in public, because all my clothes will fit me awkwardly, because my boobs get in the way. Although you know, I've done a lot of research on this subject over the years, and I really think the issue is not your boobs, or my boobs, or anyone's boobs. I think the big issue is the pressure media puts on us to be "perfect". Most, if not all, pictures in magazines are unrealistically altered, where no real woman could naturally fit that ideal. So we are endlessly striving for that perfect body, when it's not attainable. I think people just need to look for the beauty in others rather than our flaws, right? :)
Amen sista! Im 34HH... at least ou dont have to drive an hour and a half to but 60-70 dollar bras...
I'm pear shaped so my boobs aren't too big, but I make up for it with a nice butt, haha! Point being, there are ups and downs to everything. I like my A cups because I think having smaller boobs make me look slimmer and really highlights my small waist. Plus, I can go without a bra sometimes and no one can tell (which just adds a whole new level to comfort dressing). I've noticed I personally don't care what size breasts a girl has because I'm more interested in her pretty face and beautiful hip to waist ratio. Guy or girl, not everyone's a boob fanatic.
I always used to want bigger ones but then when I had a baby they got bigger and I actually hated them and thought they were really annoying. And my boyfriend said that he couldn't wait until they were back down to their normal size because he liked them smaller. I was pleasantly surprised that he said that haha and now I enjoy being smaller. I'm super thin so it just suits me. I would look ridiculous having big ones, I thought it looked so ridiculous when I did!
I'm insecure of my girls because they have stretch marks haha. In the butt department hmm, they're like Ariana Grande flat.
a pretty face and nice eyes are more important ;)
I would say a lot of downsides to having big boobs as in like C+. If you try leaning over something to reach it ends up very painful. They get in the way a lot even with your arms they get in the way. Sometimes It can stretch your shirts and stuff. If you jump a lot all that yanking on your chest feels very weird. Having big boobs you end up getting a lot of unwanted attention. Like in high school if I wore a shirt that had any opening. Guys would try to play paper basket ball with them. With bathing suits I feel like my boobs are going to fall out at any second. If you try to play sports they will get in the way if you have to use your chest. Big boobs tend to make more things awkward.